My daughter really likes this boy. She's 11, as is the boy. I heard a few days ago from the boy's mom that the 2 are a 'couple'. What do I do?
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Well, hopefully you and your daughter talk to each other about everyday, mundane things as well as all the "necessary" stuff- such as, "Don't forget to start on that school project soon", etc. .At 11 years old, she may still seek your input and approval. I hope that this is the case.
Something similar happened with my son at that age, but a few easy conversations with him helped to end my worries , AND helped him think about-and sort out for himself-what " dating" meant for him and his schoolmates.
This is more or less how the convo went:
Me: So, how are things going with Sylvia?
Him: Oh, pretty good. She's nice. And she likes me a lot.
Your daughter is not old enough to date or really do anything "couples" do. So they are really only a couple if certain adults think it's cute to call them that.
As for the boy, this will probably go nowhere. It's rare that somebody meets their soulmate at the age of 11. You can probably consider it harmless.
The computer and phone are exceptions. Make sure you have access to your child's phone texts and her online activities. Note that she should not have any accounts on any social media sites. She's too young. Not only are children exposed to bullying and pornography online, they are also exposed to predators. Have her do her homework in a family room if she uses a computer.
Most kids are watched like hawks nowadays and are rarely out of sight of a protective adult. However, online is where they can get themselves into trouble.
Have you considered talking to her? Do you know what her feelings are, what her thoughts are about things couples do? You probably don't want to consider it, but many young people are becoming sexually active.
I sorta doubt when the boy's mother used the term 'couple', she meant it in the sense of a relationship. I think you can laugh off this little 'encounter'. But, do so while taking all of Abigail's advice. She has brought to light some important information all parents need to consider.
I wouldn't get too upset unless you see they're doing something inappropriate for their age. Talk to your daughter without accusing her and see what exactly being a "couple" means to her.
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