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Finding a Lost Relative

Finding a Lost Relative, Genealogy StudyWhether you are trying to locate a relative you have never met or attempting to reconnect with some one you have lost track of, finding a lost relative can be a daunting task. There are many resources available to help you with the search. This is a guide to finding a lost relative.
     

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Use the Internet to Find Lost Relatives

I found my siblings by googling my maiden name. Two of them had gone onto Facecook and came up in a search I did with Google. Since I have a very rare maiden name, that made it easy.

Even better, Mocavo.com (a genealogical search engine) is now online, specifically made for finding ancestors and missing people. Other sites to try:

  • GenesReunited has a missing people branch of their website that is world wide in scope.

  • Ancestry.com has free tree search and you might find a genealogy that lists your missing relative.

  • Rootsweb.com also has free tree search.

  • USGenWeb has volunteers who will check various things if they are able.

  • Random Acts of Genealogical Kindness, aka RAOGK, is now on Facebook, and has many volunteers available for look-ups.

Source: 25 years of my own genealogical research and study of the web.

By Cornelia from OR

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Finding a Lost Relative

My name is Sadie and I found your website through an Internet search. I really don't know where to start as I have now been trying my hardest to locate a relative of mine for quite a long time now but to no avail.

I actually gave up searching for a while as I haven't been able to come up with anything solid. However just recently I have decided to start asking for help again as I really want to locate the relative in question as a gift to my mother (it is her brother) whom I understand to be living in the United States.

As I am not a US resident, thus far I have come up against obstacles that hinder my search. I actually live in the United Kingdom. I have only a limited amount of information to go by on from what my mother told me years ago. So here I am again asking a complete stranger would you please please try and assist me in my search? I hope to hear from you soon.

Kind regards.

By Sadie from UK

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Most Recent Answer

By cowgirlredneck 05/19/2013

I have access to several websites, such as ancestry.com and others. I can search for you or help you learn how to search. Let me know if I can help. I wish you luck.
Becky H.
truebeliever05 AT gmail.com

Finding a Lost Family Member

I'm looking for my niece, I am her biological father's sister. She would be close to 40 years old. I would very much love to find her. Any thoughts on how to proceed? Thanks for the help.

By Kay

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By Joankay 03/18/2013

The Salvation Army helped us find a lost family member some years ago. I don't know if they still offer this service, but it would be worth a try. Good Luck.

Finding a Lost Relative

I am trying to find my sister I have not seen for 20 years and am having trouble. How can I locate her current address and phone number?

By Elizabeth P.

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Yellowpages.com

By Cajun 05/22/2011

I've found this to be pretty good, at least (if found) it will disclose address and a telephone number without you having to join http://www.yellowpages.com/findaperson


Zabasearch

By Suntydt 05/15/2011

I have used Zabasearch to successfully find many people. It may take a while and if she has gotten married and you don't know her new name that may make the task a bit difficult.

Finding a Lost Relative

I am trying to find my sister I have not seen for 20 years and am having trouble. How can I locate her current address and phone number?

By Elizabeth P

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Professional or Trade Magazine Ad

By Julia in UK 01/26/2012

Try to find your relative through their profession. If, for example, she was a nurse, you might not have to ask many nurses before someone remembered where your sister lived. Also they might help you to place an advertisement in a trade ot professional magazine.

Often it is difficult to trace people through formal routes because they change their names on marriage or are known by a nickname.


Salvation Army Website

By fatboyslimsmom 05/24/2011

The Salvation Army helps to find lost relatives. We have been contacted by them twice, looking for a man with the same name as my husband, but the one they were trying to find was much older.

http://www.salvationarmyusa.org/usn ... 9D05F78852574410045EEB5?Opendocument

Finding a Missing Relative

When I was 3 months old my father left my mother to fend for herself and the new born, me. He told my mother he was going back to the state he was born in to go help my great grandmother with my great grandfather because he had fallen ill. A few weeks passed and my mother finally got the nerve to call my grandmother due to the fact my mother had never met any of my father's family because they all lived in different states. His dad lived in Florida, his mom in Illinois, and his grandparents were there too.

Anyways when she called, his grandmother said no her husband was fine and he had never came to her house. My mother tried to find him using his Social Security number, but failed. 15 years later I'm finally old enough to know what is going on. Now she says she doesn't know what this social security number is or anything. I found a old birthday card he sent when I was two, with an old PO box number on it.

She doesn't remember most things when I ask her, like what did he look like. I have a feeling she isn't telling everything to me and my mother doesn't keep things from me.

He's done this once before. I have an older sister by him whom I have never met either. All I know is his name. If you have any ideas on how to find him please let me know.

Thank you it would mean the world to me if I could meet my father at least once before I turn 18, but it would be nicer if I could before 16. :)

By "hollywoodundead" from Akron, OH

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Genforum

By Cookin'Arkie 12/06/2011

Try genforum, a genealogy site that helps in finding family members, alive and not. You can google search by typing genforum and your last name. Also can be searched by state and sometimes county. Hope you find who you are looking for.

Finding a Lost Relative

I am looking for my son. I haven't seen him in 38 years. He lives in Rochester, New York.

By Robert

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By murphthejo 10/09/2012

I used to do adoption searches & have reunited close to 40 families. IF you have his social security # they used to let you write a letter to the person you are searching for & they would send it to them & it was then up to the person being searched for to contact you. Let me know if I can help. lulupurk AT yahoo.com

Finding a Missing Relative

How can I find out if a cousin is alive? He has not been seen in forty years. His mom said she lost contact while he was in prison 29 yrs ago. He was tried on federal charges in Virginia in 1990. He and another witness disappeared. He should be about 55 now. It was suggested he might be in witness protection. I would just like to know if he is alive. His younger brother says he has not been contacted in years.

By jow

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By T&T Grandma 03/17/2013

If the people who put your cousin were very successful, you are not going to find this person. He made a life choice.

Finding a Missing Relative

What can I do to find out if my sister's son is still alive? The last time he collected his disability pension from SASSA was at the end of June 2012. We have been trying to locate him through Missing Children, friends, and family. Now, after such a long time, we are not sure if he is dead or alive. We accept the fact that he could be dead, but obviously would like to get closure. Where on the web can I go to find out if he is still alive (or dead)?

By E. de V.

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