If a spouse or parent dies, you may be eligible for Social Security survivor benefits. This is a guide about receiving Social Security survivor benefits.
Here are questions related to Receiving Social Security Survivor Benefits.
My brother recently died and he has two children. Their mother receives their money now; she is not giving it to them. Can they switch it over to mother or I?
By April 02/16/2014
My children get ss since their father passed away. The money is for their food, their share of rent or mortgage, utilities, insurance, dental, eye glasses, class ring, yearbook, clothing, shoes, their share of a overnight trip if we take one, field trips.
If you look at the check, you will notice it is made to the adult whom they live with. Mine is made out to me, "on behalf of" their name. The money is not to be given to the children to blow. On the other hand, my kids are in high school now, so I am saving part for college, and I do give them each an allowance out of it.
By redhatterb 02/16/2014
Are the kids minors? As a whole the money is intended to support them, not for them to spend on whatever they want. Furthermore, it isn't needed for actual support, how do you know their mother isn't saving it for college? This is something like child support, which is intended to help provide the necessities that a kid needs, not to let them have all kinds of fun with it. Talk to your local Social Security Office and see what they say.
I am 18 years old with a 18 year old girlfriend. We have a beautiful daughter together that I love with all my heart. But here is the trick, I get a SS check for my father dying while I was still in school.
When my girlfriend gave birth I was forced to drop out to go to work to provide for them, but kept getting my check every month. I know this was wrong, but the check was the only thing getting us by. Now 9 months after I dropped out I have to file taxes for the year of 2013 and I'm worried.
What's the worst that could happen? and what are the steps to making it right? My family can't afford for me to be locked up and I just need advise. Please reply as quickly as possible. Thank you.
By cybergrannie 02/28/2014
I certainly agree that you need to go to your SS office as soon as possible so you will know where you stand.
I would like to add that I applaud you for wanting to do the right thing as I know some people would not take this stand and just wait to see if they were ever "caught".
I do not know how much money you make each month but you may be eligible for some sort of assistance and even a small amount might help.
According to what solution the SS offers you, it may be wise to try and get some legal advise. Go to your local church and see if they can recommend someone to help you.
I hope they will let you pay it off in small monthly payments.
Good luck and please - go to your SS office and do not take advise from just "anyone".
By redhatterb 02/27/2014
Your best answer would be to talk to your local Social Security Office. My guess is you will be expected to pay all or part of it back. Didn't your mother advise you on what to do at the time you dropped out of school?
My father passed away when I was in the fourth grade. I'm just now graduating high school and am about to turn 18. I was receiving Social Security, he was also disabled when he died. Can I still receive it for college?
By Caleb from Chickasha, OK
By cybergrannie 02/28/2014
Hi - only the SS office can answer your question.
Be sure to take yours and your dad's SS numbers, as well as a copy of his death certificate.
You may not receive the same benefits but you may be able to get some money for college. Be sure to check with your school's counselor for the kinds of help you may be eligible for.
Good luck and please stay in college if you can.
By Brianna P.02/27/2014
You'll have to get proof of paternity through family court to get the father's name on the birth certificate. I'm going through it now even though my son's grandmother called right after his father died and they said to just come in. I don't need anything. Good thing when I got his birth certificate without his father's name, I called and figured out how to get it on there or I'd be waiting longer than I already have to. I have a court date next month then I have to make another SS appointment once I have the proof.
My niece lost her mother (my twin sister) 10 years ago, and we recently found out her biological father passed away 4months ago. I have guardianship of her now, and she is 15 years old. Can she receive benefits from her biological father as well or can she receive benefits in place of the amount she currently is getting from her mom's passing?
By cybergrannie 02/25/2014
redhatterb is absolutely correct - the Social Security office is the only place that can give you the correct answer.
I can tell you this much from experience - You should be able to chose which person to receive benefits from so you should be able to choose the highest benefit. It will go smoother if you have their social security numbers.
You will only receive benefits from one person.
By redhatterb 02/23/2014
Call your local Social Security Office and talk to them. They are the only people that will know the correct answer.
My father died 3 years ago of cancer at a young age. Am I able to get his Social Security benefits? I am a single mom of two and I am having a hard time making ends meet. This would help me greatly.
By redhatterb 01/21/2014
I'm not sure about this, but being you are an adult I honestly don't see how you would qualify for survivor's benefits from your late Dad's Social Security. It would be different if you had a spouse and he had died. Call your local Social Security Office and make an appointment to talk to them. You aren't the only one having a hard time making ends meet, there are a lot of people in that situation.
My father passed away 2 years ago and my mom receives survivor benefits for both me and my younger sister, who will be 16 next month. My sister is planning on getting engaged and the boy's mother will be her legal guardian. I don't understand much of the situation, so I apologize if this makes no sense. Will my mom still receive the benefits for my sister after this process takes place? She will still be attending school.
By cybergrannie 04/21/2015
The persons involved in all of this will have to be the ones asking the questions - and - the Social Security office is the only place to get accurate answers.
Is your mother still receiving benefits for you as well?
It appears that your younger sister is almost 16 then your benefits will soon be ending?
Bear in mind that benefits are paid for care/support of the child until they reach 18-19 and are still in school.
I also believe the "guardian' has to be a legal action and benefits may change if the child marries.
All of these variables are the reason to go to the SS office for answers.
My brother is disabled and doesn't get a lot from a disability check of $740 monthly. He would not be able to live on it if something were to happen to my mother. If my mother were to die, can my brother collect her SS or survivor benefits? They live together now; my father is deceased.
By redhatterb 04/19/2015
Your family should be getting your brother on a waiting list for a rent subsidized apartment. The rent for them runs roughly 30% of a person's income. Most apartments have a good portion of the utilities included in the rent. Also he should qualify for some food stamps.
Has he had any training on how to live independently? If not, he should be receiving some of that. He should know how to shop, do laundry, dishes, a little cooking. Is he working part time, which is something that he should be doing too, he should have a case manager to help him find a job. I have a 46 year old mentally handicapped daughter that lives with me and with our income combined, which both are Social Security, we get rent assistance for our apartment and when I am gone the rent assistance will automatically roll over to her. She has known how to do the laundry for about 20 years, it was a learning process because I knew someday she would have to do it on her own. She also knows how to shop for groceries and how to ask a store employee for help if she needs it. I have taught her how to load the dishwasher, and being she will be on her own in the near future, because I have a new health problem that will make it so that she has to become independent quite soon.
She also has a case managers that when I am gone they will help her pay bills, help her shop, etc. Being my health has taken a turn for the worse, I am also looking at different types of frozen foods that can be heated in the microwave so she won't have to mess with the stove. She has learned how to heat cheeseburger sliders that are in the frozen food department, you can buy french fries that can be heated in the microwave, single serve size pizzas that can be done in the oven or microwave, there is also something called scramblers that are scrambled eggs with diced bacon on some type of a crust.
You can buy small containers of potato salad in deli departments, franks can be heated in the microwave. There is a lot your brother is going to have to know, unless you are planning on taking him in. I don't know what kind of training he has had, but I get the idea from your complaint that he hasn't had a lot of training. My daughter is capable of living alone with the help of her case managers.
As far as help from Social Security goes, if your parents worked enough to draw Social Security when they die, your brother should receive a certain percentage in Survivor's Benefits. I don't know exactly how that is figured, I am going to have to call our SS Office and talk to them about that matter too. I do know the parents have to work a certain period of time in order to qualify.
My daughter's father died and she receives death benefits. I was wondering if she will still receive them if my new husband adopts her?
By Cyndie from Boone, IA
By cybergrannie 03/06/2015
Get correct answers at your Social Security office. Very easy to do but may entail a short/long wait - sometimes you can call and make an appointment but still may have a "wait".
I believe that if your daughter is adopted by your present husband her legal status will change and she will no longer be eligible for benefits from her "former/biological" father.
Rules change in all government services so please get your answers from the SS office so you can make an informed choice as to whether this is a good idea. I believe you really need to think about why/reasons you want to do this. Maybe discuss this with a representative of the family services division in your city as there may be other ways to accomplish your "reasons".
My father passed away and I received something in the mail that he is entitled to a little more Social Security, however they require my birth certificate which I can not find. It also states something about wanting the birth certificates of next of kin which would be my siblings, so could I just possibly use one or all of theirs and not mine?
By Jeff. O
By redhatterb 01/22/2014
Look up your state online and when you look at different parts of the site, it will tell you how to go about obtaining different certificates. There will probably even be a form that you can print out, fill out and send it to the proper address. Some states also have it set up that you can go to your county courthouse and apply for the certificates that you need. There will be a fee to obtain the copies and where I live that is $15.00 for each certificate.
I divorced my daughter's father 10 years ago. About 4 years ago I found out that my daughter qualified to received SS benefits because, I believe, her father was mentally disabled. The woman at the SS office wouldn't reveal what the circumstances were, but she had a look on her face like something was extremely unusual.
The ex was receiving SS and did not pay child support. My question is this; my daughter is turning 18 in June and intends on attending a 4 year college this fall. I found out, about a year ago, that her father was no longer picking up his SS checks and hadn't for a couple of years and actually was unable to be traced. He is pretty much missing. Would my daughter qualify to continue receiving SS since she is going in to college and what if her father actually is deceased? Would that qualify her for any assistance? The family, that I keep in touch with, has not heard from him for years. At one point, prior to no longer being heard from, he was living in the streets and homeless.
By cybergrannie 02/24/2014
You should be able to get all the information you need from your local SS office. The only information you need on your ex-husband is his SS number and your daughter's SS number. Age may be a factor here also.
Pay a visit to your local SS office as they are the only ones that can tell you about any benefits.
My friend's husband died of lung cancer/Agent Orange in 1984, after retiring from the navy. She never received his Social Security benefits. Is she still entitled to them after all these years?
By cybergrannie 02/24/2014
I believe this is a question your friend needs to address to the SS office in person.
My 18 year old daughter starts college in August of 2014. Does she continue to draw her dad's Social Security death benefits?
By Christina H.
By Paula Jo C. 02/17/2014
I believe as long as they are in school they are able to receive the monies. Why not go to the Social Security Office to get an answer to your question from the ones working there. I think you would be more comfortable having the answer coming from the folks that really know the answer because they work there wouldn't you? I know I would.
I am 17 yrs old and I am wanting to move out of my parents' house. I was wondering who my check will go to when I do move out?
By redhatterb 02/10/2014
Do you plan on moving out before you are 18? This is something that you and your mother are going to have to make arrangements to go to your local Social Security Office and talk to them about. I might be wrong, but as long as you are a minor the checks go to your parents for your support or if they can afford to put them in savings for college. That being said, I have always heard the checks stop when a child turns 18 or graduates from high school.
Recently my 6 year old daughter's father passed away. I have tried applying for survivor benefits for her twice now. Each time I have brought in her birth certificate, which has his name on it, his death certificate, and a copy of acknowledement of paternity which was provided by vital records in the state my child was born in.
The problem is the AOP I have is not certified and I have been told time and again that I cannot get a certified copy of AOP in the state of New Mexico. Social Security is not accepting my copy and continues to deny my case.
By cybergrannie 04/22/2015
I believe you should seek help through an attorney who specializes in Social Security matters as they can find a way to resolve this. Many attorneys in this field will take your case without payment until your claim is approved. Make sure you read everything before signing as attorneys charge differently but it is usually a one time fee and generally based on your back payment check and maybe 2 or 3 months of your benefit. There are also different laws in many states so be careful of what you sign. Read everything and ask questions.
Be sure you have all of your papers concerning this matter and maybe you will receive back payment from the first time you filed for benefits. I hope you really filed for benefits and did not just take the word of a SSA clerk.
Can I receive my stepfather's SSI benefits? I am 44 years old.
By David from Brandon, FL
By redhatterb 02/16/2015
Talk to the people in your local Social Security Office. They are the ones that know the correct answer. I have only ever heard of minor children and/or spouses receiving Survivor Benefits. Usually the kids lose their benefits between the ages of 16-19.
Will I still receive my check if my mom signs guardianship over to her boyfriend?
By redhatterb 02/25/2014
How old are you? If you are 18 and have graduated from high school you shouldn't receive survivor's benefits anyway. If you are a minor the check doesn't go directly to you, anyway, because it is supposed to be used to support you. Talk to your local Social Security Office.
My mom passed away when I was 15, and my dad has never been in the picture so my brother took guardianship of me. We went to Social Security to see if I could get survivor's benefits and they denied us. Shouldn't I be getting Social Security money until I turn 18? Please help, I don't know what to do or how to go about this.
By Anthony M.
By redhatterb 02/20/2014
Did the Social Security Office tell you why you were denied? There has to be a reason. There is a possibility that your parents have never paid into Social Security, and if they did, not long enough to qualify for drawing benefits. You should receive a letter from them explaining the reason why you were denied. That being said none of us can answer your question.
My mom pass away in December. She had been fighting for her Social Security for a few years. Will her family be able to receive her back pay?
By redhatterb 02/06/2014
Had your Mom been approved for Social Security at the time of her death? Either way I don't know why the family would receive the back pay. If the kids are adults they aren't entitled survivor's benefits because they are supposed to be able to take care of themselves. Call your local Social Security Office and talk to them, they know the answer to your question.
My granddaughter's mother passed away. She lives with her mother's parents. Her father is still alive, paternity was established and child support was ordered, but they never let the child interact with him. I see my granddaughter every weekend. I was wondering if I can find out if my granddaughter is receiving death benefits from social security?
By redhatterb 01/14/2014
Why should this be any concern of yours? It was your grandaughter's mother that passed away and the child is living with her maternal grandparents. They are the ones supporting her. You get to see her every week end, why hasn't your son been able to see her? There must be a good reason for that. I would say if you were the one raising her then you should be getting survivor''s benefits. That being said people have to work a certain amount of time in order to receive Social Security and I would think that same rule would apply to survivor's benefits. Call your local Social Security Office and talk to them but more than likely they will tell you they are unable to give you any information.
My ex passed away March 14th. We have 2 children together. My question is are they eligible to receive SSI benefits? One of the children is his biologically, but the other one was fathered by someone else.
My ex was the only dad he has ever known, he's even got his last name. I also have the paper they give you at the hospital, when a child is born for the father to sign, saying the child is theirs without a doubt. He signed that saying our son was his. I have several witnesses that can say he claimed him as being his son.
However, his name isn't on either birth certificate because a nurse at the hospital after the delivery, told me that if we added his name he would be responsible for the hospital bills. I knew we couldn't afford that so I left it as unknown. Will this matter?
By Tina T.09/12/2013
I applied for survivors benefits for my daughter when she was 6 months and was denied like 6 times. They said that she would need a paternity test. Her father is deceased, he died before she was born. They said that I would have to get a paternity test from someone in his family so I paid for a paternity test and his mother agreed to take it. It came back that she was the grandmother.
When I showed them the test, they approved it and she received 1300 in back pay and 223 a month for a year. When they approved me for it, I wanted to appeal the back pay because I didn't think it was right. I was down to the last appeal to see the judge. I went in the office to appeal it and they didn't give me the proper paper work so they end up letting my 90 days expire and said in the notes that I was ok with the backpay decision. I kept asking about the appeal and was basically told that no decision had been made and that they would contact me. So I called the toll free number to speak with someone and was told that the appeal had never been filed. So they put it in the notes for them to get in touch with me. I went the next day and told them I wanted to check on the appeal and the guy said they had to do some research on my case and they would get in touch with me but never did. The next week when I went up there, they said that they overpayed me and that she wasn't supposed to be getting the money because they couldn't used the DNA from his mother. Can they do that?
My grandson received benefits after his mother's passing. He is now 18 and graduated from high school at the end of May. Will he get final check in June? He is going to college full time in August. Also will benefits continue since he'll be a full time student?
By Barbara B.
By Melinda Woods J.10/28/2014
I can answer this for you if you haven't had an answer by now. Benefits stop after a child graduates from high school. They no longer pay benefits for full time college students.
I just found out my ex-husband died; we were married for 16 years, but divorced for 33. I also just found out he remarried, but am not sure for how long. Do I get my ex-husband's survivor's benefits or do I have to share with the current wife? They couldn't have been married for more than 10 years because she was still married to someone else in 2004. Thanks.
By LD Jones
By cybergrannie 04/18/2015
Books are nice and have a lot of information but laws/rules change frequently and it is rare that a book can cover all factors of something like this.
You can get all the current/up-to-date information/answers if you pay a visit to your SSA office. You do not state how old you are but I assume you are currently drawing SS benefits or plan to soon?
I am sure you were married long enough to draw from your ex-husbands earnings but you can make a choice between his benefits and your personal benefits when you apply. Your decision of course would be based on the amount of each benefit. If you are presently drawing benefits you can change if his benefit is higher.
I believe you may need your ex-husbands SS number as well as a copy of your marriage certificate and your divorce degree - but you get some preliminary answers with just your ex's SS number and they will tell you what papers you will need to get full disclosure.
I was told that my late husband's survivor benefits were reduced because another name was on his account. The person said that they couldn't divulge the name. How can I find out who it is?
By Judy W.04/21/2015
Either a former spouse was collecting benefits and/or a child that you had no knowledge of. Go to your local office and speak personally with the manager. Perhaps if you ask if it was a spouse, first then if not a child, they may accommodate your questions without actually divulging private information.
Could this be fraud or is the law being bent? My husband was previously married and had a child from that marriage. He and I were married a short time after his divorce and had children of our own. His ex did not want their child to know about his dad and had him adopted by another man, someone who had been part of his life the whole time.
My husband, then died 7 months after it was finalized. Because my husband relinquished his rights and all financial obligations, how are they able to claim survivors benifets if the law clearly states my husband had to be the legal guardian of his child and was not?
By Confused -N
By cybergrannie 05/17/2014
I applaud Charlotte Lenox for stating that fraud is everyone's business as I surely agree.
I do feel that reporting anything should be done by the person who sees it or becomes aware of it. Reporting can also be done anonymously either on the telephone or in writing. All Reports are taken seriously and resolution has to be documented.
I work part-time in this type of environment and know that some people change their mind after they get to the office - conscience? - or - afraid their identity will be disclosed? No one should feel guilty about reporting someone who is abusing the system because - after all - we are the tax payers.
The "guilty" party may surmise as to who they think reported them but all reports are kept confidential unless a paper is signed giving permission to disclose your name.
My ex and I were married for over 34 years. Can I get his Social Security although we were not married when he passed away?
By M. T
By cybergrannie 07/11/2013
Hi - you can draw from your ex-husband's social security if you are eligible for SS and was married over 5 years - and if you have not remarried and your own amount is less than what you would receive from his.
I believe the amount from his will be 1/2 of his total but Social Security benefits are changing all the time so you will need to go to your local office for the "truth".
I would carry divorce papers and you will need the date of marriage also - carry your wedding certificate if you have it. They should have the date you changed your last name on record with other information.
My son was born in January of last year. His father and I were not married and his dad lived in a different state. My son was born on a weekend and although his dad was there, nobody was there put him on the birth certificate. He never made it back down before he died in April. So my question is will the state of Tennessee help me get him on the birth certificate so that I can apply for the benefits?
By Becca J
By Carol Swanson 04/01/2013
Phone the National Toll Free Number for Social Security Administration to determine your rights.
How do I go about drawing Social Security for my child when his father died two months before he was born in 2007 and now here it is 2013?
By Ashley L.
By Janette 07/01/2013
You should have contacted SS the day he died. As soon as the child was born he would draw a SS check until the age of 18.
My son's father recently passed. We were not together and even though he didn't sign the birth certificate and wouldn't give his DNA for child support he was put down as the father and was ordered to pay child support, since he wouldn't fight it. My son is 4 years old. Will he receive a check off his father?
By Gina G
By Janette 07/01/2013
The deceasedents mother might have to provide her DNA. Parenthood can be established under the law. If mother isn't possible then his father.
I usually offer a tip, but now I have a question. My husband and I receive Social Security benefits. Does the surviving spouse receive a portion of decedent's SS benefit? If divorced? If so, what percentage? If someone can offer a link or other resource for the answer I would appreciate it. Thank you!
By eileen 06/08/2011
I had some months ago contacted SS office online by email. No response. Thanks to all of you!
My dad died when I was 11. I was then in the state's custody for 2-4 years and I was told that the state can't take your death benefits even when your in foster care. So my question is where did all of that money go?
By Emily from KY
By cybergrannie 02/09/2015
First - no one knows how old you are right now or if you are "self supporting" so it just may be irrelevant as to who got "all that money".
Foster care funds are paid to whoever is responsible for taking care of you. These funds/payments to foster parents may come from several sources - the first being SS benefits.
If you are under the age of 18-19 then benefits may still be available if you are still in school (not college).
Pay a visit to your SS office and ask questions.
If I would pass away before the age of 62 would my wife and daughter be a eligible for survivor benefits?
By weinerdog41 08/31/2014
One more thought....if your wife (after your death) remarries she will no longer receive benefits but the minor child or children will. When my Dad died my Mother's benefits stopped when she remarried my step-father but she continued to get benefits for my brother until he turned 18.
My father never married my mother, they lived together for more than fifty years. My father passed away October 27, 2013. Can my mother collect Social Security benefits even though they weren't married?
By cybergrannie 08/17/2014
weinerdog41 has a good point about "common law marriage" and there is a lot of information concerning this subject on the SS web site. The problem is that cases etc. can be very confusing and each one is a different situation.
A SS decision will be based on where you live (and where you lived at the time of cohabitation) as well as many other factors.
I believe this person should hire an attorney that specializes in SS benefits before she actually files as every statement made to the SS office will be recorded and just one incorrect comment could cause a lot of trouble in getting a good decision.
There is a child in this relationship and that many times acts in the persons favor - even if the child is now an adult.
I have a friend who has a daughter by her ex-boyfriend. He was killed in 2012. The daughter can't receive SS survival benefits because the father didn't have enough credits when he died. So she was denied. Is there anything else she could get? Does anybody know?
By cybergrannie 05/30/2014
Just a comment about "free" insurance with a bank: this type of insurance is usually always "accident" insurance and does not cover a "natural" death.
My husband passed and my 2 sons and I have been receiving the benefits! Both are in school, a 16 and 17 year old. As soon as the youngest turned 16 they sent me a letter saying that he will no longer receive benefits as he doesn't need care as a child! I do not understand.
By Andreia from Costa Mesa, CA
By susan 03/31/2014
Benefits usually last until the child turns 18 or graduates from high school. Maybe they misread the child's age or had it posted incorrectly. Call to get the info verified or corrected.
My sister and I were 12 and 17, when our father passed away. That was 16 years ago. He was 41 years old at the time. I'm not sure when he became a US citizen, but it must of been at least 5 years prior to his death. My question is how can I find out if we are now at this day and age eligible to receive his survival benefits if any and if these even apply?
By Liz N.
I have three daughters one is 18 and is graduating high school, I'm wanting to know if her benefit payments will be split amongst the other two who are 15 and 16.
My husband is wanting to adopt my daughter and she receives Social Security from her father who passed away while I was pregnant. Will she still get her Social Security checks if she takes my husband's last name and does not have her father's last name?
By Courtney P. from Knoxville, TN
By Janice Kasony 06/06/2011
My husband died of cancer in 1986 when my son was 18 months of age. My son received Social Security survivor's benefits until age 18, even though he was adopted by my husband after I remarried. We even got a replacement birth certificate with his "new" last name. Don't know if the rules have changed since then, so it's best to check with your local Social Security office.
When my dad died, my mom signed up for his Social Security when I wasn't living with her and used the money to fix up her boyfriend's house. How do I go about getting it back? I am turning 18 in a couple of weeks and need it to move out.
By cybergrannie 04/25/2015
You have already received great advice so you should realize by now that you probably/may not know enough about SS benefits.
If your mother is/was receiving benefits for your care/support then most likely they will terminate when you reach 18 or you no longer attend high school.
You can check/ask all of these questions with the SSA but most likely the only way for you to receive any of the "past" benefit money would be to sue your mother and be able to prove that she did not provide your support/care during that period of time.
The SSA may ask your mother for proof of your support/care during that time but most likely that is all they will require.
It looks like you will have to get a job and provide your own living expenses if you wish to "move out". Maybe it is time to review your present living conditions and stop looking for a "free ride".
I hope you have finished high school and can apply for jobs in your area or maybe make plans to further your education. Most people consider an 18 year old should be ready to support themselves so whatever you decide now may be one of the biggest decisions of your life.
Why not talk to your mother about how you feel and seek her help/support until you can provide for yourself?
My brother passed away. He was not married. Can an old girlfriend receive his benefits?
By Tj from Amarillo,TX
By cybergrannie 04/12/2015
If you are asking for the "old" girlfriend then it would be that person who should ask the question - at her local SSA office.
I do not believe there will be any benefits available unless there is a child involved. Benefits are not usually available to even a wife unless they have a child or are disabled.
My father died when I was around 12 and my mother collected survivor's benifts on my behalf. When I was 17, I started working and making a lot of money. So now my mother owes that money back. I am 19 now and I am wondering if the government will come after my tax refund to settle that debt?
By Jack R
By cybergrannie 03/27/2015
First - let me congratulate you on finding such a well paying job! You and/or your mother will have to visit the Social Security office to find out if in fact you have to pay anything back.
There are several questions the SS office will probably use/ask:
Did you continue living with your mother after you starting making "a lot of money"?
Were/are you still going to school?
Did your mother furnish any/all of your support after that date?
Did you file with IRS since you were 17 and making money on your own?
Is your mother still drawing benefits?
Please visit the SS office and get all of this cleared up as it is illegal to continue if the benefits are not used as stated.
I just found out my father passed away in 2004. I want to know could I get anything from his Social Security. My mom also passed away in 2011; could I get Social Security from her?
By Erica S.
By cybergrannie 03/13/2015
You will have to ask your questions at the Social Security office.
How old are you?
Are you still in school?
Are you disabled?
Social Security benefits from parents may still be available if you are still in high school as benefits like this are for a child's care while they are in school.
Benefits are paid to a guardian or to the child if they are taking care of their self.
If you are over 19 years of age then most likely there will not be any benefits available.
I got the benefits from my late husband transferred from me to my son. He is now 17 years old and still is in the 10th grade at high school. He will not finish high school until he is 19. Does he get the benefits until he is finished high school?
By cybergrannie 02/14/2015
Only the SS office can really tell you the correct answers.
Why did you transfer benefits to your son?
How is he using this money?
Is he still living at home?
Did he have problems at school to still be in a lower grade?
A child of 17 may not be truly capable of handling this amount of money and may cause him more trouble than good.
It is very difficult to understand why you made this change but many people may think you did not understand why YOU were receiving the benefit check.
It may be possible to change this so maybe when you ask questions about how long (or age) then it appears that would be a very good question to ask also.
My father-in-law passed away on 28/10/2014. We came to know that his daughter, who is in the USA, withdraw all his bank accounts saying that she need money to do the funeral. Can she claim that money from the Social Security without telling other the sister and brothers in Sri Lanka?
Please advise, thanks.
By Sarath from Staten Island, NY
By cybergrannie 02/11/2015
First of all - Social Security and bank accounts are 2 different "things". Death benefits from Social Security is 250.00 - period. Bank accounts would require legal papers of some sort (from your father-in-law) for someone to acquire the funds belonging to him.
Where was your father-in-law when he died? US or Sir-Lanka?
Did he have a will?
Did the daughter in fact, pay the funeral bills?
If you really feel you have rightful claim to anything that belonged to your father-in-law then you will need an attorney to sort it out for you.
I heard that you may get remarried and keep your benefits. It this true?
By Dinah Ackerson 02/09/2015
Out of curiosity, I checked the SSA website re remarrige and there is some information. However, you must go to an SSA office to learn specifically about your question and make any needed applications. You can try this SSA section:
http://www.socialsecurity.gov/OP_Ho ... dbook/handbook.04/handbook-0406.html
My son has been receiving survivor death benefits in the state of Florida since 2005. If he is adopted by a stepparent will his benefits end?
By cybergrannie 02/04/2015
The guardian of the child should discuss this with someone at your SS office as each case is different. Please be sure to inform the SS office of any changes so that everything is kept legal.
I'm 17 years old with a 10 month old. My mom gets a check for my dad being dead. She isn't using it to take care of me. If I said something could I get that check and have it in my name? I don't attend school because I'm having financial problems with transportation and day care fees. I can't provide for my son and me and if I took that check from her I'd have money to take care of myself.
By cybergrannie 01/28/2015
You should read and reread both previous responders answers as they are full of good information and advice.
Are you still living at home with your mother?
Where is the child's father in this picture?
Why is he not paying support?
What type of social services are you receiving for yourself and the child?
The benefits your mother receives is for your living expenses (not the child's) and it is suppose to be for you to attend school. All of this money will soon end and should have ended sooner than now.
Help with transportation and free child care is available for those really seeking work - you may have to "stay with mom" or get a job or make the father pay child support or even all three.
None of these will be an easy road - but you chose this path on your own many months ago.
My mother has recently passed away and I have taken guardianship of my younger sister who is seventeen years old. In my home I now have my husband and three children. My question is what are the benefits entitled to be spent on? My sister has it in her mind that she is to spend it on whatever she sees and wants. My sister says that it is her money and that she can do what she wants with her money.
By Mary D
By cybergrannie 01/01/2015
I believe it would be a natural thing for your 17 year old sister to want to think that any money received on her mother's behalf should be just for her "desires" the same as one would feel/think about an inheritance.
But of course this is not the case in receiving benefits from her mother's social security account. SS was originally set up to help provide for seniors when they could no longer work but still needed shelter, food and other essentials.
The principle is still the same except it is extended to take care of children of deceased workers. The benefit check may have your name and your sisters name but the money is provided to the person who is providing her care - shelter, food, clothing, school needs, and anything else necessary for her to survive. Of course, if possible, it would be nice to give her some "spending" money but it should only be after her needs are provided for.
I believe you really need to talk to a social security spokesperson and get informative answers to your very valid question. Since your sister is 17 it seems it would be best if she accompanied you to hear the answers from the agent instead of hearing them from you. This may help her to understand this check is not really an inheritance/gift for her to spend as she wishes. I believe the check would only go to her if she is living elsewhere and paying for her own living expenses.
Also, you may wish to ask how long the money will be provided and if there are any stipulations that may change this date.
My mother past away this month. She left behind me, my 12 year old brother, and her significant other (not married) but together for more than 15 years. There is no common law marriage in WA state. I am filing to be my little brother's SSI payee so I can protect him, and put his money in a trust for when he is an adult.
His father has just hired an attorney and is trying to sue me for control of his benefits, because he thinks that he deserves them and needs those benefits to pay his bills. My mother left no will, but told me to make sure I protected my brother's money because she was worried that her significant other would spend the money inappropriately, and not on her son's needs.
Do I need to get a lawyer? Does my mother's significant other have grounds to sue me? Or will the court see that I have my brother's best interest in mind. Please help!
By Louise B. 12/21/2014
If this man is the boy's father, there may be nothing that you can do. If he is not, than I don't think that he has any say in the matter, and you can take steps to get him out of the picture. However, that is just my opinion. You should consult a lawyer. If this person is unfit to look after your brother, than you will need to go to court to be appointed guardian. Where, by the way, is your brother living now?
Can I get any survivor benefits? My husband died in the Philippines November 6, 2014. We were married on December 6, 2010. I haven't been to the USA and I don't have a Social Security number.
By Marie B
I have had really good service from the Social Security Service Centers. They have helped me make good decision about when and how to apply as well as survivor benefits.
My father was in the navy during WWII. I am now on Social Security disability. It is difficult to live on a fixed income. I want to know if I, his daughter, can apply for Social Security benefits from my father.
By cybergrannie 11/24/2014
I hope you have paid a visit to your SS office for answers to your question.
I would like to add;
You can only receive one benefit check so - if - you are eligible under your father's SS then you would have to decide which name/number you will use for benefits. There may be a difference in the amount of money from one "name" to the other.
I'm 15 and I live with my uncle because my mother passed away when I was 7 and I don't know my dad. I'm not sure if I'm supposed to be getting money from my mother or if my uncle's hiding it from me.
By cybergrannie 11/12/2014
The other posters are certainly correct.Talk to your uncle first.
If he was made your legal guardian when your mother died then he should have been receiving benefits on your behalf if he is the one supplying you a place to live and taking care of your other needs (food, clothing, school supplies, etc.).
As a minor, You would have to establish that you are taking care of yourself (your own shelter, food and etc.) for benefits to go to you personally.
If you are not satisfied with the answers you receive from your uncle then you can get an adult to take you to your local Social Security office and ask your questions there.
Correct answers can only come from a visit to the SS office - not over the telephone.
My son receives SSDI from his father, who died 21 years ago. If he gets married will he lose those benefits? He is 39 years old.
By Susan V
By BACO 10/13/2014
Just call your local SSA office & ask (you don't need to go in to the office). If/when he gets married, he does need to report it to Social Security because it could affect his benefits. There is a LOT of wrong information out there. Ask the people that deal with SSA benefits.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 yrs, we have 6 yr old son. My boyfriend is married, but has been separated for 16 yrs, they have 2 children together. If he were to pass away, would my son be entitled to his Social Security benefits? Paternity was not legally established for our son, but there is no question that he is his father, (they look like twins) and he does not have any doubts about it. What do I need to do to secure my son is taken care of?
By Louise B. 09/26/2014
And urge your husband (if you've co-habited that long he is your husband, not a "boyfriend") to get a divorce from his other wife. This situation is too complicated for words, especially when there are multiple children involved. Where I live, if a couple lives together for 2 years, they have the same status as a couple who has been married. So not being divorced and living with someone else gives a fellow two spouses. And a tragic mess if there are children and property of any kind. The laws may be different where you live, but you can be sure it is complicated and messy in your situation. Urge him to tidy up his life and make the divorce legal.
My son's friend had moved in with my family due to family problems. His father had passed away years ago. He is 15 and still going to school. Could he get his benefit checks himself, because his mother won't help him? We are here to help a child out.
By B Johnson
By Jessica A.10/01/2014
You can receive his social security benefits. As long as he lives with you. It doesn't matter if you are his guardian or not, who ever he lives with will receive benefits to take care of him. My sister ran away and came and lived with me, and i now receive her benefits to take care of her since our father passed away. I am not yet her legal gaurdian.
My wife passed away, and I filed for death benefits for my 13-yr old children, everything was approved and I was advised they would receive 75% of my wife's earned SS, and they did for 2-months, then the amount of each was reduced to where it's now only 50% of what my wife would have been due. I received no notice, no explanation. Is this common?
By Scott S
By weinerdog41 08/20/2014
Like someone else said you probably should be getting something too. My Mother received checks for herself and my two Brothers until my last Brother turned 18.
My daughter's father died just before she turned 2, but when I got pregnant and had her he was married. He was married when he passed. The family knows about her, his parents know about her. Now she's 3, but he didn't sign the birth certificate and I'm trying to get a DNA test done by the grandmother. She's willing, but the wife is telling her different. What do I do so my daughter can receive benefits?
By Anonymous from Tulsa, OK
By cybergrannie 07/13/2014
You will have to go to your local SS office in person to find out what you have to do to prove who the father is.
You will have to get certified proof that your daughter's father is this person and it will be very expensive. There is not another way to claim benefits for your daughter but think about the rewards in future years and I believe it will be worth the expense.
What if you do not have the money to pay an attorney or for tests? Maybe you can find someone to help you if they believe you have a legitimate claim. Go to your Child & Family office in your city and they can tell you if there is anything they can do or maybe find you help at a reduced price.
Your claim for benefits will not affect any other claim by anyone else.
My dad was living with the woman, who I consider my step mother for over 30 years. She passed away June 17,2014. However they were never married. Can my father collect any of the Social Security that she was already receiving? Thank you for this information.
By Sonia C.
By cybergrannie 07/02/2014
Yours is one of those cases that (as usual) can only be answered by the social security office.
Is your dad drawing his own ss? Would her ss be more money? Otherwise - why would he draw her ss?
Can I change my benefits from my mom's name to mine? If so, how do I do it? I'm 17 and my father passed away when I was 12. I have not seen any of the money. I never knew I was getting money until I was informed by a family member.
By Semani L.
By melinda 05/21/2014
I don't think you can have the money changed to your name as of yet. I believe you have to be 18, though states might be different. I would go into a SS office and speak to someone regarding it.
Can a sister receive Social Security when brother passes? My brother is not married, with no children. When he passes can his SS benefits be passed on to his only surviving family member...his sister?
By Cataptra L.08/20/2014
This happened to my wife too, and I think it is ridiculous that SS does not allow a sibling to get these benefits, yes, he had a child, but she did not take care of her father, my wife did for many years during his disability and illness.
She drove him to Dr. appts., drove him anywhere he needed to go, he lived with us and that was a nightmare for me (her husband) because he was verbally abusive toward her and myself, he was also an alcoholic.
And we were the ones that had to make all the funeral arrangements, pay for whatever was needed, and we get zero in SS Death Benefits.
This needs to change so those that actually DO care for their brother or any sibling can get the death benefit.
I could see it going to his daughter providing she cared for him and he lived in her home! He did not.
We had that burden, she wouldn't even allow her father to come live with her because she wanted no responsibility for any of his problems.
So I think it is grossly unfair that my wife went through his abuse, and we pay out for everything and we can't even be entitled to the Death benefit which is a lousy $255?
Again, this needs to change for those that do the actual care and take on the expense of a sibling, no matter if a child or "divorced" spouse is living or not, if they did nothing they should get nothing, but as SS has it, they do nothing, someone else foots the bill, and they get "free money!" I'm sorry, there is something very wrong with this setup and it really angers me that we went through Hell and trials and tribulations with him, only for someone else to be able to collect that "Death benefit!
And they sure won't pass that money back to us (they won't even apply for it, and if they did, they would not give my wife a cent of it - that just is NOT right!), which, again, this SS Death benefit in my opinion is rightfully due my wife for what she endured taking care of him, and transporting him to the best of her own ability.
My mother had custody of my two daughters. They are both under the age of 7, and I would like to know if they can receive benefits because my mother had drawn Social Security for the last 8 years and she is now deceased. She had custody for the last 5 years now before her recent death.
By cybergrannie 05/04/2014
The first question as stated by another responder would be if your mother had legal custody given by the court? If she did then who has legal guardianship now - after her death?
I am sure that would have been set up by the court also. That is the person who should be going to the Social Security office for information on receiving benefits. No one else can obtain that information. You may be able to get general information other places - but not facts.
If by "custody" you mean they lived with her then most likely they cannot receive benefits - but - only the SS office can tell you for sure. But even if they are not eligible for SS benefits I am sure there are plenty of other benefits available for them and the person who takes care of them.
My father passed away, when I was 14 years old, on 4/20/2012. My mother applied for his death benefits for herself, my younger sister, and me. It was approved and she has been receiving it for quite some time, and still to this day. She isn't the best with money, it doesn't get spent on my sister or myself for food, clothing, or anything of that sort. We are all living with my grandmother and she pays for everything.
I will be turning 17, in a month. I was under the knowledge that when I turned 16 I could start receiving it myself, directly to me. I'm not the average teenager who wants it just to waste it away; I have a part-time job. I am ending my junior year right now and am ahead of the game. I'm starting college this summer and my first year of college; while, attending my final year of high school. I could use the money to be into my college fund. So, my question is can I receive it?
Yes, I am well aware that I should call Social Security. I'm just trying to see if I can, before I have to spend hours on hold, getting sent all over the place.
By cybergrannie 04/21/2014
Hi - you are wasting valuable time trying to get answers any place but the SS office. Telephone is okay but hard to get individual answers as they cannot safely identify who is talking, and they cannot change anything. Make an appointment and go in person. Is this worth waiting for?
It seems your mother is the one who should go with you but she may not wish to give up any of the money she receives.
Your grandmother would be the next logical choice but she may not wish to go with you either - for any number of reasons.
Basically. children are not usually awarded the payment unless they are self supporting or living at college. There are not always "set" rules as many cases just do not fall in a "category".
If it is true that you live with your grandmother and your mother does not give her money for your support or saving it for you (provable) then rightfully your grandmother is the one who should be receiving the check. Sometimes this is difficult to prove if legal custody has not been changed to your grandmother.
Sometimes it comes down to who is claiming children on their Federal tax return? Your mother may be claiming/doing things she should not be doing - legally - so be careful how things are worded and give lots of thought before "convicting" your mother.
Just wanted to throw out some of the things I have seen happen so you, your mother and your grandmother could give this some thought before talking to the SS office.
Just curious - is your grandmother (or mother) aware that you are wanting to make this change?
I'm 17 and have been staying with my grandmother for the past 4 months. I was receiving death benefits from my deceased father. My mother claims that my checks have since stopped coming to her. She hasn't given me any of my benefits since I've been at my grandmother's. I was wondering can I still collect my back pay when I'm 18 or what do I do?
I had been receiving Survivors benefits for my son since he was 4. Since I used it to help with his basic needs and gave him an allowance out of it every month I never saw a reason to explain that income. He is 17 now and his basics have reached an all time high what with the GF and gas and football and all of life's extras theses days.
He recently got ahold of mail that was from S.S. That was addressed to both of us and took it upon himself to open it. He took it as I was taking from him and went to the S.S. Office without my knowing, I am not sure what he told them I was informed of it after I received a letter from S.S informing me that they have decided that my son will be getting "his" benefits from here on out.
He did however inform me that "his" money was now goin into an account that he will be able to get when he turns 18 (in June). So I guess I'm telling you that those benefits we think should be helping us to support our kids are really there for our kids to do with as they see fit. Because I never received a call from S.S. Before they decided any of this they just sent me a letter informing me of the change.
My granddaughter lost her biological father last November. She is 9 years old and receives her father's Social Security benefits. Her mother and stepfather are going to have a baby which will take the stepfather's last name. My granddaughter wants the same last name. My daughter is considering adding stepfather's last name to her father's last name. No adoption, just adding a second last name. Will this affect the SS benefits she now receives?
Doing a legal name change is a simple process and does not affect benefits. My children had it done. And went through same scenario.
I have had custody of my granddaughter since she was 7. She has received Social Security benefits from her deceased father until she turned 18. Are there no benefits for her now that she is in college and needs the money the most? We, as grandparents on SS are finding it very hard to help her since her benefits have stopped.
By Paula Jo C. 03/12/2014
I was a widow with a child and we collected on my husband [her father's] Social Security for years - as long as the child is in school she is to receive her father's social security. Perhaps 'you' should call the Social Security office in your state and ask them IF she is still entitled, then ask them if they will replace all of her missed checks retroactively from the time they stopped her check until now because of her being over 18 BUT still in school?
I know they [SS] can be a blessing... good luck to you on this.
My husband was murdered in 2003. We had two children 11 and 18 months. When I signed up, I only signed up my kids because it seemed in the long run they would receive the most benefits, plus I was only 32 and the likelihood of myself getting remarried was considered.
I did remarry, but divorced in 2012. My daughter has since been dismissed from drawing due to her age. My son is still receiving benefits, but I was wondering, now that I am no longer married, can I still draw the widows benefits? And I do work, so would it be wise?
Thanks in advance!
By Jennifer G
By Jackie 03/06/2014
I receive that benefit as well as my social security. One thing I do know is this you would have had to be married to your deceased husband at least ten years. It just might "pay" you to call your SS office. I hope this helps.
My friend was stabbed and past away. He didn't work, so is his son eligible to get Social Security?
By weinerdog41 03/02/2014
If the father didn't pay into social security the son is not eligible. None gets social security unless they pay in.
My daughter is 16 and wants to get her GED, if she quits school to do this will her survivor benefits be cut off? We live in Mississippi. I thought with survivor benefits they continue to get them no matter what till age 18. I may be wrong.
By Nickie from Ellisville, MS
By Noella 03/07/2014
It is my understanding that a child must stay in school to receive Social Security Survivor benefits. Please encourage her to do so.
I'm 19, and if I am in college would I still be eligible to get Social Security from my father's passing?
By Paula Jo C. 02/17/2014
Yes you would! Please go to the Social Security Office yourself (with your SS card & number printed on it, and also the SS# of the parent that is dead). Explain the problem your having with the ladies or men there that are working and watch how they can help you and fast. What you are experiencing is against the law I believe so, it may get your mother in alot of trouble. You might want to think about that aspect of the problem your having. You are in our prayers!
I am a widow and my son and I were receiving SS checks. My son is turning 16 soon and I am losing my check, but he will still receive his check until he is out of school. What I need to know is will his check stay the same amount or go up because I am losing mine? Thanks.
By redhatterb 02/10/2014
I have never had to wait that long. Being you are being funny about it, what do you suggest they do? The Social Security Office is the only place they will get the correct answer. Besides the local number there is also the 800 number.
My daughter's biological father, my ex husband, was killed in Afghanistan, but before he died he gave up his rights and my husband adopted her. Is she entitled to benefits due to her biological father dying? I have the 1300 form (casualty report naming her as his daughter).
By Melissa W.
By Wanda 01/29/2014
Hello, I'm sorry to say that once the biological father relinquished all rights to his daughter and agreed to adoption he from that point on is not, legally, her father. Her adopted father becomes her legal father.
My mom has been taking my check since I was 13, buying unnecessary thing with it. I never see a dime. I turn 18 in three days. Do I have to go through my mom to get my check, or can I set up a bank account and finally receive my own money? The check is coming from my deceased father, and I'll still be in school.
By Lacey F
By cybergrannie 01/07/2014
You have received some very good answers. Your social security office can answer all of your questions as all cases are different so no one answer would be correct.
Most likely, as long as you live with an adult that takes care of your needs - they will receive the check and usually do not have to answer to anyone as how it is spent.
My son's father was on SSI before he died, is my son entitled to benefits now that he's passed on?
By Weavre Cooper 12/22/2013
It depends on his age. Here's what Social Security has to say:
Your unmarried children who are under 18 (up to age 19 if attending elementary or secondary school full time) can be eligible to receive Social Security benefits when you die.
And your child can get benefits at any age if he or she was disabled before age 22 and remains disabled.
Besides your natural children, your stepchildren, grandchildren, step grandchildren or adopted children may receive benefits under certain circumstances.
My husband was getting social security and I am on disability. He past away last week. Will I get any of his social security check plus my disability, or just mine?
By cybergrannie 12/22/2013
It is always best to go in person to your local social security office for this type of information. There may be several scenarios to see what might give you the most money and they can give you this information.
My daughter is 19 now, her dad passed away when she was 17 and she got benefits for a year and a half. She was told when she turned 19 or graduated from high school she would not be eligible anymore. Are there any benefits she can apply for since she is going to college now?
Benefits used to be extended for children who went to college (this was done in the Kennedy/Johnson administration). However, that was nixed under the Reagan Administration and all benefits end at 18, whether you go to college or not. Guess they expect 18 year olds to be fully self-supporting by then or have a rich family.
My daughter's father passed when she was 13 months old. His name was not on the birth certificate. She is in his obituary as his daughter, but when I went to try and get benefits that wasn't enough proof. I have tried several times since his death and still was denied. Now she is 16 and I want to try and get DNA from his mom or brothers, but is it too late since she is 16? What else can I do to get the benefits that are owed to her?
By Ivella B
I'm pretty sure I want to get any benefits. But right now I am doing the DNA test just so we know. His sister is doing the test with us. $599 dollars right now with the diagnostics clinic.
My son's father passed away before my son was born. Can my son still receive survivor benefits even if his father did not sign his birth certificate?
By Betty Gibson 07/18/2011
The readers are right, check with you Social Security Ofc. The phone # is on the phone book in the blue pages, or you can get the 800 # online. Most questions can be answered over the phone; in some cases, you can apply over the phone.
My mother passed away in June of 2011. I was receiving benefits till I turned 18 in 2012. My mother also left behind my brother who just graduated last month so he will no longer receive them and my two sisters. One is 10 years old and has been having seizures over the past 3 years since my mother passed away and my other sister who is 3 years old. Neither have insurance and live with my grandparents who take care of her financially and emotionally while my stepdad receives the benefits and does not do one thing for them. He doesn't even visit them and spends my sisters' money on his drugs and his girlfriend. What can I do to stop this and have my sisters get the money they deserve. It would really help out my grandparents, but we're scared if we take him to court and we lose that we will never see my sisters again.
By sinclair1978 06/03/2015
Thank you so much for your answer we will do that first thing we get a chance.
I am 49 years old and was diagnosed with a rare terminal lung disease about 13 years ago. At that time, my mother who is now 73 chose to take early retirement to take care of me. How grateful I am. She receives Social Security and I receive Social Security disability, as I am no longer, nor will I ever be able to work again.
My question is, the tables have sort of turned. My mother has fallen ill, very ill, and we rely heavily on each others' income. I could not survive without her check, and she certainly cannot survive without mine. We are both curious if she were to pass would I be eligible for her benefits? She receives a very small amount of my father's, as he is not retired yet, and is a real jerk, but she does receive something. Would I be eligible to receive her benefits because I am disabled and won't even be able to afford a port a potty to live in if she passes?
If I were to relocate to a different state, my benefits would follow, obviously not medical but Social Security would be okay, correct? California is just so expensive.
By jayritt 
By cybergrannie 05/06/2015
Only the Social Security office can correctly answer your questions but if you are unable to get to their office, I believe someone from your local social services office can get the answers for you.
I do not believe you will be able to draw more than one check/benefit but as stated before - get your answers from your Social Security office.
Social Security benefits will be payable to you in any state of the US.
I have been getting mother's benefits. My son turned 16 and mine stopped in March. My son is disabled. In November I made a disability claim for my son. They told me I had to do it to keep my mother benefits. It is now May and I have not heard anything. I called the office on April 2 and they told me he was disabled and needed a letter from a doctor that said I was his caregiver. I sent that in and got a letter saying they had an application for disability already. They had it in November. I then called the office and she said my son's claim was not done yet, it came back in February and the caseworker never finished it.
By allieh11 
By cybergrannie 05/06/2015
I can understand your frustration with the system.
First - I believe you will have to visit your SSA and "demand" to see a supervisor that can tell you where your case stands in the system. Clerks/agents do not always have access to your complete file and that may be why you are getting different answers.
You do not say whether you have filed for disability for your son (and been approved) so it is difficult to understand what is really going on.
Is your son presently receiving a disability benefit? SSD?
Are you saying that you and your son are receiving no benefit check?
It is a long process to prove disability for SSD so be sure that has been approved and if not - find out what you have to do right now to prove his disability.
If none of this gives you satisfaction then you may have to seek the help of an attorney. Usually Social Services can help with this stage so pay them a visit before seeking a private attorney.
I had a son with my ex. He was never really involved and never signed the birth certificate. He lived in Florida, he passed away in a car accident about 4 months after my son turned 3. My ex's mother sent me his death certificate months later, but another death occurred. Then I found out I was pregnant, new relationship. I never went to file a claim, nd now my son is 5 about to be 6 in December. Is it too late to file a claim for my son? And does anyone know what I'd have to do? It's been 2 years and some change and he's not in on my son's certificate either.
By cybergrannie 04/27/2015
You will need to ask all your questions at your SSA.
Be sure to have your SS number as well as your son's and his dad's number also. Take the birth certificate and the father's death certificate with you also. I would also suggest you have your marriage certificate and your divorce agreement. Does the divorce mention the child? Did you ask for support? If not - why?
Having all of these available will/may save some extra trips.
Be sure to file right away as the date you file will be your "official begin" date and when/if your claim is approved you will/may receive back benefits from that date (back payment).
SSA will tell you what tests/documents you will need to prove paternity. All of this will take time (months) so be sure to file ASAP.
If my child at the age of 16, moves out and quits going to school, what should I do about her checks as I am the payee?
By Tracey W.
By cybergrannie 04/25/2015
You should talk to someone at your SSA as the money is only for the support/care of the child and should not be used for anything else. I suggest you check this out ASAP so you will not be in violation and have to repay any monies already received.
The benefit will probably be terminated if she is no longer in your care and especially if she is no longer in school.
My mom passed away in February of this year. She started receiving Social Security 2 or 3 months before she passed. Will or can my stepdad receive her benefits if they never married? She never used his last name. They had a child together, my brother. He has my mom's last name.
By Mrs King
By cybergrannie 04/24/2015
This sounds like a complicated situation but I cannot see how anyone can claim SS benefits in the scenario you describe.
It seems you are calling him step-dad but is he not your father?
You mention he is the father of your brother but not you?
I believe that only a legal spouse can draw SS benefits but there may be other situations.
Only the people involved can get this information from the SSA.
Will benefits stop the month of my of my 18th birthday or the month before?
By GG B. from Murfreesboro, TN
By cybergrannie 04/24/2015
The SSA will answer questions like this. Usually the guardian would be the one seeking answers but if the benefits are addressed to you, they may answer your question.
I believe that mainly it will depend on age and if the person is still attending high school as some benefits may extend beyond 18 years of age.
My grandfather died 4 years ago. He and my grandmother never got divorced, but they were separated for 36 years. There was no contact at all. She left him with all 8 children and got pregnant with another man 36 years ago. She does not talk to the family, but she recently filled for my grandfather's Social Security and got approved. The money is now supporting this other family that has nothing to do with ours.
Is there any way we can have it cancelled or overturned?
By cybergrannie 04/21/2015
This may seem unfair but it is most likely legal and you probably cannot stop or change it. You may be able to get accurate answers from the SSA but probably the only real information you can obtain is that it is legal as only the people "involved" can get information on the amount of money paid.
Your grandmother (spouse of your grandfather) is entitled to claim benefits under your grandfathers SS earnings and would be able to claim benefits even if he had divorced her - due to the number of years they were together (8 children).
Most likely your grandmother has reached SS retirement age and has now applied for benefits under your grandfather's SS earnings. It does not seem there would be any children involved but she is free to use this money anyway she wishes. The amount she receives would be based on the amount of earnings/quarters your grandfather accumulated over his lifetime.
As I stated - it may seem unfair but I do not believe anyone can change it.
Our single daughter passed away last year. She was 38 years old and had been contributing to Social Security since she was 16. Why does that money not go to her mother and I? So the government gets it all with nothing for her family?
By Greg L.
By cybergrannie 04/18/2015
Most information like this can be found on the Internet at the Social Security web site.
I believe redhatterb is correct in who can qualify for SS benefits but regular SS benefits are only available to qualified persons when they reach retirement age unless there is a disability or a child is involved.
It seems that you and your wife will have to draw from your own earnings when you become age eligible or should you become disabled.
My 9 year old child's father passed away 14 months ago. I've been getting death benefits for her since his passing. I have been using them for her, but haven't kept record of it :( I have had it deposited into my account and use it as needed.
When I had my phone appointment to set it up I asked how detailed of a record I needed to keep and the person from the Social Security office told me no receipts required just write down roughly what's spent every month and what's saved. I just had to fill out the yearly account for what was spent and saved and I didn't tell the entire truth, everything was spent on my child. but I thought it would look better if I said some was saved. I reported that I saved almost 4k. Bad I know. Can I call and tell them that I didn't really understand the paperwork and change it and also tell them that I didn't keep good records, but will start from now on? I'm kind of freaking out.
By cybergrannie 04/13/2015
Of course, we all know about hind site...
I believe you should do as the first responder advised. Maybe you could provide a true report and just explain that you just misunderstood and make a mistake in reporting incorrectly.
Be sure you understand what true support consists of or seek help before giving another report.
When my child turns 16 I guess I lose my survivor's benefits from my deceased husband. My question is will the money I have been receiving go to her added to what she already receives?
By cybergrannie 04/12/2015
You will have to visit your local SSA to find correct answers as almost all situations are a little different and will have different answers.
It may be a good idea to ask why you have been receiving benefits as you may have an incorrect idea as to why benefits were awarded to you. In my experience/knowledge - I have never heard of "survivors" benefits unless the survivor is old enough to draw SS benefits or they are disabled. This may need a better explanation as I could certainly be wrong.
Benefits from a deceased spouse are generally paid to a parent/guardian for care/support of a minor child. (Without a child there may not be any benefit available until retirement age or disability). The complete benefit is just that and should be used for that purpose. Of course, the parent is free to give the minor child part of the money received but it is not required.
Some Benefits may continue until the child is 19 (some changes have been made) if they are still in school (not college) or they are disabled. This does not mean the money/benefits have to go to the child unless the child is self-supporting and/or living by themselves.
All of this considered is the reason you should visit your SSA as soon as you can. Ask lots of questions.
My daughter passed away and she has 3 minor children. She was never married to the father of the boys and my daughter had the sole custody of the children. The father never paid child support. Can I file for benefits for the children?
By cybergrannie 04/11/2015
You should go to your SS office ASAP as the date you file will be your "starting date". This is important as it may take several months (even a year or more) before their benefits may/will be approved.
If/when benefits are approved then you will receive a check for "back" payments from the date you first applied. No back payments will be paid for time before that date.
Be sure to take all the documents noted by another responder but you may still need DNA tests also. Only the SSA can tell you what type of proof you will need for the children to be eligible for benefits.
Also, they can tell you if your daughter worked long enough to have paid enough SS credits for the children to be eligible for benefits.
Drawing SS benefits should not negate the responsibility of the father to pay some type of support for the children. This support may be pursued though your local family services division.
Also, there are other types of services available for children when needed but no finances are available. Be sure to talk to a counselor at your family services office.
It may be a good idea to discuss your problems with someone in your/any church as they many times have names of organizations that help in situations like this.
My grandson is 9 yrs old. His mother died recently at age 25. She only had 5 credits of work and we were told the cutoff for being insured is 6 credits. Is her son elegible for any partial credit or is he just out of luck because she didn't work and pay into Social Secrity an extra few weeks. She was an unemployed student at time of her death.
By cybergrannie 04/10/2015
It seems you have already consulted the SSA but it would not do any harm to try again. It does appear that your grandson will not receive any SS benefits but there is still lots of help in other areas.
You do not mention the child's father but maybe this would be a good time to ask for help from that area.
I am 36 years old. I just recently found out who my father is. He died when I was one. I have had a DNA test conducted with his daughter, from his wife, and it shows that without a doubt we are siblings. The kicker is, I am the product of our father cheating on his wife with my mother and we do not know if the wife knows I exist.
I am not out to hurt anyone, so I would like to keep the wife out of this if possible. I have access to my father's SSN and death certificate. He was also in the army for a very brief stint. My significant other believes I should qualify, and I am just wondering if I would possibly qualify. I had an extremely terrible childhood and if I am eligible, I would put the funds to good use.
I know I should contact Social Security, but I work odd hours and I am never able to call when they are open, and just need to know if anyone thinks it would be worth it.
By cybergrannie 04/09/2015
You will not be able to receive personal information over the telephone so you may have to pay a personal visit to the SS office in your area. They can tell you if there are any benefits available now or in the future.
I am not sure if you know anything about receiving SS benefits from a deceased parent so you may be able to obtain some information/facts if you telephone the SS information number.
What type of benefit do you believe you are eligible for at 36 years of age? Are you disabled? Social Security does not pay "back' payments even if you were eligible when you were under 19 and going to school. Back payments are only paid if someone files and they are found eligible but the decision is delayed for some reason.
It seems nice that you may have found a sister even if the "mother" is never told about your father's affair with your mother.
I suppose this was the reason for getting a DNA report?
My ex-husband passed away in 2010. I am the one the money was going to. My youngest daughter is currently residing with her aunt, a short term situation. The money was going towards what it's supposed to, making sure the bills were paid, rent, utilities, etc. Then I find out that my daughter's aunt has somehow gotten the benefits switched to her.
I was giving her money, buying my daughter clothing, and necessities and now I'm getting nothing for my daughter. This is going to cause her to have no home to come back to. I informed Social Security when she started staying with her aunt, but they told me that as long as the money was going towards her, my daughter, the money would continue to go into my account. How is it possible that the aunt, who only temporarily has my daughter living with her, is able to get the death benefits switched to her?
By Christin from Riverside, CA
By cybergrannie 03/30/2015
It appears that you are "frantic" about your situation and that is not a good thing.
Many questions arise that we cannot even begin to answer - so -
Please go to your Social Security office as soon as you can and let them give you answers.
Be sure to take yours and your daughter's SS numbers with you.
My father past away the first of last year, he past from some kind lack of oxygen to his brain. My mother receives Social Security on my behalf, which is to take care of me, for essentials, etc. I moved out about 5-6 months ago with my fiancé. I am only 17 and I will be 18 in December and I haven't attended school since before he past. My mother doesn't help me with anything I need. She uses it to pay her rent and other bills. I was wondering if I could get the Social Security to help me pay so I can finish school and get my driver's license. I have asked her for help and she has told me she would help me out, but hasn't yet. I really need some kind of help for my dentist bills and my doctor's as well. I want to know if I could receive it instead of my mother?
By Judy W.04/21/2015
Breanna, so sorry for your loss. For one. if your no longer living In her home and not attending school, your Mother is more than likely committing a felony for each month she receives your benefits without reporting a change. If you've quit school, I don't think your entitled to those benefits so depending on when you last attended, she could have to at the very least pay all of that money back. You should definitely go to typical office and report the changes since you have not done anything illegal. It will definitely stop at age eighteen if the school factor doesn't come into
play. It is also possible they will try to recoup some of the money you didn't get benefits from, and return it to you down the road, even if you turn eighteen.
My dad past away. I am his only son, but there was no will. He got SSD; do I get that or what happens?
By Donald from Washington, WA
By Judy W.04/21/2015
Only if you are under the age of nineteen and/or graduated from high school. In certain cases if your disabled yourself and lived with him for his support, you may be eligible for your own benefits but receive money based on your father's record. It mostly means in the latter situation you will get a higher monthly payment.
My granddaughter's father just died a couple weeks ago; she is 9 years old. He had been receiving benefits for 11 years, up until he died. I am her guardian. Will she now be able to receive his benefits? He is on the birth certificate. He was in a relationship with my daughter for 11 years. I took legal custody 4 years ago.
By Sandy A
By cybergrannie 03/23/2015
Go to the Social Security office for correct answers.
What type of benefits was he receiving? SSI/SSD? Why was she not receiving benefits while he was alive?
I'm assuming there was no marriage? I do not believe this will matter if he is listed as the father on her birth certificate and you have legal custody.
Be sure to take all legal papers with you so you will not have to make a second trip. Papers:
Your legal photo ID (drivers license is best).
Yours and your granddaughters SS numbers.
Papers showing you are legal guardian.
Her fathers SS number.
Her fathers death certificate may be necessary
(I would take it just in case.)
You should go ASAP as benefits will not be effective/start until the
date you apply.
My niece's mom died when she was 7. I have been caring for her since. She now is pregnant and still lives with us and is attending school. Will this new circumstance effect her benefits? Also, is there any other type of help out there?
By P Brown
By cybergrannie 03/22/2015
You have several questions that need to be answered. Correct answers for you can only be answered at the Social Security office.
Be sure to take SS numbers and any papers you have pertaining to her SS benefits. Most likely only her age and school time will determine how long she will receive benefits. Other benefits may be available from your local family services agency.
I've been receiving Social Security survivor benefits for my daughter. She turned 18 this month and her school sent in the forms. She's a full time student in the 9th grade. They sent in papers that I signed saying that all the benefits are used for her. Will they just keep sending the payments as usual or will they send a check in her name?
By cybergrannie 03/05/2015
It is for sure that only the Social Security office can answer your question.
I would ask the same question - why is your 18 year old daughter still in the 9th grade?
Why did you have to send in papers stating the funds were being used for her care?
Did you receive these papers from the SS office?
Most likely - you received a letter giving a cut off date for your daughter? Did you appeal?
The SS office can tell you if your daughter is still eligible for benefits, what date the benefits will stop, who will receive the check (usually the guardian (you) unless the child is self supporting). Gather all information/letters you have received and visit your SS office for the answers you need.
I received a letter saying that when my son turns 16, my benefits will be cut off. I want to know if that is true?
By Marlene from Miami, FL
By cybergrannie 03/05/2015
You will have to pay a visit to your local Social Security office to find the correct answer as no one here knows all the circumstances and almost every case is a little different.
If your letter was from the SS administration then most likely it is true. Is your son still in school?
Gather your information (SS numbers, the new letter, and the original letter stating you would receive benefits, if you still have it) and visit the SS office to put your mind at rest - either good or "bad" - you need to know.
I had been receiving survivor benefits for my 2 children since their father passed away in June 2014. Our son turned 18 in November, which is when he started to receive his own check. My question is, once he graduates high school this June and will no longer receive his benefit, will our other child (who is still a minor and for whom I receive the check) receive the full amount of their father's benefit (both children's amount together), or will she still only get the amount she has been receiving?
By cybergrannie 02/26/2015
You will need to pay a visit to your SS office to get the answers you need.
Also, just because a child turns 18 is no real reason for them to receive the benefit check in their name. The benefit check is to provide shelter, food and other needs of the child and should go to the person who provides those things. I hope your son is using the money to take care of himself until he finishes school.
So my dad passed away the year I was born and I receive checks. I haven't been with my mother since I was 14 due to family problems. Who do I need to talk with to see about the checks now that I'm 18?
By cybergrannie 02/21/2015
You will have to pay a visit to your Social Security office to find out if you are still eligible for benefits. Are you still in high school? Usually this type of benefit stops when you reach 18 or may continue until 19 if you are still in high school.
Do you receive the checks in your name? Really strange that you could have checks in your name (?) from the age of 14 as benefits are usually paid to a guardian - the person who is providing a place for you to stay and providing your food and other essentials.
You should go to SS to find out if you are still eligible for any benefits - but probably not since you are 18, and if you have been taking care of yourself for 4 years then you should be able to get a job and continue with your life.
My son died at age 25 he never worked much due to incarceration. He has been married and divorced and has a 3 year old daughter. Will she be eligible for anything from Social Security even though he never paid much in?
By Mindy B
By cybergrannie 02/13/2015
The mother will have to pay a visit to the Social Security office to find correct answers and file for benefits - if they are available.
She will need social security numbers for herself, the daughter and the deceased. She may/will also need a copy of the daughters birth certificate and a copy of the fathers death certificate as this will save her from having to make a second trip to the office.
If my sons' dad passed on 11/29 and they were approved for retro payments, will they count November as the first benefit month or December?
By cybergrannie 02/04/2015
The SS benefit approval letter should have told the beginning date. Your Social Security office is the only place/way to get your answers as each case is different.
My son had a baby with a girl that did not put his name on the birth certificate. My son died. Can the girl collect survivor benefits from my son's account?
By LRU from Oneida, NY
By cybergrannie 02/05/2015
Only the SS office can answer all of your questions.
I will say, the mother will have to be the one to check and she will need social security numbers for herself, the child, and your son as just starters.
I am sure there will be legal matters to file and probably a DNA test but she can start her case and SS will inform her of what she will have to do to prove she has a right to his benefits. (Hopefully your son worked long enough for benefits to be available.)
If benefits are approved (may take many months) then she will receive a check for back payments from the date she first filed.
My boys receive death benefits from their father. I'm the payee on their checks. My question is can my oldest son claim them on his taxes since he lives with us and pays half the bills and buys half the groceries?
By cybergrannie 02/05/2015
Your SS office may be able to answer some questions but it seems you may have to discuss this with IRS for answers about how or if he can claim.
My son is 5 years old and his father just passed away. He was receiving Social Security benefits when he died. This is his only son and his name is on the birth certificate. Is my son eligible to receive anything?
By Abigail A. 01/28/2015
I'm pretty sure you can get survivor's benefits for your child. Go to the Social Security office. They'll make you fill out forms. Get them in on time (even if you're not sure about all the answers) and you'll get an interview with someone who can help you.
I am raising my 8 year old sister-in-law. Her mother died when she was 4 years old. She is currently receiving Survivor's benefit pay. I love her like my own, and I want to adopt her. After I adopt her, will she still get benefits or will that go away because of the adoption?
By cybergrannie 01/26/2015
You should go to your SS office for the correct answer. Since you seem to be receiving benefits - I assume you (?) have legal custody of this child? Adoption may change all of that.
You will need all SS numbers (yours, the child's and maybe the deceased mothers). Although all of this should be on file you will have to show photo ID as well. Just ask your questions and make up your mind later.
My daughter's father passed away in 2012 she was 4. I applied and was denied because they said the father didn't have any income. I thought this is what Social Security was in place for. Am I incorrect? Many people with similar situations have told me they received benefits.
By cybergrannie 01/26/2015
You may be able to reapply for benefits but most likely your child's father did not earn sufficient (if any?) credits to warrant benefits. Almost every case is different so you cannot compare your situation with someone else. You may think they are the same but they will definitely not be. If money is not paid in - then none will be paid out.
If you need help with your daughter then I feel sure you are taking advantage of all the "free" benefits for yourself and your daughter - i.e. - housing assistance, food stamps, "money" for her care, and free medical. Of course there are also many more services available in almost every community.
Of course, there is also free child care available for those who feel the desire/need to work and provide some living assistance of their own.
I wanted to know, if I never collected my deceased father's Social Security Survivor's insurance benefits at the age of 15 since I had no clue I could and my mother didn't either can I collect them now at the age of 39?
By cybergrannie 01/24/2015
You should pay a visit to your SS office for correct answers to your questions. Perhaps your mother should also go so she will know if benefits will be available at retirement age.
Benefit periods usually begin on the date application is filed. Child benefits are usually only paid until a child reaches 18 or is still in high school (unless they are declared disabled). I do not believe any benefits will be available for you now but you should definitely go to your SS office.
You may/will need your SS number and your Dad's SS number and death certificate. Your mother will need the same but she may also need her marriage license.
How we claim the benifits of my father? He died 2 years ago here in the Philippines and we are not US citizens. We are living here in the Philippines and my sibling needs educational assistance. Please help us.
By cybergrannie 01/19/2015
There are too many questions that would have to be answered before anyone here could offer any suggestions. You should go to the Social Security office if that is possible but maybe there is a local church that would be able to help you find the assistance you need.
When my father died, my mother started to receive a Social Security check for me and my siblings. About two years ago my older sister turned my mother in for not using the check like she was supposed to, so my mother had it taken away from her. About a month after that I went up there to try to receive my check and since I was only 15 the person I was living with would get the money not me. I did not trust the person I lived with to spend it on bills and my needs so I waited two years until I was 17 and went back up there to see if I could get back pay and start receiving my monthly check. The person I spoke to said I was only owed 600$ which is incorrect because two years back pay would be around 8000$ and also said I might not receive my monthly check or the money owed to me because I am not attending school. I was in school for the full two years that I was not receiving any money. Can they deny me the money I'm owed?
By cybergrannie 01/16/2015
I am sorry your mother did not use this benefit correctly but it appears you need to learn more about why and when this type of benefit is given.
This type of benefit is given to the custodian of the children to take care of children while they are young and in school. Since you are no longer "young" and not in school it appears there is no reason for you to receive benefits.
No one is "due" back payment just because benefits WERE available as benefits begin accruing on the date the person applies for those benefits.
Apply means that paper work was completed and turned in to Social Security and they received an answer of approval or disapproval from SS. Apply does not mean just going into the office to inquire if you can receive benefits.
You should return to the SS office and let them review your case and explain what may or may not be available to you right now.
My guess would be that no money is due you and you will have to continue (or change?) your own way of living - maybe try to return to school and further your schooling/education to be able to find employment and support yourself.
My husband was receiving Social Security disability benefits and has passed away. Will I receive any survivor benefits?
By cybergrannie 01/10/2015
The Social Security office should be your first stop - they have all the answers (usually).
Your husband receiving SS benefits will have nothing to do with whether you will receive benefits. Benefits you are eligible for will depend on your age. When you are old enough to "retire" you can apply for SS benefits under your SS record or under your husband's SS record. You can choose which one gives you more money (but can only draw from one account).
Take papers (your husbands SS number, death certificate, your SS number, marriage certificate, and ID) and talk to someone at your local SS office. Be correctly informed so you know where you stand.
If you are "young" then I hope you and your husband prepared for this happening as it appears you may be "on your on" for your personal survival.
Oh - SS does pay a $250 death benefit - the form for this is usually filed (or supplied) by your funeral director/staff.
I have custody of my grandson. His father had orders for child support for years and never paid. My grandson is now 18 and not a full time student. His father just died, can he get benefits?
By cybergrannie 01/09/2015
Probably not but only SS can give you a correct answer.
You may be able to take his father to court for "back support" but it would be useless if he has no means to pay (and costly to you unless the judge makes him pay your attorney's fees). Of course, some states put the father in jail if they do not pay.
Also, it is possible your state may say you have not had the child to care for so why should you receive the back support?
Only you know the facts so ask your questions at your SS office and maybe your local family services.
My husband is and has been collecting SSA/SSI disability since he was 18. He is not expected to make it through the next month. He is now 34. Can my daughter or I collect survivor's benefits if he did not have any taxable income? If so, is there a way to estimate how much it will be? He only gets $750 a month.
By jak van
By cybergrannie 01/07/2015
Please go to your SS office for correct answers to all your questions.
I believe everything will depend on the age of your daughter as she is probably the only one eligible to receive benefits and this will only be until she is 18 - 19 years old. If she is very young then you may be eligible for some benefit to "take care of her". As she grows older that benefit will stop so you should be prepared to seek help or find a job.
Most of the state and government benefits will probably remain the same except you may have to reapply for them in your name. Legally you must let these agencies know when he is deceased.
My wife and I both draw the same amount of Social Security. When one of us dies, will our Social Security benefit be just one half of the total we had been getting? Is there anything we can do to increase it?
By cybergrannie 01/06/2015
Anyone needing information about their Social Security benefits should try calling the SS 800 number for general advice (your question may fall in that category) or make an appointment and visit their local SS office (this is the best idea) for answers to any of their questions.
General - a person will only draw one benefit check so most likely you will receive half of what both of you receive. Whichever person left living could generally draw the larger benefit of the two you now receive.
As far as I have ever heard there is nothing you can do (after retirement) to increase the SS amount of each individual (except as noted above) unless you return to work and pay more SS money into the system.
I believe what you are talking about is called "planning" for the future as this financial need should have been apparent many years ago. At least you may find out now as to what one person will receive so you can make any necessary changes while you are both living.
I have a six year old daughter. My husband, from whom I was legally separated, passed away. He was 36 and never collected Social Security. He worked all but for the last 5 years, paying into Social Security every week. When I went to get benefits for my daughter, the man behind the counter looked at my ID and asked if he had collected benefits. I said no and he said if he wasn't collecting then she couldn't get anything. I know four other women that are getting help for their kids and they said none of them dealt with Social Security before their husband's death. What should I do?
By cybergrannie 01/05/2015
This is difficult to believe but you should return to the Social Security office and if given the same answer - then you should ask to speak to their supervisor.
Be sure to have all your information with you.
You will need the following:
Your husband's social security number and his death certificate.
Your marriage certificate as well as your social security number and identification/drivers license.
Your daughter's birth certificate and SS number.
Take along your legal separation papers just in case you need them.
Apply right way because benefits only begin on the date you apply although you may have to wait a few weeks/months for your benefits to be approved. When/if approved, the benefits will begin on the original date you applied.
My husband is deceased and we have a minor child. My husband and I had been seperated for 13 years and never got divorced. Is my child able to get Social Security benefits now that he passed away? She is the only minor child.
By Marianne from Andover, OH
By cybergrannie 01/04/2015
I assume you mean your minor daughter is over 13 but less than 18-19. You will have to go to your local Social Security office and apply for benefits - the sooner the better as your effective date only begins on the date you apply - no back benefits before that date.
Be sure to take your daughter's birth certificate, your husband's, daughter's and your social security numbers, and a copy of your marriage license, a copy of his death certificate as these will save time in taking them back later.
Since you were "married" for more than 5 years, you should also be eligible to receive benefits from his account (if his are more than your own personal SS benefits) when you reach retirement age.
Social Security made a mistake in 2004 by telling me that my husband did not earn enough for survivor's benefits and I would be better off taking the VA widows pension and SSI. Then in July 2014 I was contacted by the local SS office and told that I was entitled to my husband's SS for the past 10 years. However I would have to pay back what SSI paid me.
I would receive $65,000 in back pay after repaying SSI; this alone doesn't make sense as I needed that income to survive. However, this large amount seems to have been on "hold" for the past 5 months. Is there a time period that SS has to release these funds? I keep getting different answers from our local office. I feel like they are playing games.
By cybergrannie 12/17/2014
Some Social Security answers may sound different but may basically be the same. Yours is an unusual situation and you really need an attorney.
My ex is collecting child support from me for my son. I just found out that she also gets Social Security for my son from her live in boyfriend who passed away like 10 years ago. My son does have that guy's last name, but is it legal for her to do this?
By cybergrannie 12/12/2014
I would say you need an attorney - costly maybe but may save you money in the long run. - but maybe not. An attorney may/will be the only one that can get to the bottom of this type of situation.
Why does your son have the other man's name? Is it a legal change or just one they use? Did he adopt your son? Probably not a legal change since they were never married.
The Social Security office may be able to help you but I really doubt it. Do you have your son's social security number? Is it shown in your name or another? If the SS number was given at birth then it should still be in your name unless you and your wife made a legal change.
You NEED an attorney...
I've been receiving survivor benefits since I was 12 years old. I am now 26. I am planning to get married, and start my own family in the very near future. I was wondering if I would lose my benefits if I became pregnant or got married.
By Nicole T.
By cybergrannie 12/11/2014
You should pay a visit to your Social Security office to receive correct answers.
It will depend on what type of "survivor" benefits you receive as to whether they will stop or be changed. It is for sure that we do not have all the facts about your present benefit situation. I am sure someone (guardian) started the benefit process as you were only 12 years old at the beginning.
Does the benefit check still go to your guardian or has it been changed to your name only?
Please remember this; not notifying the Social Security office of any changes in your life (health, school, marriage, divorce, sometimes income change, etc.) is considered fraud and one can receive severe punishment when "caught" - punishment over and above having to repay all the money involved - this also includes food stamp fraud.
As mentioned by another responder - we do not have the facts so your question brings up many more questions - this just means that you need to go to the SS office so you know that everything is done properly (legally).
My parents passed away two years ago and now I have guardianship of my brother and sister. If I get married does that effect the benefits?
By Peggy F. 12/04/2014
I was in this situation myself. My father passed away when I was 7 my mother 10 days after I turned 17, leaving me and my 13 year old brother. No one wanted the both of us. We were left a 10 by 50 trailer. I fought to keep us together we were left on our own as long as we attended school. As soon as I turned 18, I signed papers to become my brother's guardian.
We both graduated from school and worked nights after school. We received the Money from my father's as never received anything from my mothers SSI. We had a crooked lawyer and he took any life insurance my mother had. He shredded papers from many others he stole from and left the country.
My brother who is 60 now has worked 25 years for Proctor and Gamble and built his own home and has a small business of his own and now is a grandfather to twin boys. We are still within walking distance of each other.
My son's father passed away when he was six. When my son was 19 he was deemed disabled and is getting Social Security benefit from his deceased father. Is there a reason why he wouldn't have gotten a settlement?
By cybergrannie 12/03/2014
Visit your local SS office for answers to all your questions. A settlement (or back payment) is given is when someone files a claim and it takes several weeks, months or even years before their claim is approved. This can happen for many reasons.
Usually back payment will only start on the date a claim is filed. If your son had to wait for benefits to begin then he may be due a settlement but he should/would have been notified by SS at the time he was notified about the date the benefit would start and the amount he would receive.
Have you had access to all of the mail your son receives? Your son is the one who will have to ask these questions.
I have a 5 year old daughter. Her father was killed in 2011. He had received SS benefits since the age of 6. I tried twice, to get her his benefits but they told me she couldn't receive any because her father never worked. He was never able to work, that's why he received benefits. Is my daughter entitled to his benefits? I've been trying for 3 years!
By Ernestine W.
By Lisa Nana Velez C.12/06/2014
We're from Social Security for low income families. Sorry but you're not entitled to any benefits because the benefits he was receiving as a child. More than likely SSI benefits he never worked for his benefits and that was kind of like a form of welfare that was given to him as a child you can only be entitled to if you worked and contributed throughout your lifetime then your child receive survivors benefits which is totally different but since he never worked he never earned any money so your child will not receive any Social Security survivor benefits. SSI is most likely what he was receiving before he died, which can't be passed on to anyone.
After my husband's death, I applied for Social Security survivor benefits for my two youngest kids. My question is how long does it take to receive my first deposit from the date of my appointment?
By cybergrannie 11/27/2014
You can go to your SS office and ask your question. They may only be able to tell you it is under "review" and you should hear something soon.
If filing was completed the SS office will/should send you notifications as to the progress of your case. You should receive notice when it is approved, how much the benefit will be, and approximate (or real) date benefits will begin.
Did you give bank information as to how the deposit/benefit will be paid? If so, that is a pretty good sign that your case has been approved.
SS as well as many government agencies are slow so you may have to be patient. The good news is that - if approved - you will receive benefits from the date of filing. You will also be notified about this as well as about the amount of the check you will receive.
How far back can you go back to get spousal survivor benefits? I was getting Social Security at the time of my wife's death in 2004. If so, how many checks is to be received?
By Frank D from Memphis, TN
By cybergrannie 11/27/2014
Please - for correct answers - go to your SS office and ask your questions.
I do not believe you can ever draw more than one benefit check so you have probably not missed out on any checks.
If anyone is eligible for more than one benefit then they would have to choose which one to receive (one may be more money than another).
Also, benefits are not paid for "arrears/past" in a case like this as the benefit period can only begin at the time of filing. Then - if/when case is approved - the SS would pay benefits from the date of filing. That is the reason you sometimes hear of someone receiving a large check for "back payment" from SS as it may take several months or even years for a final decision to be made.
Is it true that if the SSS member can not report every year of his birthday after this he is no longer a beneficiary?
By cybergrannie 11/08/2014
Why continue to "worry"? Call or visit your SS office (there is an 800 number to call or check out the information on the Internet). SS has the information you want/need.
My fiance passed away and left behind a son. My parents have custody of our son. Will he get Social Security help and if so, whose income is it based on as my parents do not work and my stepdad is on disability and get SS checks. Also she did not have an extensive work history.
By Chris S
By cybergrannie 11/05/2014
The person or persons (guardians) that have custody of your son will have to obtain information about benefits through the SS office. Since you were not married at the time of birth there will be legal information that SS will require as proof of kin but that may not be a problem.
Benefits can only come from the father and only if he paid into social security while he worked.
This is a complicated situation so please have your parents go to the SS office as soon as possible. They will need the child's fathers and your son's social security numbers as well as the official degree making them guardians of your son if they want complete information.
My 3 child have received benefits. My daughter, youngest of 3, recently turned 18. I realize the SS benefits extend to her high school education.
My husband passed away in 2005. As the wife, can I submit for benefits now or do I wait until I retire or do I not never receive benefits?
By Carol R
By cybergrannie 11/05/2014
If possible, make a trip to your local SS office as it is so much nicer to talk to someone in person. You can call the SS office and obtain a lot of general information about when you can draw benefits (usually depends on your age) but individual information can usually only be obtained in person at their office.
You can find out when you will be eligible to draw personal benefits and also if it will more beneficial to draw from your husband's account or your own (if you worked).
I have a complicated question. I have 4 sons, 2 different fathers. Both fathers are deceased. My question is that my oldest 3 are over the age of 18 and all have graduated high school, but their father died before any of them graduated or turned 18. My youngest is only 16. It'd been 4 years since their passing. They both died within six months of each other. Can I get survivor benefits for either. I know the oldest kids' father worked, but I'm not sure about my youngest.
By Pam C.
By cybergrannie 11/03/2014
The SS office can answer all of your questions in just a few minutes. Just be sure to take all SS numbers with you when you go - both fathers, yours, and all children.
I do not believe you can draw any "back" time but it is best to ask questions and get the correct answers. It seems you have waited a long time to seek benefits. I hope it was because you did not need the assistance.
My grandson is autistic and cannot care for himself. His father is disabled. Why can't my grandson receive his mother's Social Security? She worked all of her child's life.
By cybergrannie 11/02/2014
Your local SS office has all the answers to questions about ANY SS benefit program. Your grandson's guardian will have to ask questions pertaining to his benefits.
Does your grandson receive SSI or SSD? If he does then he can only draw from one account (only one benefit check) but sometimes a benefit check is higher from another account and the SS office can give this information to your grandson's guardian.
My mother passed away when me and my (Downs syndrome) brother were young. I was 13 years old and my brother 15. I never even knew of the possibility of survivor benefits until I was in my 20's. I am now 26 years old. Do I qualify for anything?
By Eric J.
By cybergrannie 10/27/2014
Most likely - whoever cared for you and your brother received benefit checks to pay for your care.
I do not believe you will qualify for any benefits at your age but you can obtain information about who has received benefits in your name/social security number. This information may not be obtainable over the telephone so you may have to pay a visit to your SS office.
Whoever is caring for your brother is most likely still receiving monthly benefits and will as long as he in their care. This information may not be available to you but could be available to your brother.
The SS office is the ONLY place correct information can be obtained.
My mother passed away in 2007 and my two sisters and I received survivors benefits from Social Security. It recently came to my attention that my sisters who are 3 years younger than me are receiving $540 each, this is a little more than the $337 a month I received. Any idea as to how this may occur?
By John Doe
By cybergrannie 10/24/2014
Social Security is the only place to get an answer to your question.
The SS office will not give out personal information over the telephone but they will answer general questions. You will have to go to the SS office if you want detailed personal information.
My brother is over the age of 60, can he draw my dad, his stepdad's Social Security?
By cybergrannie 10/18/2014
Please call your SS office for correct answers to questions like this. The telephone call will not supply any personal answers but will answer questions like this so you will know if you should pursue it any further.
My brother passed away on January 16, 2012. When I turn 62, am I allowed to collect survivor's benefits.
By Mary N. from Mineola, NY
By redhatterb 10/15/2014
I have never heard of anybody collecting survivor's benefits from a sibling, no matter the age of the siblings. I have only ever heard of widows/widowers and minor children receiving survivor's benefits. Call your local Social Security Office to find out the correct answer.
I want to ask if my mom can still claim my dad's benefits even if he died in 2006. We don't know what to do because my mom is in the Philippines and my dad was here in the US.
By Jay R.
By Kathy 10/02/2014
I agree with the other poster. It's so easy to contact SS. Just do a google search for their 800 number and they will be able to direct you/your mom.
I have 3 kids; one turned 19 and his benefits stopped. My understanding was his benefits were to be divided between the other 2 and should pick up immediately. It's going on three months, how long does it take?
By Sam from NC
By cybergrannie 09/20/2014
Hi - where did you get the information about your present benefits? It is always best to go to the SS office for accurate information about anything that has to do with SS benefits. You cannot go by what anyone else receives or might receive as there can be many different facts that are not always told.
Take what information you have and visit your local SS office - just in case there is something you need to do and find out for sure what will happen now and in the future.
I am 54 years old. I am on SSDI, because I had several strokes, and am paralyzed. I was put on SSDI in September 2010. My spouse, who was 57, developed stage 4 cancer, and went on SSDI October of 2013, she died two months ago, July 5th, 2014. Am I entitled to survivor's benefits as a widower?
By Jeff B
By cybergrannie 09/08/2014
Hi - you will need to get correct answers from your SS office but you are already receiving benefits so I do not believe you would be entitled to a second check?
However, when you reach 65 or 66 then you may be able to draw from ONE of three sources: your own SS benefits or from your wife's regular SS benefits or from the same SSDI that you now receive. Check with your SS office.
What do I need as two forms of verification for my eight month old son to receive survivor benefits? My son's father died when I was five months pregnant and I established DNA from my son's grandmother and they claimed I had to have other form of proof. What other proof do I need when I got the person he came out of?
By Shaneka W.
By cybergrannie 08/31/2014
It appears that you were not married and that is the reason you acquired the DNA test. Did Social Security tell you to get a DNA test or is this something you decided to do?
What did the SS office tell you (or inform you by letter) when you presented the test results? That is where you will have to start as the SS office is the only one who can tell you what they will accept.
I have an 18 year old child who is a senior this year and receiving SSI benefits. This child wants to transfer to home school. Will their benefits continue through May 2015, when they graduate from high school?
By weinerdog41 08/20/2014
I don't quite understand. If your son is disabled he will continue to get his checks whether he is home schooled are not unless he's in a state facility who receives his check on his behalf. My 18 year old Grandson receives SSI; he has aspergers syndrome. He received his checks when he was living with his Father. The facility he is in now will be receiving his checks but a potion of that money will be given to him for personal items he has to buy. My 40 year old disabled niece who lives at home also receives SSI.
My son's father passed away and we were going thru the child services office to get child support and do a paternity test (he's a spitting image of him). He passed in the process of all of this so I'm trying to go though and get Social Security for him and the lady on the phone told me "we'll set you up an appointment so you can get your denial letter because he didn't work enough. My stepsister's mom passed and she never worked. What should I do?
By Katie K.
By April 06/06/2014
Each case is different. I had someone argue with me that if something happened to me, my children could not collect because I work at home. Well, I do work from home, but I still pay taxes and social security. The point I am trying to make, is you can't compare apples to oranges, and listen to lay people. Listen to the ss people, they do this for a living and are trained. Also, some information they can't give out over the phone, but can in the office after they have required documents from you.
When my first husband passed, I was told I had to come into the office. On the phone I was told I may get nothing for the children. But, when I took in the marriage certificate, their birth certificates, his death certificates and SS cards and such, I did indeed get checks for them.
But, before we could be given the info, we had to prove who we were in relationship to him. So, instead of asking other people, follow their instructions and make an appointment. But, for sure, you can't collect from it if you never paid into it.
I was married for over 11 years and my wife had passed away approximately in 1997. I was just told that I could have been collecting benefits I have not been aware of. Am I still able to get benefits after 17 years since her death?
By BCT from Cohoes, NY
By cybergrannie 06/06/2014
Take the advice of "redhatterb" and talk to someone at your SS office.
A lot will depend on why you are applying for benefits?
Are you disabled? Can you draw benefits in your own name?
Do you have young children?
Did your wife work long enough to have SS benefits?
Use advice from "friends" as a trigger to go to your SS office for true facts.
I have three kids and their father died in 2009. However he never worked. Is their anything I can receive for them from SSI?
By cybergrannie 06/01/2014
It would appear that you, your husband and three children have survived all these years without him working so what has changed?
You may be able to receive some assistance from the government for your children (especially medical and food stamps) but the amount of help will depend on the children's age and whether you should be working to help yourself and your children.
I do not believe you will receive any benefits from Social Security but you will have to look for any answers yourself.
Thrifty readers may feel some concern for the children but I doubt that many will really "feel" for your situation as most are now and have been working and reporting income so they will have a right to benefits if something like this should happen in their family.
My daughter's grandmother is deceased and since she is the only grandchild can she draw from her?
By c.laquasha from Jacksonville, FL
By susan 05/13/2014
Social security doesn't care that she is an only grandchild. She could only draw from her grandmother, if her grandmother was her legal guardian with full custody.
Me and my husband married in '02, divorced in '11, and then remarried in '13. He passed away the other day, but while we was split up he had another child by someone he never married, not 100% on paternity. Will she receive benefits for the child or will she have to prove paternity? We have a 12 yr old and a 4 month old together.
By Barbara R.05/19/2014
The way I see it is she should care because childrens benefits are split by how many children there are. For example while married to my ex he had two kids and we had 1. When each child was added the same amount was split 3 ways then as they stopped being eligible due to being 18 the other two's amount increased now our child is the only one receiving benefits.
I was adopted out when I was 2 years old. My biological mother was always a part of my life. I stayed with her in the hospital until she died. Social Security office contacted my mom to sign me up for benefits so my mom took my adoption papers down to SS office and they later called and said I could not draw benefits. Is this true? There are 3 other kids and they all got benefits even the youngest and she had no rights to him. Can you please help me?
By susan 05/13/2014
If you were legally adopted, your biological mother signed away her legal rights to you, and you lost your rights to her benefits. Should your adoptive parents die, and both the deceased parent and yourself meet the qualifications, you would be able to get benefits from them. If your biological mother signed away her legal rights to another child, and that child is claiming benefits from her, he is doing so illegally. If caught, benefits will have to be paid back, and the person filing can be charged for fraud (fine and jail time).
I just did some researching about receiving benefits if parents pass. My mother has been deceased for 2 yrs and I didn't know at the time, even though she was receiving benefits for disability, that I would be eligible to receive money. I would like to know what I need to do to claim my benefits before it's too late.
By susan 05/05/2014
Was your mom able to work long enough and pay enough into the system for benefits to even be available? Either call you local SS office or get on SS website to get answers to you questions, or find out what you need to get together in order to file. You are aware, that a child's benefits will go to whoever is taking care of you, for your care. Unless you have been emancipated, you probably will not get the monthly checks.
My husband died 11/2. His 15 year old son was living with us at the time, and had been for 4-5 years except for a brief couple of months when he lived with his mom. My step son continued to live with me for 5 months after his dad died, but his mother lied to SS and told them he was with her and began receiving benefits. I called SS and was told they could not talk to me because I was not a biological parent. What do I do? I have written proof that this child was living with me and Mom was receiving his survivors benefits and not forwarding any payments to us.
By Terry W.
By susan 05/05/2014
Who is his legal guardian? He/She is the one entitled to his benefit check. If you aren't his legal guardian, you are entitled to nothing. Unfortunately, this happens when marriages are dissolved and children are involved. This is why it's best to have wills drawn up and legal issues resolved before something happens. If his mother doesn't have legal guardianship, you may need to talk to an attorney.
I am currently 17 and will be graduating around three months before my 18th birthday and I was wondering when do they stop my benefits or do they continue if I am a full-time student at college?
By susan 05/02/2014
Once upon a time, benefits continued through college; they no longer do that. Now, they usually stop when a person turns 18 or finishes high school, whichever comes first. I think there are a few cases where they may last longer, like a cognitive impairment or blindness, but I'm not sure. Call or go to the website. They have lots of general questions and answers.
My husband passed away 6 weeks ago. Is the money he last got on his SSI benefits mine to get?
By susan 05/02/2014
Those were his benefits, not yours; I do know that SS has requested refunds when people have died. They pro-rate the money for that month by the number of days the person had lived. You will have to visit an office and file paperwork to get things in order: to stop his payments and to start survivor's benefits for you and any children who might collect payments. He will also be allowed a small death benefit, I believe only $200.00. You should do this as soon as possible. Call first to see what you should take with you.
My son's father passed away a couple of months ago. We went to the Social Security office and found out that he is eligible for the monthly benefits. I was just informed that another woman is claiming that she is carrying my son's father's child. If she does DNA on a close family member, proves paternity, and starts receiving monthly benefits for her child as well, will the amount that my son gets decrease? If so, how much of a decrease will he get or is there a certain percentage that each child receives?
By cybergrannie 04/21/2014
Hi - There should have been a lot more information in the letter you received from the SS office - especially someone to call or write that would be familiar with your case. Follow the information in the letter or go to the SS office and show them the letter.
You do not say whether you were married to your son's father so anything would be a guess. SS benefits is not a first come first served but you need positive information from the SS office.
Usually at this age a surviving parent receives payments as well as the child and different rules apply when there are more than one child (family) claiming benefits.
I would not waste time looking for answers that no one can give you but the SS office.
My son's father died when I was pregnant and I have applied for SSI benefits twice and was denied. I am now waiting for a hearing. I am not able to obtain paternity because his family refuses to do a DNA test. What can I do to get my son approved to receive his father's benefits?
By Carli H.
By cybergrannie 03/25/2014
It appears that you and your son's father were not married - correct?
You will have to prove your case for sure.
Why can't you get a DNA test done?
Who has the child?
Why are the "grandparents" not wanting a DNA test?
Those are some of the questions that need to be answered before you request help anywhere.
I do not believe anyone on this site can help you.
The man listed on my child's birth certificate is not her biological father and he recently passed. I didn't know that until a home paternity test was done on another man who is her biological father. Is my child entitled to survivors benefits of the man on her birth certificate?
By mary martin 03/21/2014
I wonder at all of the people asking Social Security questions on this site. You all need to ask the people at the Social Security office these questions. All situations are different and so are the laws that apply to them. Why would you want to ask anyone else. The number for your local office is in your phone book. Stop asking the wrong people.
I'm 17 and I'm working at McDonald's. I get $7.25 an hour. I work 32 hours a week. I was wondering if I am getting a Social Security Survivor benefit check, will I still get it if I'm working?
By Alexus from Richmond, VA
Hey my name is Janel. The father of my child died last year and he was getting social security each month but he never had a job. Would my son get any benefits or no because his dad never had a job?
My 5 year old daughter's dad recently passed away and he was not a U.S. citizen. She was born in the U.S. and he is on the birth certificate.
By susan 03/25/2014
Did he have a social security number and legally work in the US? He would have had to pay into the system in order for it to pay out. Did he work in any other country and does it have any type of benefits?
My child's father passed away. Can my child receive any type of benefits if the father never worked?
By Keisha from Holliman
By susan 03/25/2014
Go to socal security's website; they have the answer to many questions normally asked. That being said, a person must pay in for several years before any money can be drawn. If no money was paid in, no credits were earned, and no benefits are available. Call to find out the ins and outs of your particular situation.
My father died when I was 12 which was 2 years ago. Do I receive any money until I'm 18?
By April 03/16/2014
Actually, in some states, such as Missouri. The child can get it in their name at age 17, as in Missouri you are considered an adult at 17.
Normally, you receive it until your 18 birthday, or until the month you graduate from high school, whichever happens last. But, if you are disabled or certain other qualifications, it can be even longer. You will need to call social security to ask them for your specific case.
I am almost 20. My dad died when I was 4 and I received my benefits till I turned 18. if I go back to school before I turn 23 could I reapply for my survivor benefits?
By Paula Jo C. 03/16/2014
I say yes, as long as your are in school. But again as it was suggested go to your Social Security office and find out the truth of the matter. After all the folks there work for all of us including you as a young adult.
I am the representative payee for my niece and nephew. My niece will be graduating in June and her survivors benefits will end. Will my 14 year old nephew's survivors benefits increase?
By Rita Haas H. 03/14/2014
Most of the time, Social Security benefits have a set amount and if there are more than one beneficiary, these benefits are split. The fact that one is not receiving them any more could very well mean that the younger one will have increased benefits. You need to call your Social Security office to find out the specifics.
My mom died in 1972 when my brothers were 15 and 13 and I was 10. We never received any survivors benefits. Was that correct, that we received nothing?
By Tammy Jo
By cybergrannie 03/13/2014
Who did you live with after your mother died? They would be the one that would have received any SS benefits if any were available. A certain number of quarters has to be paid into SS for anyone to receive benefits from that account.
The only place to get reliable information is to visit your local SS office.
We live in Florida. My son is 19, but is in his senior year in high school. Social Security sent a letter stating since he turned 19 in November he is no longer eligible for survivor benefits. It was my understanding as long as he was a full time student in good standing he would be eligible for benefits up to the age of 22.
By Fran 03/11/2014
I am a retired SSA employee. In the early 80s, legislation was passed by Congress that cut back on many types of social security dependents benefits, including the one for full time students (used to be if full time in school/college could receive checks up to and through age 22). Student benefits are now payable to elementary and/or secondary school students provided they are under age 19.
My son's mom just passed. We were married, but have been separated for 10 + years and never gotten a divorce. We were living in different states. I have him full time and was never given child support, will he get SS benefits?
By Pat O.
By HAPPYINHARNED 03/09/2014
If your child is under 18 and your ex wife worked, yes, he will draw a check and you will also draw the same amount for taking care of him/her. Call the local SS office. They will help you or go to the local office. If you call, they will tell you what to bring with you to sign up.
I want to know why my daughter got denied survivor benefits. She is my husband's daughter. I also brought the birth certificate with his name on it.
By Scheri from Detroit, MI
By April 03/04/2014
There are numerous reasons, but the SS office has to be the one to answer that. His has to be listed on the birth certificate, she needs to be a minor still attending school. He would have had to pay into the system for a certain length of time, not been in certain types of legal trouble, or have other dependents that already took all the support he had credited to him. When you received your letter stating she was denied, it should have stated the reason. All you have to do is call the 800 number and ask.
My son is 4 years old. His father passed away when he was 15 while I was pregnant. He had never had a job I have looked into getting a DNA test to be able to get my son's father's name on his birth certificate and was told I could get SS benefits. I am skeptical about spending the money to get the DNA test and a lawyer if I won't be able to receive any assistance. If someone could help guide me it be great. Thank you.
By weinerdog41 03/02/2014
Do I understand you correctly? The Father was a teen when he got you pregnant and died at 15 years old? In any case social security has to have been paid in for your son to receive benefits. So if the son's Father never worked and never paid in your son is not eligible. May be wrong but don't think so. Better call SS administration.
My daughter is 19 and a full time student. Did the benefits change to 21, when the child is a full time student?
By Leighla T.
By cybergrannie 02/22/2014
Hi - the only reliable information will be available at your local SS office. Some info can be obtained over the telephone but in person is better.
Has your daughter been receiving benefits? If so, were they stopped? If benefits were stopped then you should have received a letter stating why and giving information where to call or go for more information.
My son age 15 at the time, was not living in the home with us at the time my husband, my son's step father passed away. My son lived with us for a year and a half, then went to live with his biological father for a year and a half, then came back to live with me after my husband passed away. Is my son, his step son, eligible for benefits if we supported him in that year and a half he was living with us?
By cybergrannie 02/16/2014
Social Security office has all the correct answers. You generally only can obtain "generic" answers over the phone as they have no way to identify your true identity. Try going to the SS office in person with all related SS numbers, ID, etc.
I have two boys who receive disability funds through me. One is turning 18 and will no longer receive benefits. Does his brother's benefit change? Does it increase or stay the same?
By Cindy 01/29/2014
When your older child turns 18, the benefits he received will go to the other child. For example, if each was getting $100.00 now your younger son will get $200 now.
My nieces are receiving survivor benefits from their mom who passed away this past June. They are living with their paternal grandmother, the father is her son. The girls want to be adopted by their grandmother, if this happens, will their survivor benefits be cut off?
By cybergrannie 01/26/2014
you could take the grandmother to the social security office so she will know what can be done.
She will need a social security number for everyone (including the father if possible).
My daughter's father died at the age of 16 (I had her as a teenager). I have a job, but he never had a job. Can she receive survivor benefits?
By Chantel W.
By cybergrannie 01/15/2014
Hi - your best bet is to gather all your information (SS#'s for yourself and your daughter) and go to your local Social Security office and ask them your questions.
Your husband must have had a SS number if he & you filed income taxes? If so take his number also.
My daughter just passed away with 2 of her 4 children eligible for her Social Security benefits. Who files for the benefits and are those checks made out to the child or what? The father of the youngest son is out of state and will soon take him home with him. We don't want the father to benefit from these checks, but would like them to go to a trust for the boy. Please help.
By Carol A
By mary martin 12/31/2013
Your local Social Security office will answer all your questions. Each situation is different and only they will have the answers. Don't rely on outsiders to advise you as there are as many opinions as there are questions. Go to the professional source. They have trained individuals in these matters.
I'm getting money for my two older children. I would just like to know the rules on how the money is allowed to be used or can we put it in a saving account?
By mary martin 12/31/2013
The best place to get your answer is your local Social Security office. Nobody here can answer your question correctly. I don't know why people rely on sources outside the official office for answers. Contact Social Security for information relating to your specific situation
My children's father disappeared over ten years ago. We recently learned he died about 10 years ago. Are they entitled to collect their missed Social Security now?
By Mb from AZ
By Eileen M. 12/31/2013
Check with your local social security office. Be sure you bring birth certificates, etc to show how the kids are related. Good luck!
I'm currently receiving Social Security benefits until I graduate or turn age 19. Would my son be able to receive them? He was born a month ago?
By cybergrannie 12/22/2013
You need to go in person to your local social security office and carry all necessary paper work.
My husband died two years ago at work. My little girl receives worker's comp and Social Security. Should I also get Social Security? We were married when he died. We were just living apart because we were relocating. I was still living in Georgia and he was living in Florida getting us a place ready.
By cybergrannie 12/19/2013
Hi - who applied for your daughter to receive benefits? This should have been answered at that time but you should check with your local Social Security office if your case has not already been decided.
My 8 year old son's father passed on 11/29. He did not have a relationship with our son, but paid child support on time and has been proven to be the biological father via DNA testing in 2006. My son's father was married (but his wife had just filed for divorce the week before) and has a 6 year old son with his wife. I filed for benefits for my son, but the gentleman I spoke with said that they couldn't file my son's application until his father's widow came in and filed and application for her and her son. Is this correct? I've spoken to her twice since filing and she doesn't have any desire to file. My hands feel completely tied.
By cybergrannie 12/19/2013
There are a lot of variables and only an attorney or your Social Security office can give you information for your situation.
Of course, filing for divorce means nothing in this situation but it is possible you may need an attorney to help you - try children's services as well as talking to another Social Security person.
Last year my father died and we applied for the Social Security check. My mother has been telling me that we haven't been getting it, but I recently found out that she had been keeping them and not giving it to me and my little brother. Is this legal? What do I do?
By cybergrannie 12/19/2013
Hi - I believe that redhatterb gave an excellent answer.
Social Security benefits are for the adult who is taking care of you and your little brother - providing shelter, food, clothing and anything else necessary for your survival. They are not obligated to give you any of this benefit money but they are obligated to use this money to take care of you.
When you are old enough move out and become self supporting then you may request your share be sent to you to assist with your support.
You can check with Social Security to find out exactly what your "rights" are.
If a father signs his rights away for his child and that child has been legally adopted, and years later her biological father (that signed his rights away) passes away, will that child be eligible to get his death benefits?
By Melissa M. from Blue Springs, MO
By LaQuetta 12/17/2013
If the child has been legally adopted then she is the adoptive parents child in every sense of the word. She has no legal ties or rights to anything of her birth parents. That includes no legal right to benefits from either of her biological parents. The adoption cut all ties to her birth/biological parents.
My dad passed away in September of this year. I am a disabled adult. I was approved for survivor benefits. Will I get back pay survivor benefits for September, October, and November? I haven't received any payment yet?
By Mandy J
By cybergrannie 12/05/2013
Who approved your application? Did your Dad take care of you before he died?
You will have to ask your questions with whomever approved you for benefits or Social Security office (in person).
My son is 15 and he lives at home with me, his father. His mother just passed away the 21st. What I want to know is two things. She had been trying to get disability and they were just about to go to court. I called her lawyer and he said that there are different types of disability cases and that even if she has passed they will still have court and that the kids would get her back pay. The other two are 19 and 21. My next question is can I apply for survivors' benefits being she hadn't worked the last few years? Thanks. Lost Dad
By cybergrannie 11/29/2013
Hello and I am sure the Thrifty community wish you and your family many blessings in this sad time in your life.
It does seem that your wife's attorney would answer some of your questions but if not (or you just want more info) you should go in person to your local Social Security office. Be sure to have all of your information with you so maybe one trip will suffice.
I do not believe you will receive any benefit (other than "burial" benefit) but your one or more of your children may be eligible. Age is a big factor here so the SS office is the best place to get your "real" answers as all cases are different and depend on many factors.
I believe the death of your wife will probably cancel the disability case as those benefits would have been for her but I really have never dealt with a case like this.
Maybe when you have some answers you could post your case here again?
When one child turns 18 and loses his SSDB, does the other child get his portion? My son turned 18, my daughter is 5; will she get his portion of their father's death benefit?
By Cindy 10/31/2013
Yes, that is true. The benefit amount is the same no matter how many children. When one child turns 18, the other will receive his money.
My father died when I was 6 years old and my mother died when I was 12. I then moved with my aunt and she became my legal guardian. I was told she would receive money for us until we turned 18. I am now 18 years old and I'm in college and I'm wondering when will I begin receiving the money.
By Eileen M. 09/27/2013
I would check with Social Security office, but I'm afraid that once you are an "adult" you stop getting any benefits unless you are somehow disabled... Good luck!
My dad passed away when I was 11. I'm now 21. I received SS checks, but my mom always put them in her bank account. I think she only should have gotten a portion of it, not all. I would never try to take my mother to court, but I've always wondered if this was ever fair?
By Lucinda Heaney K.09/24/2013
The money was for your Mom to raise you.
I'm 18 years old and plan on moving out of my mother's house. I recently got my Social Security check back from my father's death. My mother tells me that since I am still a student in school I still receive it, but on the other hand she tells me if I move out I won't receive it anymore. When I move out I'm still going to be a student. Shouldn't I still be able to receive my SS check if I'm living on my own and still in school because I'm 18 and the check is in my name. If I move out and she receives the check without me being there would that be considered fraud? How would I go about receiving the check on my own? Please help. I need answers.
By Christina V. from Avon, IN
By redhatterb 09/21/2013
Discuss this with your local social security office.
My son's father passed away at the age of 21. He really was so young and didn't work enough or pay into SSI enough. Is my son entitled to anything since his father was so young when he passed away?
By Tanya 08/30/2013
My daughter's father also passed away at the age of 21. I checked to see if she could get ssi or survivor's benefits. I could not because he didn't have enough work credits yet. However, this was back in 1981 when I applied. Rules may have changed since then. I would suggest that you go ahead and apply. The worse thing that can happen is that they say no.
My daughter has been receiving Social Security benefits from her father's death. She has since had a child of her own, which I now have guardianship of. If I end up adopting my grandchild, will she be able to receive her grandfather's Social Security as well?
By Teresa F.
By cybergrannie 07/17/2013
Hi - You did not give the age of your daughter so there will be questions asked - are you still receiving benefits for your daughter? Does she still live with you? Does she receive the checks?
I believe that I read somewhere that something like that could be considered fraud.. Not sure but you should be able to get the answer to your questions at the SS office. Best to start there.
When I was 2 years old my father passed away from cancer and my mother didn't take care of me. In fact she was and still is a drug addict. Is it possible to apply for benefits after 14 years because I had no way of applying myself at the age of 2.
By Cheyenne P. from Flint, Mi
By brigittes 08/13/2013
I don't have any advice, I just want to add my sympathy that you have had it so hard. I hope you hang in there and use all your god given talents to be a good person and realise your potential.
My brother died in 2002. His 7 yr old daughter went to live with her great grandparents and my parents kept her every weekend and holidays. The child's mother and grandmother lived in another home and raised 3 boys (half brothers) born after my brother separated from the mother (they were never married). My niece's mom kept the checks for over 10 yrs for her household.
The great grand parents were afraid of causing problems and never spoke up. Now my niece is 20 with a four year old. They live with the surviving great grandparent. The mother said, "The child never did without", when confronted and claimed she wasn't allowed to save any money for Zoey. She said the money had to be spent.
How much could she have saved a year? Did they have any right to my niece's money? She never lived with her mother and grandmother.
By Dinah Ackerson 06/06/2015
This situation is a bit complicated and the only answers to your questions would be from the Social Security Administration. Go to the SSA office in your area, present the facts as you know them and SSA will investigate to determine the specific legal issues and if they will pursue legal actions to correct the entire situation.
My biological father died, but he gave up rights to me. Can I still get his Social Security benefits? If so how do I go about doing so? Also he died when I was 16; I am now 28. Can I get a lump sum of back pay? I could really use the money. I have a child of my own and no money.
By Manda B.
By Dinah Ackerson 02/19/2015
You should go to your local Social Security office for an answer to your question.
I am currently drawing Social Security Disability and my son also draws a check for me being disabled. My wife, and my son's mother passed away a few years ago from cancer. Are either of us eligible to draw Social Security Survivor benefits from her? She worked for many years and paid into Social Security, but never drew it herself. I am 43 and my son is 15 years of age. I would draw a larger benefit than her so I'm not sure if I'm eligible, but would my minor son draw a survivor's benefit from his deceased mother and continue to draw from me as well since I am disabled?
By Dinah Ackerson 01/13/2015
You should check the Social Security Administration in your area for answers.
My father passed away in 1986. My siblings and I received monthly benefits till we reached the cut off age. So our mother was only the benificiary and the payments were stopped, but she is still alive. My question is, how many pay outs or should we say how many months or years should my mother receive monthly benifits?
By Dinah Ackerson 01/13/2015
Only Social Security would be able to answer your question.
If my ex husband of 12 years draws more retirement SSI than I do, can he get my full survivor's benefits when I die?
By redhatterb 12/15/2014
You should call your local Social Security Office and ask them about this. Your ex-husband is more than likely getting retirement SS, without the I.
My children receive survivors benefits. It is more than I got in child support. So will my food stamps get cut back because they are now receiving money?
By Jane Doe
By cybergrannie 12/06/2014
You should have been informed about how/when to report a change in income when you were first granted food stamps. It would be best to go in person to report the change just in case they need more information but you could make a telephone call to make an appointment.
Please remember - not reporting a change could be construed as fraud and there is a penalty for failing to do this. Also, the food stamp program is a government agency and many government agencies now work together (or share information) just to try to keep people from collecting from more than one agency (abusing the system). Does this always work to stop fraud? No - but it does work sometime and when it does work - the individual "caught" is usually prosecuted and also has to repay any extra money collected. Remember - social security numbers are so easy to trace through any government program (all entitlement programs, IRS, Hud) - we are all "numbered".
I believe it is always best to be thankful for what we receive and stay within the guidelines of any programs that are set up to help in times of need.
I want to know, since my little girl's daddy died, can I apply for her to get his Social Security checks? She is five years old and her father's name is on her birth certificate. How do I go about applying for it?
By Wendy from Slidell, LA
By redhatterb 11/18/2014
Call your local Social Security Office and talk to them. They can give you the right advice. A lot will depend on if the father worked enough years to qualify for Social Security.
My daughter gets SS survivor benefits, but she will be graduating early, in January 2015. Her birthday is 4-25. Can she still get benefits even if she is not in high school?
By redhatterb 11/12/2014
Talk to your local Social Security Office, they can give you the correct answer.
My grandfather was a U.S. military pensioner. After his death my mother received a benefit for the services she has done for my grandfather. She received a monthly pension for being the annuitant of my grandfather. My mother had a Social Security number which her monthly pension had a deduction for Social Security payments. Now, my mother has passed away. We already reported her death and her pension already stopped. My question is, since my mother is a Social Security member is there any death benefit for an annuitant?
By Myrna Peña
By redhatterb 11/05/2014
You are going to have to call your local Social Security Office to find out the correct answer.
My husband died April 2014 at the age of 27. I was his first and only spouse. He was my first and only spouse. We had one child, she was born October 2014, about 6 months after my husband's death. My husband was employed off and on before he died and I do not know how many credits he earned. There is no issue of disability, although I was not able to work during my pregnancy due to a pregnancy-related medical condition. I am not currently employed and our 1 month old newborn has been in the NICU since birth. Where do I even start?
By Kate W.
First off sorry for your loss, but you can apply for benefits online at the social security website. The hospital may know of different benefits you can apply for, ask to speak to the social worker.
Can you be denied SS benefits from a deceased parent if the other parent makes too much money? My baby's father died when my baby was only 1 month old. We were engaged to be married and his name appears on the birth certificate. My question is because we were not married, and I am employed and make a decent living, can I be denied benefits for my baby because of this?
By redhatterb 11/04/2014
Have you thought about calling your local Social Security Office and asking them? They are the ones that know the correct answer.
I have had 3 children that receive SSI checks in the state of Arizona. 1 child I have had for over 3 years the other 2 almost 2 years. The grandmother sends me the money for bills. What do I do to get control of these checks since I have the children.
By redhatterb 10/22/2014
Call your local Social Security Office and talk to them. That being said is the by any chance a possibility that you aren't capable of controlling all the money at one time.
My husband passed away. I had a little boy with him, but when I went to sign up for benefits they told me he hadn't paid in enough for me or my son to receive benefits. Why is this possible?
By Amy D
By cybergrannie 10/18/2014
The SS office should have given you the answer to this question when you applied but maybe the answer was not thorough enough.
The basic answer is for anyone to be eligible to receive SS benefits they must have paid money into SS over a certain period of time and completed a minimum number of what the SS calls "quarters".
If the original person did not have enough "quarters" paid in then they could not have drawn benefits and neither can anyone else draw benefits from their account. Anyone can request information about their own eligibility from the SS office.
You can obtain a booklet explaining this from your SS office or call their office and request it. They will mail it to you or you can search for SS information on the Internet and either read it on line or print out a copy. "Quarters" is explained in this booklet also.
This question also points out the problem people have who are self-employed and do not complete IRS forms and pay their SS taxes every year. They may not be eligible for SS benefits later in life unless they also work where they do pay SS taxes.
My son's father passed away in February 2014. His mother refused to give me custody, so we went to court on June 18th and judge told her she never had custody to give my son back. She has also been receiving his benefits as well. So she finally canceled them on July 29th.
I had applied to be the new payee since I am custodial mother, but I was refused due to a felony. So my mother who is a payee for 3 other people applied to be his payee. They sent her the same letter they sent me, "You are the payee but we are no longer paying my son's regular monthly benefits at this time." I called and they said the benefits were suspended When my mother called they said that she was going to receive the back pay from when my son's other grandmother's benefits stopped which was July. It is now October 14th and we all have spent our entire savings making sure my son has everything he needs. My son and I both have ADHD, can either of us also apply for benefits because he does have a learning disability says the school.
By redhatterb 10/14/2014
Not everybody that is ADHD is considered disabled. If you aren't declared disabled you don't get it. As far as the school stating that your son has learning disabilities goes, if you apply for disability for him, more than likely he will have to be tested by their experts. It isn't easy to obtain. As far as survivor's benefits go, it sounds like you might have to reapply. I know lots of families that collect disability for one member or another and none of them are getting rich off it. Most of them never had any savings to begin with, they manage to scrape by.
I have been receiving survivor's benefits from my deceased husband who was the stepfather of my children. Now my children's biological father has been approved to receive SSDI. Can I still get the survivor's benefit amount from the stepfather and also receive the SSDI benefits from their natural father?
By Shirley K
By cybergrannie 10/10/2014
You will have to go to your local SS office to get the information you need.
I do know that you cannot receive benefits from 2 different people but your benefits may be higher from your ex-husband than their stepfather.
Can I get my mother's Social Security? She passed and I'm 19, but I'm in college? My second question is, can my step dad receive my brother's SSI when he doesn't live with him and he's not his dad?
By Ciara P.
By cybergrannie 10/10/2014
You will have to go to your SS office for answers to your questions.
However - the SS office will not give you information concerning anyone else so your brother will have to go (with you?) to get his answer. If your brother is under 18 then usually his guardian would receive the benefits for him. Is there someone else who takes care of your brother? Guardianship usually has to be proven so he should look into this but an underage child cannot usually receive the benefits themselves unless they prove they are providing for their own support.
Will my daughter get survivors benefits even if her dad told Social Security he doesn't have any kids under 18 when he really does? I have court documents establishing paternity where he swore before the courts that he is her father.
By Brenda from Sacramento, CA
By cybergrannie 10/08/2014
I would say that you should go to your local SS office with all documents and see what they tell you. They will probably let you start a case for benefits so you will have a begin date. This is very important because this will establish a date that benefits (if and when approved) will start. This is the only way to receive back benefits if you win the case.
The SS office may disapprove this so be prepared to seek an attorney (one who specializes in SS benefits) even if you have to pay them a "share" of the amount you would receive for back payment. This is common practice for this type of case but some attorneys will have a "set" amount they will accept. Seek whichever is best for you but this may be your best route to take.
Just be sure to make your appeal within the time set in any letters from the SS office.
I am 16 and will be 17 in exactly a month, my mother has just died 4 weeks ago from today. I'm not the one going to be the payee, so if I get married to my boyfriend will my Social Security from my mom stop even though my mom's Social Security is going to my father?
By Mercedes S.
By cybergrannie 10/07/2014
Do you mean that you are receiving SS benefits alone or do you & your father receive benefits from your mom's SS?
Benefits for children usually do not go beyond 18 years of age unless they are disabled. Some things have changed in the last several years so you should check with your local SS office for accurate information. Including your question about marriage.
If your father is old enough to draw SS benefits then he may be able to continue receiving a check but not necessarily from your mother's SS.
Can my father receive my mother's SSI benefits after she passed away?
By redhatterb 10/04/2014
Talk to your local Social Security Office to get the correct answer.
What benefits is my grandson entitled to besides survivor benefit check? Can I apply for food stamps for him only, I'm his legal guardian. He does get a survivor's benefit check.
By Carla from Athens, GA
By redhatterb 10/04/2014
Talk to your Department of Social Services/Welfare Office about this matter. They can tell you the right answer. Probably they will consider your income too.
My daughter is about to have her deceased husband's baby. They conceived in January, married in March, he died in April. He was 26 years old and had started a new job, but prior to that he had paid a little into SS through employment - mostly he was a student on and off. Will my daughter receive some sort of benefit to help her raise the baby? If so from who? She is 21 and has 1.5 yrs of college and almost no work history at all. We live in Texas.
By Marlo W
By tricia minter 10/06/2014
My husband died at 39. We had a 12 year old son at the time. He received SS from his father until his 18th birthday. As for a widow receiving benefits, as far as I know, you have to have been married for 10 years prior to his death & have not remarried. Then at age 60 you can draw benefits. That's how it has been for me. I recently turned 60 & am now drawing benefits. Go to your local SS office. They will give you all the information you need.
We are in the process of acquiring custody of a minor relative. His father has relinquished his rights and his mother is deceased. The mother gave birth at age 17 with very little employment history. Can you tell me if he has any amount of Social Security benefits available to him if the mother never established an employment history.
By Jewel from Portland OR
By cybergrannie 10/03/2014
If the mother did not work and pay SS then there would be no SS benefits available.
But - according to your income status you may be able to receive benefits from your state - especially health benefits.
If you are not sure where to check I would suggest you seek out someone in your church who deals with helping people in "need".
Or go to your local Salvation Army as they always have a list of "places' to go for this type of assistance.
My mother passed away three years ago. I got Social Security from her until my 18th birthday. Now I have graduated from high school and want to get a job and go to college. My father claims I can not touch the money until he gets good and ready for me to have it, but he is getting money out of my account for his personal wants and will not let me get any. I need it badly. I don't live with him and need all the help I can get with insurance for my car and college funds. Since I am 18, do not live with him, and am wanting the money for school could I get it? Could I take him off my account so he can't draw anymore out for his wants? I need help; any input would be more than helpful.
By Missy D from Whiteville, NC
By redhatterb 06/27/2014
Are you sure your father is using your money, instead of his own survivor's benefits? He should have been getting some of his own. Furthermore in the case of minors, which you were until recently the money that minors get is usually used to help with their expenses. It can almost be considered the same as child support.
If the surviving parent doesn't need the money to help with supporting the child then it is usually put into savings for college, or whatever. Talk to you Dad in a nice way, not confrontational and also talk to your local Social Security Office. I have a feeling there is more to this story than you are telling. For example when did you move out? If you were living at home you wouldn't have quite so many expenses.
My son has a learning disability, severe learning disorder auditory processing disorder combined with severe short term memory issues. He had support from pre -k until he left in 11th grade. He could not function without support. That was why I applied for his benifits a year ago.
I received a letter from SSI stating that, we had your case reviewed by someone else as you asked. It states we still find we were correct in denying your case by the facts, etc. I am summing up the answer they gave me. Also it states in the area below that the following.
Why we can't pay you:
You do not qualify because the facts we have do not show you are John Doe's child.
My x has passed away now. He signed our son's birth records after the hospital because we were not married at the time. He is listed as the father on all the records in the hospital etc. I just need to know is my son being denied because of the 2nd reason or first? It seems as though they are using the second reason to deny my son.
By cybergrannie 06/23/2014
Your information is a little confusing. How old is your son? Where did his support come from all those years?
Are you applying for SSI for your son? Did you apply - was turned down and you ask for a review?
How long ago did your boyfriend die? Did you apply and receive survivors benefit when your son's father died? If you did not apply for these benefits, I can only ask why? If you had applied for survivors benefits then support may have continued "forever" if your child was found in need of that support.
Or where has he been receiving his "support" from?
Apparently their is some doubt as to who is the father of your son in the eyes of the "judges" of the SSI so you will have to come up with "proof" and that may not be easy. It is possible to have a DNA test done with your son and a very close relative of your boyfriend and if this is positive then SSI may drop this issue but I do not know about the disability issue.
I am only asking these questions because there are a lot of gaps in your question. No one here can help you with something like this.
It appears that you may have used your ability to ask for another review but only an attorney who specializes in SSI can really give you correct information. You may be able to discuss your case free of charge and they will know if they can take it any further.
A trip to the Social Security office may be beneficial but I feel sure they will not be able to really help you.
My mother was the payee for my daughter's survivor benefits and now my husband is. Her stepfather, her dad, passed almost 4 years ago. My main question is, the monies that were in a savings account were turned in to Social Security ($3800) over a month ago by my mom. Why is it taking Social Security so long to send that money to us?
By Kellie P. from Seminary, MS
By redhatterb 06/13/2014
You are going to have to talk to your local Social Security Office about that matter.
My son's father passed away a little over a year ago. After being skeptical of whether his dad had ever worked or not, I finally went to the SSA and applied for survivor benefits and learned that my son did have benefits that he was eligible for. Now we come to where paternity had to be proven because my son's dad was incarcerated at the time of his birth so he didn't sign the birth certificate. I had tried putting him on child support but he passed away before we could do the paternity test that he had requested.
I contacted his mother in regards to writing a letter stating that her son did acknowledge my son as his, and this is where I encountered my problem. His mom told me that she would "think about it" which really made me furious! Being that her son stopped helping take care of my son 5 years prior to his death. I really just want to know what are some other ways of proving the paternity. I would also like to know if I could have her ordered by a judge to take a paternity test? I am determined to get my son what he has coming to him.
By cybergrannie 05/22/2014
I would suggest that you talk to an attorney. If you cannot afford an attorney try going to your local Children & Family Services center for help. It would be best if you could find an attorney who works with this type of cases.
Sometimes you can find assistance with finding a "cheap" attorney at a local church.
My grandson in 18 and will finish high school 5-29-14. I know his survivor check will stop once he is no longer in school. Are these checks paid in arrears? May 14th for April one more check in June for the month of May?
By redhatterb 05/12/2014
Call your local Social Security Office and ask them.
My stepson turned 18 on April 23. What month would he recieve his last check?
By booz b.
By redhatterb 05/04/2014
You will have to call your local Social Security Office and talk to them. Do you mean SSI(Supplemental Security Income) or do you mean Survivor's Benefits? SSI or SSD usually goes to disabled people. Survivor's benefits go to a person whose spouse of parent has died. The SSI usually continues until the person get to where they can support themselves.
My dad passed away 3 years ago and I just recently turned 18. I have a F in geometry class and I plan on taking geometry over the summer. So can you still receive the survivor benefits?
By Anissa L. from Los Angeles, CA
By redhatterb 05/04/2014
Call your local Social security Office and talk to them. Have you been supporting yourself for the last three years or has the benefits been going to an adult to help them with the cost of raising you?
My daughter's benefits are directly deposited to my bank account. My bank sold out to another bank. All my information will change soon. How do I change my direct deposit information for her benefits? My daughter is under 18 so she cannot create an account with SSI. I have one, but her benefits do not show up on my account with SSI. So what do I do?
By Roger Miller
By redhatterb 04/24/2014
Talk to your local Social Security Office. As far as that goes, I would think your bank should have been able to help you.
My sister-in-law passed away leaving behind two beautiful kids. My question is would they be able to receive any type of benefits even though she lacks work history? She was on disability due to health issues that made it impossible for her to work. Please help me.
By redhatterb 04/16/2014
You are going to have to call your local Social Security Office to find out the correct answer.
I'm 16 and pregnant. I was emancipated, and am receiving my father's benefits in my name. My question would be would my benefits be cut off if I get married, but I'm still attending high school and under 18? Also when my baby is born will my SSI be cut off or raised/cut down? What will happen? Another question is at what age will my benefits be cut off?
By Marissa L.
By redhatterb 04/15/2014
Call your local Social Security Office and talk to them, they are the only ones that know the correct answer.
My daughter's father just passed away. He is on my daughter's birth certificate; he signed it. But his family says my daughter ain't his. I always would tell him let's get a DNA, but he would say no. My question is if I apply for the SSI will they have to do a DNA test on my baby?
By weinerdog41 04/17/2014
Gosh NO. Social Security Administration is not in the business of confirming ones DNA. If the Father's name is on the birth certificate that's what they will go with.
I had my son when I was 17 and his dad passed away 3 months after he was born (he had just turned 20). I went to the SS office in town to get benefits for my son and they said they could do nothing because he didn't work long enough for my son to get benefits.
His dad had worked for Legoland for a few months and then quit to go back to school. He was only 20 so I can see why he didn't work long enough. My son is now 3. I work full time plus take online classes I was just wondering if there was anything that I could do; if it's even worth appealing.
By redhatterb 04/10/2014
In order for a person to receive Social Security and/or SS Disability they do have to work a certain number years. I think it is called quarters. You are going to have to call your local SS Office and set up an appointment to talk to them in order to see if you can find out more information.
My daughter's biological father is deceased verified by a sibling DNA test. My current husband, at the time she was born, was my boyfriend and is listed as the father. He no longer supports her since the confirmation of paternity. How does she get benefits from her deceased biological father?
By TD from NC
By cybergrannie 04/07/2014
With all of those variables it will probably take a supervisor at the SS office to give you any answers. Call and make an appointment and be sure to take any information (forms, SS numbers, marriage license?, etc.).
Even though my child's father and I were never married do I qualify for mother of child benefits? My daughter does receive benefits, she is only 10.
By cybergrannie 04/07/2014
How are you receiving benefits for your child? Why did you not inquire about your benefits when applying for your child? You will only be able to receive correct answers from the Social Security office. They will be able to tell you if you can or what you may have to do to be able to receive benefits.
I am 19. I just lost my dad New Year's in a car crash. My parents had been divorced for 10/11 years. I am one of three children my dad had. He had two other twin boys that are 18. I'm a girl. I'm not enrolled in school because I have no income to pay for school. I'm not working. I'm unable to work because I take care of my grandma who had stroke 3 years ago. In just want to know if there are any benefits I can receive.
By Carol Swanson 03/31/2014
There is a toll free number for Social Security that you should call. Or phone your local Social Security office found in the phone book. I received Social Security benefits when I was your age because my father was receiving SS benefits. However, I was enrolled in college as a full-time student.
I encourage you to contact your local State Employment Office as they may be able to direct you to the correct office to apply for education or training opportunities. You will need to be trained to do something to earn a living for yourself and not be dependent on others for money your entire life. I suggest you aim high. Colleges have scholarships for students who do not have the money to attend. I believe need is one of the criteria used to determine who receives a scholarship. Don't forget you can also receive a student loan to help you. My children also had part time jobs.
I have faith in you and believe you can go to school, work part time, and care for your grandmother. You have it inside of you to do this. It is up to you to dig down and do it.
Warm regards for you and your future,
Carol in PA
My son's father past away when I was four months pregnant. I recently gave birth in January. Do I need to get a lawyer to go through this whole process of trying to get survivor's benefits for him? I've been told so many stories about what to do. Is there a way I can do this myself so it won't be so expensive? I am unemployed and caring for a newborn.
By redhatterb 03/21/2014
Have you talked to the local Social Security Office? That is where you will get the correct answer.
Can my niece receive my mom's Supplemental Social Security disability check? My sister passed away in 2008 leaving my niece to be raised by my mom whom also passed away in May 2013. My sister never worked and neither did my mom. My mom was receiving SSI (supplemental disability) checks because she was mentally disabled. My niece is 15 years old and is being raised by my aunt whom is also disabled and has very little income. Will my niece qualify for any Social Security survivor benefits? Any advice will help thanks. We are from Texas.
By Letty from San Antonio, TX
By redhatterb 03/19/2014
The state you live in doesn't make any difference. You have to call your local Social Security Office and talk to them. They are the only people that can give anybody the correct answer.
I get survivor benefits from my dad passing away in 2001. I'm only 17 and I'm pregnant. Can I still get those benefits while being with child?
By redhatterb 03/20/2014
Have you been getting the Survivor's Benefits or have they been going to your surviving parent/guardian who has been supporting you? I find it hard to believe that they would have been going to a minor, because those benefits are intended to help raise the minor. You will have to call your local Social Security Office and talk to them, and more than likely being you are a minor, they will have to talk to the adult that has been supporting you.
I am on Social Security Disability. Can I draw from my husband's Social Security; he passed away 18 years ago, and also keep getting my disability check? I'm 63 year old.
By redhatterb 03/13/2014
The only way to get the correct answer is to call your local Social Security Office.
My mother passed away 57 years ago and I don't know if SSI benefits were ever paid out. Would I still be able to claim them and how would I find out?
By redhatterb 03/07/2014
How old were you when your mother passed away? I would have thought if you were a minor, being raised by somebody else they would have applied for the benefits to help with the expense of raising you.
My ex-wife passed 7 years ago and our daughter is 15. She will turn 16 this June and I received a letter stating my benefits will stop, but hers will continue. 2 Questions: will her benefits increase when mine stops and will her benefits stop if I remarry? Thank you.
By Earl D.
By redhatterb 03/03/2014
Call your local Social Security Office and talk to them. They are the people that can give you the correct answer.
I was just curious to see if I can get any Social Security benefits from when my father died back in January 2, 2003?
By Donna from Middleboro, MA
By redhatterb 02/23/2014
Call your local Social Security Office and make an appointment to go and talk to them. They know more about it than we do.
My father died 12 years ago at the age of 63. I have a disabled sister who has Downs syndrome. My mother did not apply for the survivor's benefits for my disabled sister; can she now?
By redhatterb 02/11/2014
For the correct answer to this call your local Social Security Office.
My father passed when I was one month old and I never received Social Security. Is it too late to get Social Security if I'm over the age of 18? I am currently 28 years old.
By Linda W.01/08/2014
I would call social security office. Someone may have been given benefits to use to support you as you were growing up. Then you will know and the rest is up to you.
My mother died when I was three months old and I was passed from house to house until I was 16. I wanted to know now at the age of 28 can I still apply for survivor benefits or is it too late.
By redhatterb 12/18/2013
Talk to your local Social Security Office. That being said as far as I know they are for spouses and minor children. What is meant for the minor children is to support them, not for them to have as spending money.
My son has lost his dad's survivors benefit because I was recently was approved for SSDI. He will get 50%. I'm happy about that, but feel bad for him that he loses his dad's benefit which his dad payed into. We were not married and did not live together. Why is this and can I fight it? My SSDI is more than his survivor benefit.
By redhatterb 12/15/2013
How old is your son? That could have something to do with it. Talk to your local Social Security Office and see what they say. They will know more about it, than we do. What were you living off before you got your disability? Most cases that I have heard of the amount of disability payments are less if there is other income in the house.
My wife passed away a little over a month ago; she was disabled. I applied for death benefits for my children right away. How long from the application does it take to start receiving money for them?
By April 11/11/2013
Was it approved? My children received theirs the following month. When we applied, the lady at the office told us the date, and that was when it came.
My friend has 3 children. After the 3rd child was born, the mother passed away. The children started receiving SSI benefits. He is about to get remarried and she wants to adopt the children. Will the children still receive SSI if she adopts them?
By redhatterb 11/06/2013
The only way anybody gets SSI benefits is if they are disabled. These kids might be getting survivor's benefits. Your friend should talk to the local Social Security Office.
My husband died 4 years ago. We had two biological children that receive benefits. My youngest daughter was not his biological child, but he signed her birth certificate and was the only father she knew. She was denied benefits, why?
By redhatterb 10/20/2013
Talk to your local Social Security Office.
I know you get it until you're twenty if you stay in school. If I move out will I still draw it?
By Michele 10/07/2013
My daughter is receiving survivor benefits. We live in PA, I was told by the social security office that benefits will end when she graduates high school or turns 19, which ever comes first. Child support has the same rule.
When my husband passed my son and daughter and I were receiving survivor benefits; a set amount for the three of us. Then my son turned 16 and they stopped my widow's benefits and split the same amount between my two kids. Now my daughter has graduated and my son is left with only half the entitlement. Is that right or do I need to talk to the SS administration?
By latimore-carson from SC
By redhatterb 09/23/2013
Talking to you Social Security Office would be the best thing to do.
I have been receiving a SSI check due to my father since I was 6. Now I'm 16 and ready to get a job. If I apply for a job will I lose my SSI check?
By M.I.C from Adairsville, GA
Once you turn 18 the check will be cut off or if you are disabled, the check will continue.
My ex husband died leaving 2 children in college, age 19 and 20. Are they eligible for any benefits?
By Suzette M from Lynn, MA
By Marie Brack08/10/2013
Yes. Call the local Social Security office or go there and sign them up. Call first to see what documentation they will need you to bring.
Due to my father's passing in 2014, I received a portion of his last Social Security check that was issued and split with my brother, sister. I and received a SSA 1099 form after I submitted and received a federal income tax return for 2014. Do I prepare an amendment and file the form (back) to IRS in order to take care of this matter? The check amount was under $500.
By Keith L
My father just passed away in August. I'm 24 and going through some problems. I was wondering if I qualify for anything since I'm 24.
How do I get survivor benefits in Tuscon, Arizona, if my husband passed away in New Mexico?
My dad died October 4, 2010. I was 14. I have a brother. It's been 4 years and I haven't received a dime. I don't know what to do I couldn't finish my last year cause I didn't have money. My dad had disability cause he had one arm. I find it very unbelievable that I haven't received anything.
My husband and I were together 12 years and have a 10 year old daughter. We were engaged to be married Thanksgiving 2014. Unfortunately in Feb. 2014, he was diagnoised with stage 4 kidney cancer.
We got married 8/29. He passed 9/18. Do I qualify for mother of child or care of child benefits? Is there a time limit for marriage for "mother benefits". Yes, my husband and daughter were recieving benefits before he passed.
I am currently receiving disability benefits and in addition my children receive them based on my disability. My ex-husband just passed away and I am wondering will my childrens' survivor benefits be lower because I am on disability or will they receive the full amount?
By Melissa E.
I was 19 years old when my father passed away in 2003. A person from the SSI building called me to collect a check from him. When I got there they took the check back, because his name was not on my birth certificate. What can I do? Can I still receive that check?
By Angelena N. from Jamaica, NY
My son is in DFACS and I have not received his benefits in over a year. When he returns home will he receive all his money?
By mitephrab from Atlanta, GA
Can a child receive Social Security benefits if the parent that dies never worked?
My son's dad passed away Aug. 15, 2011. I didn't file for benefits when he passed away because he wasn't on the birth certificate. Now that my son sees his family more often they keep pushing me to file for benefits. They said they are willing to write a letter stating he is the father. My question is: is it too late to file for benefits?
A friend of the family says he'll get backpay from when his dad passed away, is that true?
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