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Expenses - enrollment fees, activity/rental fees, lunch payments, and supplies, for example - add up. So does the cost of new shoes, clothing, and incidentals, like a class field trip, admission to sporting events or a school play, she said.
Thinking like a businessperson can, however, help parents reduce the stress of back-to-school shopping. In fact, following good business practices also may help stretch the funds available, said Walker, who offered these businesslike, back-to-school shopping tips:
"Teaching children to consider the needs of others is a lesson that can come from the inventory process. It also reminds children of what they have, and may help them be more able to differentiate between needs and wants," Walker said.
One good strategy might be to keep some money available for later purchases. Postponing the purchase of a new winter coat until cool weather is imminent also can be advisable, particularly for a child who is growing rapidly, she said.
Time available at home also is a factor. For example, if a child is growing rapidly, parents may want to purchase fewer clothing items and plan to do laundry more frequently.
"Children can feel intense pressure to fit in and may want one or more items that other children have. Trying to accommodate them occasionally - or compromising on a specific item - can help make a child feel more accepted," said Walker, who encouraged parents to strive for balance.
If a child routinely wants more than their parents can afford - or think they should spend - it may be time to consider an allowance that covers such expenses. Shifting the decision-making power usually ends arguments. Allowing an older child to spend 'their own money' also often results in more careful decisions, she said.
"Consider the length of time items like a backpack or calculator will be needed," Walker said.
"Back-to-school shopping trips can be good one-on-one experiences for parents and children, particularly when children have been involved in the inventory process," said Walker, who advised parents to take the inventory with them.
Shopping when stores are least likely to be crowded and at a time when both parent and child are well-rested is recommended. Waiting until the last minute is almost guaranteed to add stress, she said.
About The Author: For more information on consumer strategies, interested persons can contact their local K-State Research and Extension office. Story by Nancy Peterson, Communications Specialist - K-State Research & Extension News.(http://www.oznet.ksu.edu/news/)