Which sex of cat should I get?

By

cowpunkgal

We have seven indoor cats (four female/three male) & one dog - all are spayed/neutered. All the cats get along with the dog, but in different ways - some really buddy up with our dog & others just don't care. Some we had pre-dog, some after. Has your dog been around cats before? You need to know if your dog will be ok with a cat - my dog loves cats, but some dogs may be 'cat-aggressive' (not to be confused with 'I just really really want to play..') - many dogs are just indifferent (ours was when we initially adopted her). If you don't know if your dog is cat-friendly, let the organization you want to adopt from know & they should be able to help you find out. If your dog is cat-friendly, when you find a cat you like, take your dog to meet them. Rescues & shelters tend to know the personalities of their animals & should be able to help you find a good fit. For 30+ years we've had a one dog/ multiple cat house & haven't had any major problems. Good luck!

By

tennesue

I agree that male cats mark their territory and it stinks. They sometimes do this even after they are neutered.
I think it's more important that you find a cat that will get along with your dog. Has your dog had interaction with cats before? Talk to a vet or dog trainer about what problems you might encounter. Think about getting a cat that's been exposed to dogs in the house she/he was born in. Some pairs get along. You will probably get better info from more informed people, but these things I know. Good luck.

By

crunchberry

If it will be an indoor cat I would get a female because Males spray their nasty cat goo on everything.
If it will be an outdoor cat I would go either way.

My question is, which sex of cat would be better? I am looking for a cat that is tolerant of kids, loving, quiet and playful. It will remain indoors also. Thanks for any opinions.