Husband Argues When Drinking?

I have been married for 38 years. I am 55 years old. In all these years my mother-in-law has never liked me. She always liked to showed favor to her other daughter-in-law and son. Now she is 86 years old and sick. My drinking husband is saying it's my fault because he says I never liked her when she is the one that never liked me or our sons, her grandsons, for many years.

My husband likes to drink and every time he's home he fights with me now. The fights are about his assertion that I never liked his mother; I am so tired of it all. I love my husband, I just want him to stop yelling at me about anything and everything all the time. All I ever wanted is to be loved.

By Margie from Fontana, CA