RE: Gift Ideas for My Wife
Ok. Try to fix this one. My wife won't tell me what she wants for her birthday: "If you don't know what I want then I'm not telling you!" (sound familiar) She's put on a lot of weight (yep she's fat) and she doesn't want any clothing or a massage or any jewelry. If I mentioned a gym membership she'd shoot me. She won't do and wear anything sexy. I'm at a loss.
Posted on 07/17/2009 | Report Spam or Abuse
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I have a tough one.
Appliances and dishes are out.
Jewelery is out.
She is very picky about fragrances such as bath type things and perfume which changes every few months.
Lingerie is pretty much out as it never stays on long enough to enjoy.
Movies or books are out because once she has seen/read/done that it sits and collects dust.
she has gotten into the Wii lately with a few games so I did get her Cooking Mama for $15 + free S&H from newegg.com which I think she will enjoy.
Otherwise it looks like gift certificates from Victoria Secrets and Bath & Body Works...
Posted on 12/18/2008 | Report Spam or Abuse
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From a woman's perspective
There was a time, I did appreciate household items. It was when I couldn't justify spending money on it, when the budget was tight. Pots and pans should be accompanied by scented lotion, and candles.
Now that there is money in the budget, I want personal things. You should know me after spending 17 years together, if your paying attention you will know what I like.
Things not to get me: sexy lingerie, that would be a gift for you, if it is my gift, you put something sexy on. However I would love a pretty silk robe or nighty(something elegant, not what a stripper would wear). Accompany it with some candles, massage oil (for my back) with a note good for a back rub.
I would love a home cooked meal I don't want to go out, I want you to show you thought about what I would like for dinner, set the table with good dishes and candles and so some effort. It is ok if it turns out awful we will order a pizza and have something to laugh about. A packed picnic basket with wine and a note telling me about a romantic place you will be taking me for the picnic. I would absolutely love "a love letter" and it's free.
If you have some cash to below things I would like: an anniversary band, a mothers ring, a tennis bracelet, a weekend away with just you.
Don't buy me a 52" widescreen.
I would love all of these things. I will probably end up with a bluetooth and martini glasses. I am still waiting for a great gift.
Posted on 12/18/2008 | Report Spam or Abuse
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I hit a birthday gift home run with my wife one year:
She loves going to those cheeky little strip mall shops that have cheap little rings and necklaces. She seems to put about every other ring on her finger and hold it up to the light. The stones are fake and the metal likely to turn a finger green but, it's pretty!
Anyways, I found a nice jewelry box that had little beads and colored stones fixed to the top and covered in colorful fabric. I knew she'd like it because I had seen her ogling over it one time when I was tagging along at the mall and acting like I was bored and not paying attention. It had spots inside that held rings, trays for earrings, and yadda yadda.
Then, went to that store and spent maybe $50 total on an assortment of cheap but pretty jewelry. Yes, I was a guy standing amongst a throng of women picking through pretty jewelry -- one must get comfortable with that to get a good girl gift. I filled up the box and then wrapped it up.
Not only did she get a nice jewelry box for all her real jewelry stuff. But her eyes nearly popped out of her head when she saw all the jewelry stuffed inside. She got to play dress up for a good couple of days and even see her accessorizing with a lot of the stuff even to this day. I over heard her telling her mom everything I did for her and then went on about a hour long phone call describing all the various jewelry.
Posted on 11/26/2008 | Report Spam or Abuse
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You may try printing her foto on a magic cup (A cup that shows the photo when it is filled with hot stuff). That will really amaze her.
Posted on 05/18/2008 | Report Spam or Abuse
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How about a gift certificate to a day spa or a professional massage? Your wife will truly thank you for it. Let her be pampered, for all she does for you.
God Bless You Both, Terri
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How about something that makes her feel good? Jewelry that reminds her of something you did together a long time ago? A painting of the place that you asked her to marry you? Just a thought, I'm out here looking for the same answers as you ..
Posted on 12/14/2007 | Report Spam or Abuse
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I agree that the lingerie idea is a touchy subject for most women. Why not buy her a bunch of things that she would not normally buy herself? The best x-mas gifts I've ever gotten from my hubby have been treats that I would never buy for myself, like make-up, books, a bunch of magazines, candles, coffee, chocolates, etc. I've gotten jewelry often, but it never had the same effect as a thoughtful gift of a bunch of little things I wanted but never got because I felt I could live without it. It really is the thought that counts.
Posted on 12/13/2007 | Report Spam or Abuse
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Does she like chocolate ? A giant hershey Kiss, ( I would love that ) LOL , how bout making your own coupon book for her, with 25 coupons; Such as a night out on the town, a sexy back rub,with music and candlelight, a puppy or kitten. How about 25 little token gifts from the dollar store, and make her hunt them down with hints, like a scavenger hunt. My daughter did this to me one day for my birthday. I loved it, she hid it in the yard, and took me at least 1/2 hour to find it.Hope this help just a bit ? A live plant instead of a bouquet, would suit me just fine, I keep telling every one, I would rather have one rose bush, instead of a dozen roses.
Posted on 12/12/2007 | Report Spam or Abuse
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A nice jewelry item and a gift coupon (s) to allow her to pick out what she likes; the color, fabric, or better yet, shop with her and get involved offering suggestions. This way, she can say her husband helped pick it out for her for Christmas.
For winter time, I'd suggest something soft, warm and comfortable in fleece fabric that if she wants to lounge around in it awhile, it's A-OK and she'll stay warm too.
If more on the fancier scale, then satin is very pretty, soft and rich in appearance and makes you feel special. Slippers to match and a pretty piece of jewelry and she'll be lovely and feel lovely. Add a scented candle for that romantic touch and you'll be the light of her life.
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You can never go wrong with a gift certificate!
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go to www.nancydonline and find great jewelry. She has one site that carries her stuff called.....shopforamerica.com (I think) and if you buy anything through that one, she'll put the gift in a little organza draw-string gift bag at no extra charge and send it to you, or to a different address. the jewelry is made in the USA, which is important these days.
I shopped online through her and shopforamerica.com and just gave her all the names and addresses, and she put a little gift card in with each one, and sent them on their way. it was too easy.
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Hi G. S.
If you are looking for lingerie, which is either on sale or is good price for quality, check out this site. It specializes in discount and bargain lingerie, of various brands, styles and types. I am sure that you will find something that will make a great present and not drain the bank account.
http://www.squidoo.com/bargainlingerie
Posted on 12/12/2007 | Report Spam or Abuse
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Roses and nice chocolates,like Godiva,are always appreciated(and safe!). If your wife works in a setting where a delivery can be accepted, send them to her at work.Believe me, that always goes over big! And let her know you made this post and asked for help -- she will be so flattered!
Posted on 12/11/2007 | Report Spam or Abuse
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If your wife enjoys bath & body products, which I'm sure she does, may I suggest the following:
Forget-Me-Not Aromas (www.forgetmenotaromas.com) brings to you this BananaMon scented "Spa in a Basket" gift set. This gift set, which includes: 8 oz Shower Gel, 8 oz Lotion, 8 oz Bubble Bath, Set of 3 Bath Fizzlers, & a Shower Scrubbie would make a GREAT Christmas gift for the 1 in your life that not only enjoys but deserves to be pampered.
Scent Description:
BananaMon - It's vanilla ice cream & sliced bananas smoothered in a warm cinnamon sauce. Yummy!!
If interested, email me at: forgetmenotaromas@gmail.com
Marla
Posted on 12/11/2007 | Report Spam or Abuse
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Christmas Gift Suggestions
1. Theater tickets for a muscial concert, or play
2. Dinner at a fine restaurant
3. Weekend away at a nice hotel + dine at an expensive restaurant
Posted on 12/11/2007 | Report Spam or Abuse
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Lingerie can be a very touchy subject for a woman. If it is sexy, it feels more like a present for the man. If you buy lingerie that is too big OR too small, this can make your wife feel self-conscious about her weight or your perception of her weight.
A beautiful robe or some silk pajamas might be a good compromise. Something beautiful but meant to be worn, not taken off. Or a gift certificate so she can pick out some things herself. You are right, these items can add up so I would plan to spend $100 if you want to get good stuff.
If you haven't given her jewelry in awhile, I would recommend this instead. It doesn't have to be expensive but it will have a greater impact. Other presents might be a cute new handbag, something pretty and decorative for the house, a soft new set of hat and gloves. Think about what she would like.
A wife's perspective!
Posted on 12/11/2007 | Report Spam or Abuse
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I think if I bought my wife a vacuum cleaner or ANY other household appliance I'd be shot. And it would be justifiable. Birthday's are special to most women for some reason - they're very sensitive about dates, especially milestone ones like 30 and 40. I read it in a book titled "What Women Want Men To Know". That one was like the "book of revelations" to me - I was constantly thinking "So that's why she does that!". Like the reason they tend to talk so much and take forever to get to the point.
Married 19 years.
Posted on 12/11/2007 | Report Spam or Abuse
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My wife is turning 25. We have been married for 8 months and I have no idea what to get her. I think she has high hopes for this B-day. Her twin sister has a big costume party being thrown for her. We don't live near them, and don't have friends yet because we just moved here. So I need a good gift. Please help,
DannyB from Calgary, AB
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Try buying her something she needs around the house, that type of gift is always appreciated!
Examples: A new vacuum cleaner, dishwasher, fridge, or any other expensive yet useful appliance.
Also considering the fact that you're newlyweds; maybe a romantic dinner, flowers, wine, and a special gift would be practical.
Examples: Jewelry, Spa gift certificates, Tickets to a nice play or musical.. etc (07/27/2006)
By Katrina
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I personally don't think practical, household appliances would be an appropriate gift! Think something personal........jewelry, perfume, a shopping trip, tickets to a concert of her favorite performer, CD's of her favorite performer. What does SHE like to do? What would she do or buy for herself if she had the dollar amount you have available to spend? Don't buy her a can opener or vacuum sweeper! If you DO buy something practical and expensive (which I hope you don't) let her pick the item or color or model since she'll be the one stuck using it most likely! (07/27/2006)
By Grandma Margie
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I think it is a matter of personality....I am 29, and think Jewelery (unless REALLY significant) and perfume are the worst way to go because you can have too much of both (even jewelery)! I like to wear perfume, but I have bottles that are ten years old (from when my DH first gave them to me) and oodles of scented lotion! Unless it is earrings, some jewelery can be too tricky to buy (another topic in itself!) The best surprise gift my DH got me was a dinette set I thought we couldn't get, but we got a bonus early so he picked it up and surprised me. Second best was a Spa gift certificate. Third best was replacing my toaster oven for Christmas!
OR recall ANY time you have gone to someone's house or a store and she liked something for your own house, or see what you DIDN't receive on your Gift Registry (if done at a store, they usually keep the list on file for one year.) And ALWAYS keep the receipt, just in case! (07/27/2006)
By camo_angels
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Give her the day, buy her a nice gift depending on finances,( a good book if she reads) unless she wants an appliance really bad--stay away. Perfume is good if she wants something really bad and won't buy it for herself. Take her on a picnic---wine, flowers, boat ride, carriage ride, whatever your area offers, plan a whole day or afternoon, free concerts in parks, movie, flowers think it through and make it all about her--no matter- if its well thought out and all about her you can't go wrong---does she miss anyone(set up a phone call) etc etc (07/27/2006)
By Beckie
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I think the 25th Birthday is a special one so I would get her something that she can always have....a keepsake of sorts. A piece of jewelry, a collectible item. I still have the Hummel collector's plate my hubby gave me for my 25th birthday in 1977 and we are coming up on 30 years of marriage in Sept! If money is tight, maybe you can make her a special card that she can always keep and then take her out to dinner! (07/27/2006)
By Debbie52
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Hi Danny, You are her love and best friend. Be her gift. Make it her day. Breakfast in bed, a nice ride in the country with a picnic lunch. Remind her how special you think she is. Why not rent a movie and make her favorite dinner? Birthdays are special because of the people celebrating with you, not the wrapped gift. IF you give her a day, that is what will be the best present of all. (07/27/2006)
By Tedebear
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I think wives want a gift that shows that you are thinking about what she really wants, that you are paying attention to her wants and needs and that you care (which you obviously do or you wouldn't have submitted the question).
For some wives, practical things are great, for others they see it as you thinking of them as their cook or housekeeper. The best thing to do is listen and pay attention. What has she talked about wanting, when you are watching TV, shopping, or window shopping. What gifts, in the time you have known her, made the best impression.
She also may have been dropping hints, some women are very subtle about that so you really do need to be paying attention. If she's talked about wanting to learn about something, a craft, cooking or loving someone's music, that could be a good hint that may give you ideas.
I'm sure you will do fine. The most important gift is showing her that you love her and are paying attention.
Susan from ThriftyFun (07/27/2006)
By ThriftyFun
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Since your wife's twin is having a costume party, if you can afford it and you both work and you think it would please her just ask a few of your co workers and get a few of her co workers and have a costume party for her. (07/27/2006)
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Danny,
Being in Calgary, I can help out, maybe a little, a spa gift certificate is nice to someplace like oasis, but how about taking her to the Vertigo Dinner Theater, or the Dean House? They both have murder mystery dinners which are interactive, or take a drive out to Bragg Creek and try a wonderful Steak Place called the BBQ Steak Pit, phone ahead for reservations and they will make a wooden plaque burned with your name on it, also let them know it is her birthday.
Stage West is a nice place to go out and maybe you could get a coupon book for a gift with 1 free massage, or dinner in bed or something like that? You could find them in the Love Shops.
Hope that helped a bit!
EC (07/27/2006)
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Hi Danny. I think everyone has it about covered! My first thought was jewelry (though I see others think not) However if you do decide on jewelry, think about what she prefers, silver or gold? Rings, bracelets or necklaces? Any particular colored stone she prefers?
Unless she has hinted towards a domestic appliance she really wants I'd say not (a former partner of mine remembered birthdays etc, but it was always something that reminded me of cooking, cleaning, etc.. ie, sets of saucepans!
Something that reflects her hobbies or interests is good. Or maybe something 'way out' that she has expressed a desire 'to try' one day. Ie, a balloon flight, a sky dive.
Good luck!
(07/27/2006)
By Ellie
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Hi, just wanted to share a story with you.
I was turning 27 and had a made a comment to my husband about not looking forward to becoming 30 in a of couple years. We had been married year and a half and just started to have a little extra money each month. Back then, we were both in the navy living in Hawaii, away from friends and family, and had a 6 month old baby.
My husband surprised me with the best birthday ever. While I was at work, he went to the bakery and bought a white cake decorated with pink roses and had 29.9 written on it. You know, like I would never have to turn 30, I would stay 29.9. :)
Then he ordered takeout pizza so he didn't have to cook! He also hit the grocery store and decorated the table with fresh fruit, which he also fed to me later! He had also bought candles and pretty paper plates and cups, so no dishes to wash. So, the table was very pretty.
He had also purchased a couple of coffee mugs to match the table and doubled as gift and decoration, and I still have one of them today, 7 years later. It's my favorite coffee mug!
When I got to our townhouse, the first thing I saw was this beautiful table. (He had already fed the baby and put him to bed before I got home.) Then he led me to the bathroom where he had run me a bath and it was full of bubbles and bath salts. The room was bathed in candlelight.
Afterwards, he sung happy birthday to me and we ate pizza, cake, and fruit. It was very sweet and romantic and pampering. I don't think he spent a lot of money on it, but to me it was priceless.
I'm sure if you think about your wife, you'll be able to plan a day she'll never forget. (07/28/2006)
By wendiesioux
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If you were my husband and gave me an appliance unless it was specifically what I asked for, I'd run you out of the house! How about a big box with 25 gifts-whatever you want to spend-could be 24 dollar store trinkets, bubble bath, scrunchies, candy and then 1 significant gift, or a $25 gift card to a favorite store or place like Starbucks-all depends on your budget. Present this at the party, or privately at your more intimate celebration! (07/28/2006)
By Linda
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A couple of years ago I had been drooling over a designer purse. My husband knew I wanted one but wasn't sure which one. So, on the day of our anniversary he gave me a big box all wrapped up that contained a "gift certificate" he'd made good for spending the afternoon at the mall with me picking out a purse. He'd saved more than enough and had the cash with him. I think this idea works well for any type of gift because you give the gift of spending time together while being sure she's getting exactly what she wants, not just something she'll have to pretend to like because she loves you. (07/31/2006)
By Colleen
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Ask her family and take to detective work to find out what she wants for her birthday. This shows her you care to put thought behind your gift.
Tanya (09/20/2006)
By Tanya39
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My wife's favorite was the year I got her a pack of wash cloths (she's always asking me for one), coffee beans & mug, body lotion & spray, pjs, & a bottle of wine. It wasn't that she really wanted or needed any of it, but that I stopped at 5 stores thinking of her. Everything I got was on sale/clearance, it was under $50 total (12/04/2006)
By T Roy
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This response is very late, but I had to post it, particularly after reading the first response by Katrina. I think my wife would kill me if I got her a vacuum cleaner as a gift. Women tend to want personal gifts, not something for the house.As you are still quite young, I suggest what seems obvious to me, but not mentioned here, lingerie! Lingerie is very personal and what woman does not like to look sexy for her husband?Here is a link to a website that has information about lingerie and also offers lingerie for sale from all over the world.
http://www.squidoo.com/sexylingerie
This means, you can surprise your wife with one of the world's leading brands of lingerie that she may not have been able to buy for herself.
If money is tight, there is a page which focuses on discount lingerie:
http://www.squidoo.com/Bargainlingerie/
Either way, lingerie is definitely the way to go (11/24/2007)
By Galso
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Pearl jewelry! classy yet understated...
Check out www.premiumpearl.com for great prices and options! (11/26/2007)
By Fashionista
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Over sized bathrobes are a winner, with some nice suggestions placed in the pockets of her Robe. good luck (12/08/2007)
By Kelci
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