How to get through gift giving for the holidays without breaking the bank.
I'm the first to admit I am one of the least organized people I know. That being said, when it comes to saving money I am a little less lazy than some people but don't get it confused with my terrible organization skills! When the weather starts getting cooler and the leaves are changing colours, it's always my cue to start preparing gifts for the holidays.
Part of my motivation for starting early is that I very much dislike shopping, even more so when the stores are filled with people pushing each other and throwing their stressful negative energy at me. The last thing I want to do is try to find something for "so and so" a week before Yule and pay premium price for it. Not only does it stress me out but what ends up happening is that I probably purchase an OK gift because that's all I could find in a short period of time.
That being said, I make a list of people I have to get special things for, usually close friends and my mom since I do not have other family members to purchase for. I think about what these people are interested in, perhaps they've mentioned something, a new hobby or interest or something they've had their eye on lately. I put a lot of thought into what to get but the challenge is that I can not spend more than a certain amount in total.
For example, I have a friend who is very interested in South Africa. He loves maps and history. So I emailed the South Africa tourism board a few months ahead of time letting them know what I was looking for. I also purchased a book found online discounted for $5 on South Africa's history. Not only is this gift almost free, but it's something he will love and cherish because some thought was put into it.
I have another friend who has many of the same interests as I do. For her, it was a bit more challenging as the things tend to cost more than $5. I looked on Etsy.com for tons of things she'd love but so many items were priced at more than what I could afford. I settled on a few things and tried to see if I could find it locally (usually handmade things I don't make myself) by sending out emails to local e-groups I am on. Also check the local art school if you are looking for crafty things!
Moms are hard to shop for because at least in my mom's case, she doesn't need anything and she can purchase anything she wants. She is always happy with my handmade goodies, so I give her a few more soaps and candles and never have to actually go out and get anything extra for her. In the past I had done this but she ended up mostly raving about the handmade stuff!
Another friend of mine just purchased DJ turntables, "old skool"....so finding vinyl records for him was a lot of fun! So many thrift stores have records for $1 so I just bought a few and that was that! I had to go to a few different stores throughout the fall/winter until I found what he would like.
My hubby is tough to shop for because he's a real techie geek and loves fancy expensive gadgets. He usually saves up for them himself which means I don't need to buy them, nor would I anyway! We rarely purchase each other gifts anyway but for Yule, I love to surprise him with fun goodies. I usually go to a thrift store and buy fun things and fill a bag for under $10.
I also collect airmiles and although I need to use them for myself most of the time (for grocery gift certificates), I sometimes collect enough to get someone a $10 coffee card and 2-1 movie gift certificates which are always appreciated!
Another thing I do, is collect freebies all year long by going to those freebie sites. I end up with a box full of cool things that end up making really cool goodie bags! A nice thing to do is purchase gift certificates throughout the year so by the time the holidays come around, i don't need to spend any money. I have a special box in my room with things I've acquired free or gift certificates I purchased while the store was having a special sale. This box is amazing for last minute gifts, even for birthdays. Sometimes I think my room looks like a store!
Personally I get a lot of satisfaction out of all of this which is why I am so passionate about it. Not everyone likes to do this or take the time to shop around. Here's something easy to follow: No matter what time of year it is, if you come across something on sale or that you know your friend or family member will love, get it. Store it away and when a birthday or holiday comes, you already have something for them! :)
Here are some other cool gifts for people: Plants you grew from cuttings in a funky pot that you spray painted, A DVD full of ripped movies or CD with music or podcasts, calendars made with photos you took (this can be done in MS publisher), Thrift store gift certificates, Gift certificates for the local cosmetology school, Gifts in a Jar (like cookies, cakes..google for recipes)
Also remember to email companies for coupons or free samples of things!
Happy Gift Giving!
By Lisa from Halifax
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