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It's nothing big or small but invite a couple of your friends and have a party in your back yard. Just build a fire for marshmallows, get a projector and a white surface and have popcorn. Watch a movie outdoors and spend the night there.
That is a very frugal and fun idea! Good thinking! :)
Turn your garage into a dance club. Have some one DJ and let kids dance and have fun. Then turn the kitchen into a bar, remember no achoholic beverages
Great idea about garage party, my daughter will be 13 in april. I am booking a hotel room ahead, checking for best rates online, pick a hotel like drury inn that provides happy hour food, breakfast, popcorn and drink from 3 to 11, girls can play games, enjoy hotel amenties up to 6 girls, jacuzza, etc, hotel will feed them, you bring games to play in room.
I was mystified as what to do with my teenage girl but found a brilliant idea online. A scavenger hunt! We were having a party at the local park and I didn't want 14 teens running around terrorising the locals! So I made up a list of fun things to do or find. They had to take photos of themselves doing it and bring it back to me for proof. Each task had a point value. Tasks included - reflection of whole team but not in a mirror, find an apple, somebody dressed as a super hero, and so on.
Teens loved it! The winning team won iTunes cards, but you could have any prizes. A second hand trophy decorated, bags of lollies, up to you and your budget. This was a very cheap activity to organise, as many children have their own cameras on their phones.
I live in Texas. For my best friend's 13th birthday, we went to the Woodlands Mall and shopped there and just looked around. We didn't spend a lot of money, but we went to Build a Bear Workshop and acted like little kids and it was really fun. We went and ate at a restaurant, and then we went to the movies. We went to a really nice hotel room and we got our own hotel room, but it was a conjoined hotel room. Maybe you can do this for your daughter's birthday! Have fun!
Seems fun thx for the suggestion ! :-)
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My daughter's birthday is December 23rd. (I brought her home on Christmas Day.) I have no idea what to do.
Being that it is so close to Christmas, I'm afraid no one would show up to a party. Any ideas are appreciated.
My sister's birthday is on Christmas Day and what we do is we have her birthday party on her half birthday. If that doesn't seem like something you want to do, have a birthday party somewhere around New Years like New Year's Eve and have a sleepover party. Hope this helps!
My daughter's birthday is on Christmas and she wants to have a hotel party with her friends. She also wants to invite boys! What should I do?
My sister has done plenty of hotel parties. What my mom did was the boys could stay during the day but their parents would have to pick them up before any of the girls went to bed. I hope this helps! :)
My daughter will be 13 in just over a month and can't decide what she would like to do. She wants to bring 2-3 close friends, but doesn't want to do basics like going ice skating, to the cinema, or a pool party, etc. She would prefer to go out and do something with her friends and then come back to the house and have food, play a few games, and maybe even a sleepover. We keep considering ideas and we are at a crossroads right now. Any help would be appreciated.
What you choose to do will depend on what is available in your area. Would the girls like an art museum or history museum? Is there an amusement park, a rollerskating arena, a rockclimbing wall, paintball, laser tag? (Some of these ideas need more than 3, but I am just brainstorming>) What about taking in some kind of live theatre or ballet or comedy show?
Are there tours of anything that they might find interesting such as a hospital, newspaper publishing office, etc. that you might set up for them. Maybe they would like to do some volunteer work, such as help out at an animal shelter. Is there a zoo or could you take them to a working farm? Perhaps something might be on like a garden show or a fashion show, and then they could go to a fancy restaurant for high tea? Some of these ideas are pretty far out, but I hope I have stimulated your imagination, and you will find something fun for all.
I (female turning 13) want to have a birthday party for just my friends, but I'm not really sure what I should do because my family will be in Florida for my actual birthday (July 2017). So I'll have to have it during the middle of the month. I want to have just my closest friends come, but it still has to be something that's not super expensive. I wanna do something outdoors because it will be warm, but I don't want to do a pool party. I also know I want to have them sleep over after, but I'm still not sure what I should do. I just want to do something that will be generally fun for all of us. Any help would be great! Thank you!
Turning 13, exciting! Maybe a free outdoor farmer's market type festival all together with some live music and food. Spa type sleepover after :)
My daughter is turning 13 at the start of July and I don't have a clue what she's doing yet! She was thinking about having a sleepover with 3 or 4 of her close friends. She's an outdoor kinda girl and she loves sports. She also was thinking about going somewhere to eat (not too expensive). So if anyone has any suggestions that would be great. Thanks!
My friend and I were planing to go ice skating, but she found out that she has epilepsy and if she falls she can get hurt. Everything I think of can harm her. She can't swim, see flashing lights, or anything fun. My parents don't even want her to sleep over because they would not be able to live with it if something happened to her. I won't celebrate my birthday without my one and only best friend. What can we do that's safe?
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Have a talk with her parents, and find out what activities she can take part in. I expect as she becomes more used to living with epilepsy, she will be able to do more things. Perhaps you can do something quite different like take in some live theatre or take part in a craft class. My town is on a river, and there are houseboat rides down the river that are fun; people have BBQ's on the boat and enjoy the views. Investigate other activities that your friend would be able to do that are unique to your town. How about a trip to the zoo?
My daughter is turning 13 in August and I need a birthday idea. My daughter is girly and hates sports, except swimming. All of her friends are girly too. She said she didn't want a pool party. I can not find something to do. Any suggestions?
Check thrift stores and garage sales for dress up clothes, shoes and accessories. (These can be donated back to thrift store after party). Give the girls a room to change in. They can pretend to be at a fashion show. They girls can dress up and walk down a hall as a runway. They can then enter living room and contue to show off the clothes. You can invite friends, family or other girls moms to be the viewing public. The girls can model multiple dresses and change accessories to make it different from what someone else wore. After the fashion show, have a table with a menu for each girl. They can place their order for the cake and ice cream. I bet they will have a lot of fun and you will also. Be sure to take lots of pictures and make sure that the girls get some as soon as you get them printed.
My daughter is turning 13 and we have no idea what to do for a party. She wants to invite 24 girls (15 are on her cheer team).
Have it at your house to not make it too pricy. The girls could do each others nails and facials. Also, the can dip there feet in Orbeez and rose petals. When it gets later they could do a talent show which gives the cheerleaders a time to show off their skills. In addition, they can do a photo shoot. You can get props at the dollar store or local thrift shop. Good luck and I hope my ideas helped!
I'm turning 13 this July 2017. I do not know what to do. I want to go shopping, have a sleepover, go to a restaurant, and I want a party, but I think it is too much money. What shall I do?
Potluck foodie sleepover with bring your own movies!
My 13 year old wants an iPhone 6 Plus and I said I was getting it for her and she also wants a party. She is spoiled so we need something big and fast cause her birthday is soon and she is kinda moody if she doesn't get her own way. She likes horseback riding, dancing, ice skating, and shopping. Anyone got some ideas? Comment back please. Thanks.
You have to be wise. You don't want your child to turn into a bigger brat then you said she is now. Give her the party, but then have her work for the phone, like helping around the house.n
I'm turning 13 in July, but have to have it planned out in a few weeks so I can invite people. I want to have around 20 people (girls and boys) come and have like 7 (girls only) stay for a sleep over. But I'm not sure what to do. I want to have it at my house. I live in New Mexico so summers can get pretty hot. We have a bonfire pit and a pretty big back yard.
Sprinkler fun, water guns, then bonfire pit BBQ at night
My daughter is having a birthday party and wants to stay in a hotel with her friends. She wants to have a meal, get her makeup done, and also wants me to hire a hot tub! I have told her that it is too much, but she won't listen. What should I do?
Yeah thats too much! She could do all that at home minus the hot tub. Or is there an apartment complex where you can host her party?
My 13 year old wants to have her birthday party soon and wants to invite 16 people. Unfortunately her friends all live about an hour away from her, so she can't have it at our house. Anyone have any suggestions that won't cost a fortune?
I used to have that same dilemma as a child. We would go to a big park central to the majority of the guests' locations
Ok I am turning 13 in April, and I never know what to do for my birthday. I'm not really girly, and I have already done the skating rink and sleepover at my house thing. I want to take friends to a water park or amusement park like Six Flags, but I don't want to spend too much money.
Also, everyone else has had their parties at The Bear, which is a place downtown that they rent out the top floor which has pool tables, snacks, dance floor, all you can drink Shirley temples and Lori Rogers, but it's gotten boring. The first two parties, everyone danced (except some twerked). Now everyone just sits and talks, and it's no fun. I don't want to do a spa party or any girly thing like that. Also, I am not interested in a mall or pool party (I don't have a pool). I need help so badly. Please help!
One of my besties, for her 13th, went to a huge 55ft rock-climbing place and took one friend (me). We stayed at a fancy hotel and went out to eat and went rock-climbing and swimming. It was really fun of course it was a $400 - $800 hotel soo... That would totally contradict the whole "not spend much money" thing. You could try taking it down a notch or 2. You could go rock-climbing and you could have dinner at a restaurant and/or come back home for a sleepover.
If you don't like rock-climbing or want something bigger, try going to a family amusement center. There'll probably be at least one close by you. (There are 3 close too me.) That would be the park theme you want but not too expensive. They usually have more 'kiddy' rides though. The ones I've been too have one tiny roller coaster. But they also have go-karts, swings, batting arena, water park, mini golf, arcade... etc. I think it would be fun to be those big kids at the arcade cheering for the one of you bossing PAC-man and screaming your hearts out in the kiddie- coaster. I'd be fun but maybe boring if there's nothing thrilling. I say, if they have go-karts, it's worth it.
There's one more solution that I always go to when I give up: TRAMPOLINE ARENA!! They're a total classic and are tons of fun! If you went with this, as I have learned in my past, some people don't like to jump on trampolines for an hour and a half. This us a somewhat risky decision, but if all your friends know how to be safe on a trampoline and like jumping, then you're good, girl!
Welp, that's my long strand of advice that I have to give you. Happy Birthday! Mine 13th is coming up this week and I still don't know what I'm going to do o3o Remember, you aren't the only person who struggles with birthday party problems. I would guess that 86.99% of the US find it hard to decide on birthday parties. Sounds really sad when You say it out loud...
I wish thou luck!
I'm am turning 13 in two months and want to have a party with around 15-20 people. I want to invite boys and girls, but I don't know what to do to that both genders will have fun with. I thought of laser tag, go karts, or trampoline parks, but they are all really pricy for that many people. I need a fun party for both boys and girls that isn't expensive. Any ideas?
Poolside BBQ with music. Always great and cost-efficient!
Do you have any ideas for planning a surprise 13th birthday party for a girl? The colour theme is pink and blue. She loves music and horses and she is loved very much!
Please answer and give me some ideas.
Thanks so much if you do!
teens do love surprise b day partys. i should know that as I'm one myself xx
My birthday is on March 26th, but we are away then so we are celebrating in late February, early March. I am inviting 17 friends, ages 12-14. I don't want to do a typical movie party. I am outgoing, not girly. I love swimming, but I am Canadian, so the weather is very cold! My budget is 100-200 dollars, not including food or goodie bags, it is just for the activities. Any ideas?
wow great suggestion will think about that!!!!
I'm turning 13 on June first and I am having a party with 15-20 kids in my backyard or at a hotel. There will be boys and girls. I don't know what to do for the party. I need food ideas, activity ideas, and theme ideas. Help!
The hotel should have a pool. You could have hero sandwiches, soda and birthday cake. Have fun!
I am 12 turning 13 years old in June which is winter. It's always raining here in Australia. I don't own a pool. I want to have a big party, but not too big, with boys and girls. It needs to be nothing too expensive tho 100-200$. I have already done the roller skating, etc. I can't use my garage and I'm not a girly girl. I don't want to do facials and spas because there will be boys there as well. Please is there anyone who can help me?
Bowling and pizza would be fun?
I want to have a fun birthday party that won't get boring. I am planning on having 20-30 people (boys and girls) and then 2-3 people spending the night. I want to go somewhere, have everything planned, and only spend $100 at most. Also it is in April, winter here, so please hurry. I am sort of a girly girl, but most of my friends are tomboys or boys. I live in eastern Iowa so something close. Thanks!
You can throw your party at a local park and have BBQ hotdogs. Hot dogs are quite affordable along with some chips, sodas/water, cake.
You can play flag football, water balloon fight, fun outdoor activities since there will be a lot of people.
I'm turning 13 in February and I'm starting to think about what I should do for my party. I was thinking about going ice skating with my friends, but once I saw the price tag, I knew I couldn't do that to my parents. I don't really want to have a party at home, I want to go out and do something. I would probably be inviting around 10 people. Please help!
When is your birthday?
Mine is in Feb. too
My daughter is having a 13th birthday party this winter and I don't know what to do for her because she's very fussy.