For my daughter and son's showers (you can do this at any time). I made them a autograph book. I went to a scrapbooking store or craft store will work. I bought one 12x12 card stock in a wedding print (for the cover) and several plain 12 x12 sheets for the inside (depends on how many people will be participating). I had the sheets cut into fours. The day of the event, each person was asked to write a piece of advice to the couple or share some humor. Then I collected them, used them for a drawing, then took them to Kinkos or any office store, and bound them into a book. Total cost--around 10.00. It was a personal gift. My son-in-laws great grandma of 91 years passed away the following year but left them a very special memory in that book. You can also leave some blank pages in the book for those not able to attend, but can sign later ... View related article.