Beverage Tips For Weddings

By

Flamingbride

WE, the bride and groom, do not drink alcohol. We will plan to have a one hour cocktail hour at the reception. We will pay for this one hour. We decided the guests can pay for their own after the one hour.

Any suggestions on a nice punch to serve the remainder of time?

By

thriftyboo

Even though my husband and I are not opposed to alcohol, we did not serve it at our wedding reception. (This was 2 years ago when we were 28 years old.) We served iced tea, coffee, water and what I call "church punch" - 7-up, fruit punch and sherbet. No one complained and no one stumbled out drunk. We served plenty of food. So much so that we ate leftovers for months out of the freezer! Alcohol was simply not a necessary expense.

By

pamphyila

At my wedding I had iced tea, coffee, soda water and champagne - period. But we just had cake with it. Punch is fun, too.

By kitty84 (Guest Post)

i have to just say i find this odd. In the UK, its expected for the drinks at the dinner to be free, but all others not. Only really, REALLy suber fancy weddings here have a free bar.

By

Cindy S.

A compromise is always a good thing- especially on a limited budget. At my sisters wedding in June they offered free wine and beer. Anything harder than that and you paid for it yourself. It worked out great!

By

Katie A.

I'm kind of shocked that you are suggesting one must be drinking alcohol in order to have a nice time at a wedding. If that's so, I think a different kind of wedding or reception ought to be planned.

By Mary (Guest Post)

I totally agree. A wedding without cocktails is about as much fun as a tupperware party. Nobody stays for long, forget about dancing. The party is a dud. And I agree, the point is not getting drunk and stupid, just having a good, responsible time.

By Lois (Guest Post)

My Grandaughter had an outdoor wedding this spring. They had bottled cold water in large buckets of ice. They were a hit in warm Tennessee. They also served punch with the food.

By

kimhis

You're right, it's very poor to charge for drinks, if I could imagine the OPPOSITE of hospitality, that would be it! Let the festivities begin when they walk in the door! Will you come plan my next event? (VBG) thanks!

By

Beth

I'm with you, cubangirl, on this one.

By Diana (Guest Post)

And while were on the subject of tacky wedding things
Brides and Grooms...PLEASE DO NOT send a preprinted thank you note and just sign your names. I went to the trouble of selecting a gift, traveling 2 hours and speding 2 nights in a hotel for goodness sake. Couldn't you write me a thankyou note? You have 12 months to write the darn thing!

By Carrie (Guest Post)

It's cheaper still not to serve them at all! ;-) We served an elegant punch (that we made) and sparking grape juice at our wedding and it was a wonderful party!!