My Dad Has Dementia, Inviting People to His Birthday Party
Cozikan from Western Australia
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RE: My Dad Has Dementia, Inviting People to His Birthday Party
If you are worried he will see the invite( I like how your sister worded it) You can call the people if it is a small group and tell them of your concerns. That way no one will be embarrassed on the special day.
Post By Edie (Guest Post)
RE: My Dad Has Dementia, Inviting People to His Birthday Party
I have read that music from bygone times can bring the happy memories back. If you can, have some background music playing that was popular in your Dad's younger years.
This sounds like such a loving thing to do for your Dad. I'm sure it will mean a lot to him!
Post By Becki in Indiana (Guest Post)
RE: My Dad Has Dementia, Inviting People to His Birthday Par
Perhaps wording the invites 'lets help dad remember all the loving memories he has brought into our lives' or something like that. Also, keeping it very small, intimate may help, too. He may startle with many people around. Photos are a great way to help remember, let him lead, if he can, in memories, and keep the celebration short. Ask a nursing home staff what they'd suggest, as they work with such patients often, and are loving and careful not to overdo anything...It is nice to see a loving event planned for a parent who may not be able to do much for themselves. Kudos for you.
Post By KLS8800 (Guest Post)
RE: My Dad Has Dementia, Inviting People to His Birthday Party
When my mother was suffering Alzheimers, the nursing home urged us to put together a scrapbook of her family and friends from earlier years. While she wouldn't recognize me much of the time those last several years, she would recognize pictures of me from my childhood. Maybe each attendee, including Dad, could wear a picture of himself/herself from 30 or 40 years ago? Might just trigger Dad's memories of each person. I agree with Jackie that keeping things calm is important. Regarding the invitations, calling would prevent having to put Dad's condition in writing.
Post by deb7019
RE: My Dad Has Dementia, Inviting People to His Birthday Par
I think your party idea is very loving and WONDERFUL! I would suggest that you not warn anyone ahead of time, however. Just being around family and friends will be wonderful, and if he doesn't remember them, they can introduce themselves. They will figure out what is going on soon enough. It's a tough time. We went through it a few years ago. {HUGS}
Post By Enter your name. (Guest Post)
RE: My Dad Has Dementia, Inviting People to His Birthday Party
These people need to know. I would enclose a short handwritten note to the effect that Dad's memory isn't what it used to be, but he still loves a good party, so come and celebrate with us.
Post By Linda (Guest Post)
RE: My Dad Has Dementia, Inviting People to His Birthday Party
Hi there, he possibly wont remember him but he might, as long as the people you are inviting realise and wont get upset. Just remember keep it simple and not to noisy. The best thing would be to contact the Alzheimers association for advice.
Post By Jackie (Guest Post)
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