Talk with them about what they would like to save for and how they would like to spend the other half. If you keep them involved and make it fun, they will be more willing to save their money. Teaching them to be financial smart at a young age will pay off as they grow up.
We would like to teach our child money management at a young age. I never had any training and have made some really stupid mistakes. He is only five, but he knows a bit about money, coupons, saving, and tithing. I am thinking $5 a month: $1 for tithing, $1 for saving for college (long term saving), $2 for short term saving and $1 for things he wants. This way he gets used to tithing, saving money, and realizing he has $1 to spend.
I was not thinking of tying this to his jobs, because he is pretty helpful and does his jobs. The other suggestion I read about is to give him credit for each job he does and tying the money into this (same % as above). I understand both points of view, using allowance for money management and to teach them they need do to things for their money. Any suggestions on which way would be best? Thanks.
Umm, did you realize you've got your 5-year-old tithing double? 10% of $5 is $0.50.
|Teaching Children to Manage Money|
Talk to your child about how the bank account works and why it's important to maintain a healthy account. The earlier you start to impart the wisdom of saving and spending within reason, the easier it will be for your children to manage their money later. After holidays, require that children put a percentage of any money received into the bank. It can be as little as 10%, but it will impart the wisdom of saving.
Older children can bring a calculator and keep tabs on the total of the trip. By realizing how quickly prices add up and by seeing how much the snack she's begging for costs, your daughter may ask for less in future trips (or at least finish the entire bag before begging for something new.)
Smaller children can help find items on the list. I created a picture list for my son when he was small. We put pictures of items we bought weekly on heavyweight paper and laminated it. He had his own picture shopping list. Coupons become a matching game; match the coupon to the product. Now is a great time to talk about the differences between store brands and national brands.
Another great place to teach the value of a dollar is the store named after the item. Dollar stores (those that price every item in the store at $1) teach a basic principle: I have three dollars, so I can get three items. Prioritizing and advanced thinking soon follow.
I know many adults who need to learn the same lesson we try to teach our children: for every new item bought an old item must be discarded.
Teach children to organize and keep their belongings in check. "If I buy a new doll, I need to get rid of one. I don't want to get rid of any of my dolls. Then, I don't need the new one." Hopefully, this is what will run through young minds.
Let kids take part in discarding their items. Have them help while dropping off items at the Goodwill store, and take them inside to look around. Talk about the purpose of the store and the value of reusing items.
Similarly, children enjoy selling their items at yard sales and even online. By putting them in charge of their profits, they are more willing to part with old toys that they have outgrown in favor of the funds to buy new ones they will enjoy. Based on the replacement principle, my son enjoys helping me to list in online auctions the toys that he's outgrown. We usually set a goal; for instance, he can use his earned money to buy a street hockey stick.
I try every day to think about the lessons I want to teach my son so that he will grow into a responsible adult. Even though I'd much rather get in and out of the grocery store as quickly as possible, it's hard to pass up the free education it offers.
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