My husband I got married by a "JOP" on Halloween. We had special duds picked out just for the wedding and had our closest friends there for attendants. Later we went to lunch. A few months later our friends got married in their back yard with a few of their closest friends and family. They had a single layer cake from the local supermarket and homemade bouquet. Later they had a BBQ. They also asked a couple of guests to take pic with digital cameras during the ceremony and reception. (That way not developing unwanted feet pics or a pic of a quests rear-end). I believe a clergyman will do it for a small donation or for free. ... View related article.
I know them as "quillows". Basically it is a quilt or a blanket with a pocket sown on the back bottom center. When the quillow is folded in 1/3 long ways and then &frac; on the last fold it is stuffed into the pocket. The Pocket's size is 1/3 the width and 1/4 the length ... View related article.