My brother is getting married soon and he and his soon to be wife just bought their first house too. What I was wondering is for part of their gift we were thinking of buying them a tree to plant in their yard kind of symbolizing love, life, and a new beginning. Do you think this is a good idea and if so what type of tree do you think would be good? I wanna do a poem with it too, you know that kinda goes with the symbolizing and everything. Let me know what you think!
Thanks,
Mandi from Erie
What a great idea! I can't think of a better gift. Planting trees is so wonderful because you are truly planting a legacy! Our family always does this for births and deaths, but I have never considered doing it for someone's wedding. Just like flowers express different meanings, there are several great books floating around that contain the spiritual significance of various trees.
Here are a few Celtic meanings for various trees that I found on the web. Don't stop here, though, there are many sources:
More importantly than giving a tree based on a mythical meaning, make sure you choose one that is suitable to the new couple's landscape and hardiness zone. Maybe there is a specific type of tree than holds special significance to them.
Personally, I love apples trees. They give the gift of flowers in the spring and the gift of food in the fall. Plus, they look great in the landscape all year long. A book filled with family "apple" recipes would also make a nice shower gift. And don't forget to top off this gift with a sturdy apple peeler.
Good luck!
Ellen
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Oh, an apple or plum tree if they have the yard space. Fruit symbolizes fertility and abundance, and they could enjoy it for years to come! Maybe you'll get pies or jam too ;)
My favorite "Tree" poem has always been:
TREES
by
Joyce Kilmer
( How true only God can make a tree & a marriage)
This is a beautiful poem that will go with any tree that you chose. Just type in "Poem on Trees" in Google and you should get a copy of it. It wouldn't let me copy & paste for you. I agree that a Redbud or Dogwood are great gifts.
I suggest a dwarf fruit tree if they are to live in a neighborhood of some sort. Preferably an apple tree or cherry. They are two of the easiest to deal with. If they are going to live in a rural area such as I do... I suggest a healthy sturdy oak tree. Because I always wish that the newly married or to be married couple will have a marriage as strong and sturdy and long lasting as an oak tree.
A redbud tree has heart- shaped leaves and beautiful flowers in the spring.
What about a dogwood? They bloom in the spring and are very pretty.
I think a fruit tree would be the best choice, it will be rewarding and bring the property value up.
What a great idea,
I agree with a fruit tree if they like to can,
But you need to know what kind of fruit they would like
A cherry tree would be my choice. You could work the idea into your poem that along with the sweetness of the blossoms (good times) and the tartness of the cherries (obviously not so good times) there is still growth and nourishment. Good luck.
I suggest a wheeping cherry tree for this purpose. Another tree that is very beautiful is the flowering dogwood.
I also like the poem named, Trees.
I would buy them a gift certificate at your favorite nursery,for them to buy the type of tree they want. Since it is a gift that will live with them many years, hopefully. It is important they love it and have the happy feelings of love and joy you want it to symbolize. Plus if the nursery plants the tree it has a guarantee not to die for a year, or they replace it for free . :>) Lovely idea.Jill
I would check with plantogram.com Apparently they have fruit trees from every country!
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