Try cleaning the inside of the drawers with Murphy's Oil Soap which leaves a nice scent behind. In a large bowl use about 1/4 to 1/2 capful of the liquid with warm water. Dip your cleaning rag in the water, wring it out and wipe away inside and out. ... View related article.
Don't know about vinegar, but I do know that ants will not cross talc powder. Here in SO CA in the hot summer we get them a lot. They used to come in through my kitchen window. I did some research online and tried the fix. I sprinkled baby powder on my window sill and whalah! They would not cross the talc. ... View related article.
It sounds like you have forgotten about you. I think you should do something for you every week, even if it is just getting a manicure, having coffee with a new neighbor, or just go for daily walks for 30 minutes. It would help clear your head, get you out of the house and doing something you enjoy. It would lift your spirits so you won't feel sorry for yourself. Try it, you'll be surprised. Make the time for yourself. When you feel good about yourself, it will be reflected in how you interact with your family. ... View related article.