By Abby from Zambia
Whatever you decide on, make it something that says you are paying attention to who and what he is into. Music is always a good one to give. Find out his favorite and give that or something similar. A new movie that is just coming out is nice for the two of you to share together.
Is he interested in hunting, fishing, have a favorite ball team, play computer games, into cars? Ask him questions about his likes. Listen as his interest peaks on a subject and ask more questions like what he might need for that interest that he doesn't already have if his conversation doesn't voluntarily state it without you having to ask.
You are in a good position to get to know about someone better, so ask away.
Do you know music or movies he likes? You can always get him a CD or DVD he will enjoy. It is a thoughtful gift that would not be viewed as being mushy or too sentimental early in a relationship.
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