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A 50th anniversary is a very important occasion, so you will want to choose a special gift. This is a guide about 50th anniversary gift ideas.
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May 8, 20040 found this helpful

I have 4 siblings and we're trying to decide what to do for our parent's 50th anniversary. We've gone from giving them a cruise, to a trip to Japan, to a party at the local Sheraton hotel, to a measly Chinese restaurant dinner and a gift certificate. We cannot seem to agree and we all have differing budgets, not to mention having to pay for travel, hotel and car rental expenses for some of us - not in lieu of, but in addition to the celebration expenses.

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Granted, some of us are "talking" more by email than we ever had, but it's also bringing up hard feelings, having to veto some ideas. We have at least 5 to 6 months to go, but I'm glad we started talking now! Any ideas?

I'm in NV, one sis is in CA, the other sis in NY and 2 brothers in WA state, which is where our parents live. I'd appreciate any ideas! Thanks so much, love this column.

Sheila

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November 30, 20000 found this helpful

My parents celebrated their 50th anniversary in 1988. Mom passed away nine months later. Dad 4 years after that. Both wanted to spend the celebration with children, grand children and great grand children. As a family for each member we created a quilt square. Mom was a quilter. The square represented either the personality of the person it represented, her/his occupation or a special memory of Mom and/or Dad she/he had. It was marked with her/his name and date of birth. The quilt has become a loving memory of Mom and Dad. Mom used to read it over and over during the remaining months we had her with us.

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November 30, 20000 found this helpful

We had a party Sunday afternoon in a park, invited all their friends, fed everyone hotdogs, hamburgers, and low-country boil (we're in the Southeast US). We played "Little-known Mom and Dad" facts. Questions were things like "His favorite color?" "Who sleeps nearest a window?" "Where was the honeymoon?" "What were they GOING to name the 2nd child?" and the guests all got to call out answers. For a correct answer, the guest received a gag gift: a small candle, fish tackle, key chain, foot powder. It was a riot! And a wedding-style cake and balloons complete the festivities.

Monica

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May 8, 20040 found this helpful

I have 4 siblings and we're trying to decide what to do for our parent's 50th anniversary. We've gone from giving them a cruise, to a trip to Japan, to a party at the local Sheraton hotel, to a measly Chinese restaurant dinner and a gift certificate. We cannot seem to agree and we all have differing budgets, not to mention having to pay for travel, hotel and car rental expenses for some of us - not in lieu of, but in addition to the celebration expenses.

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Granted, some of us are "talking" more by email than we ever had, but it's also bringing up hard feelings, having to veto some ideas. We have at least 5 to 6 months to go, but I'm glad we started talking now! Any ideas?

I'm in NV, one sis is in CA, the other sis in NY and 2 brothers in WA state, which is where our parents live. I'd appreciate any ideas! Thanks so much, love this column.

Sheila

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May 8, 20040 found this helpful

We were in the same boat as you. My husband and I don't have a lot of money, and his siblings wanted to do something magical for their parents' anniversary. As my parents' own milestone anniversary was also looming, I was cringing at the bills that we'd be sent. His sister saved the day by suggesting that since a cruise or trip wouldn't include all of their family, that we each contibute four pages to a family photo album, that close relatives (his and her sisters) make two pages and that close friends create a single page of their friendships and that was made in advance and was set out at their anniversary party. Shortly thereafter, while his parents went on a cruise that they paid for, his mom became very ill. She was only TOO happy having it in her hospital room as she convalesced and attributes her recovery to the happy memories that were brought up in that memory book!

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Alouette

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May 8, 20040 found this helpful

As far as a 50th aniversey part my husband's family did a life video for thier parents. We collect family photos from all four brothers, all other relatives and gave them to a video company and they made a "this is your life" style video. His parents loved it. They did not want a party, they did not want a "fuss" nor did they want their picture in the paper.

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May 8, 20040 found this helpful

At the time of my parents 50th anniversary, my father was not able to travel. There are three of us and we decided to have a Golden Anniversary party for them. We invited some of their friends and people that they have known and been in their lives during the years they were married.

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We rented an beautiful mansion (that was owned by the parks) in our area and catered it ourselves. We gave them a couple of big gifts that they needed and wanted and the party. We had finger foods (chicken wings and vegetable trays, meatballs, fresh fruits, chips and finger sandwiches.) And we had a wedding cake and an champagne punch (that was great).

They really did appreciate all of their siblings (that could make it) and us and our families to be together. We had friends that kept the food and the punch going. The look they had on their faces when the party started was worth so much, you see my dad passed away 6 months later. Your parents will be glad to just get all of you together with your families and with them. Those are memories you and your siblings will never forget.

I think nothing is worth arguing about when it comes to families. Maybe you all can come to some agreement but whatever you do, please make this a great memory for your parents. You will never regret it.

Elaine

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May 8, 20040 found this helpful

I live away from my parents and it is very rare for us all to get together at one time. My Mom treasures those times more than anything else. Perhaps you should all choose a central meeting location. Rent hotel rooms or a cabin. Just spend time together as a family. State parks can be pretty reasonable with cabin rental, and a lot of them are very nice. Depending on the time of year, you may have to make reservation pretty far in advance, but it sounds like you have plenty of time.

Good luck with the planning, and enjoy the time you are communicating with your siblings!

Teresa B.

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May 8, 20040 found this helpful

As a mother, grandmother and great grandmother I feel the best gift you could give your parents is to have all of their children together for a long visit. I know I really look forward to seeing all of my kids together, interacting with them and watching them interact with each other. It's like having all my chicks back in the nest. I would rather spend time with my kids than go on a cruise or see Japan. Maybe have a party with family and friends then spend a week talking about how much fun it was and seeing the sights in their town.

Sharon

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May 8, 20040 found this helpful

Since your brothers live near your parents, have them casually, during a conversation, mention it's their 50th coming up. Reminisce with them about how they met, where they went on their first date, and what their plans were when they first married.

Also ask what are THEY are planning, you don't want to interfere if they have something special they want to do together.

If a trip for them is in the planning, try to find out where THEY would like to go. They might just like to spend a week, or even a weekend, at a nice hotel, somewhere where they can relax, do some sightseeing, or see a show. Or maybe they'd like to take turns spending a week with each of you, doing some sightseeing and getting reacquainted.

And definitely plan a dinner out with ALL of you present.

KayD http://CookingForFun.tripod.com

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May 8, 20040 found this helpful

I guess it would depend on your family and what things they enjoy, but something we did for our parents on their 50th and they loved was to have a professional video photo album made for them. We gathered up family photos from the time they met to the current date and had them set to music to fit the photos. You could also do music to fit the time frame of the photos, but that would probably be more difficult. Since it takes a while, (lots of time gathering and sorting photos) it might be too late for something like this, but it is a thought.

Peg

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May 8, 20040 found this helpful

For the 50th Anniversary... how about you all split the costs and give them 50 day trips to places? They don't have to be expensive or set in stone, but give them where to go and when if reservations are required? That way you are only paying for 10 things and each of you can either work together or decide on your own and compare then to make sure no one else is doing the same. A dinner would be also nice, and ask people to write a favorite memory of them, and make a book. (ex. 50 Wonderful Memories of you for 50 wonderful years). Just a thought.

Daisy

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February 21, 20050 found this helpful

I have three brothers and I am the only girl and we want to give our parents a 50th anniversary party. they go on cruises or travel whenever they want. It will be held in the barn at my house, which is very nice. my brothers can't afford a lot, so any ideas would be helpful. We are looking at about 150 people to attend

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July 16, 20050 found this helpful

50th Anniversary is golden anniversary. For a sentimental gift how about 50 silk magnolias sprayed gold, and arranged in a lovely vase.

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July 18, 20050 found this helpful

You could treat them to a side trip on the cruise.

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May 12, 20080 found this helpful

My parents 50th anniversary is coming up soon, also. My brother and I (and our families) plan to give them a family portrait for an anniversary gift. It's impossible to think that our families could all go to a studio. Therefore, the photographer plans to come out to our family farm to take the portrait. It will be a casual picture. Everyone dressed in jeans and a white shirt or khakis and white. Just another idea for you.

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January 27, 2011

What is an classy, but inexpensive gift for a 50th wedding anniversary for a cousin? Something besides a picture frame.

By Sandra from Coal Creek, CO

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January 27, 20110 found this helpful

My opinion is that it doesn't necessarily have to say something about 50th anniversary. But if you want semething a long that line how about a Christmas tree ornament that says 50th anniversary. Go to Bronner's.com and I think you will find things like that. I know when my parents had their 50th one of the things that they received was an embroidered thing that had some kind of verse about 50 years. It was done on ecru colored cloth and the design on the picture was done in a golden-tan color and the words in black, whoever gave that to them also framed it in a purchased frame.

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January 28, 20110 found this helpful

How much is expensive to you? For my brother's 50th anniversary I went to a dollar store and happened to find a gold gift bag, gold foil, and gold 'easter' grass. Over a period of time I got from the bank 50 of the gold dollar coins. I cut the foil and wrapped each coin in a piece. Then I alternated the grass and a few coins till it was all in the bag. To get at their gift they had to find all the coins and unwrap.

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July 27, 2009

We need tips for our 50th wedding anniversary. Perhaps a nice getaway or bed and breakfast, but something that is really special.

By blessedlady from San Bernardino, CA

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July 29, 20090 found this helpful

What sort of things do you like to do together? My thought, if I were to have a 50th anniversary, would be to stay at Disneyland or Disneyworld hotel for a couple of days or more and be like kids again adventuring together at the Disney park ;-) Wouldn't need to do any driving (take the monorail), lots of restaurants and a swimming pool, gift shops and be with lots of people having fun :-)

And, hey, you're not far from Disneyland so you wouldn't even have to book a flight ;-)

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July 30, 20090 found this helpful

Where was your first honeymoon? Could you go there again?

My grandparents never had a first honeymoon; when they had their 40th anniversary, my grandfather took Nana to Niagara Falls--where she'd dreamed of going but they never had gone--for one reason or another, with day-to-day life getting in the way until then.

He wasn't the romantic type,and this really floored her. Is there someplace your hubby has always wanted to go ( that you could live with for this special anniversary?) Congratulations on your 50th--quite an accomplishment!

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October 19, 20090 found this helpful

You don't say if money is an object, so let's just assume you don't want to spend too much. Are you still in touch with the couple who knew you when..? If so, invite them to join you for dinner. You pick up the tab. If you aren't close to them perhaps you can invite other couples who have been married for 5, 10, 20, etc. years and they can join you for dinner. It will make for interesting conversation for sure. Ask people to recall when they first met, bring photo, etc.

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January 27, 20110 found this helpful

I will be going to California in September for a family reunion and at the same time I would like to surprise my in laws with something special for their 50th anniversary. I am limited to what I can do as I don't have access to stores there and what I can bring. Besides photo albums, do you have any ideas that would make their anniversary a special event along with the reunion?

By Josie from Grand Junction, CO

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50th Anniversary Gifts

On my parent's 40th Anniversary we children made up a photo album starting with pictures of my parents as children and we made up captions. For example we said "There once was a girl named Emily and a boy named Art". Then on the next page we showed a picture of their engagement and said "And then they met and got engaged". Then pictures of their wedding, etc. Then pictures of each child and their marriages and their children. My parents and everyone loved it. (06/15/2010)

By AvaElizabeth

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This is what I did for my brother's 50th anniversary. In a dollar store I found tall gold gift bags, gold foil, and gold "Easter" grass. I got from the bank 50 of the gold
Sacajawea dollar coins. I wrapped each coin individually with the gold foil. Then I put the grass and wrapped coins alternating them in the gold bag. They had to go through the whole bag to find the coins, and unwrap them to spend them. It was family and a fun gift. I hope you may find some use of this suggestion. (06/17/2010)

By knitter926

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http://www.google.com/search?hl=enandsource=hpandq=fake+newspapers

This is a lot of fun. You can custom make a fake newspaper, featuring all they have done together over the last 50 years. I have suggested this a lot, and I always tell people if they can, get two. That way, if they want to display each side of the page, they don't have to have a large copy made.
You can put things in there like their wedding, births, civic awards, jobs, travel, and all that they are in a newspaper form.
Check it out and see if you can do this for them. They would love it! (06/17/2010)

By Poor But Proud

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Get family members to send you photos and frame them for table decorations, any year will do. The more the merrier.
Good luck. (06/22/2010)

By 2oma

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June 15, 20100 found this helpful

My parents will soon celebrate their 50th Wedding Anniversary, any suggestions for a gift?

Countrygirl2828

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I'm Canadian so not sure if this may be applicable to you if you're an American.
I contacted my in-laws federal M.P. and he went to task ensuring that every government head from local to the Queen's representative (Queen herself only sends greetings if over 60 years, I believe) sent them either a letter or a signed certificate congratulating them on their 50 years of marriage.
For the most part, they were tickled pink. Of course some of the congrats were from the "wrong political party". Ha!

After 50 years together what can you buy, they have for most part everything they want/need.
Give them more attention, phone calls, and visits, that's what they'll really appreciation.
Cheers. (09/19/2008)

By Doreen

50th Anniversary Gifts

I gave my grandparents a photo album that I had everyone sign with a message by their pictures, including friends they winter with and people they attend church with, they seemed to love it as they show everyone that comes to their house. I worked on it for almost a year, but you can send out pages now and have them mail them back directly to your parents if time is short. (09/19/2008)

By Peg

50th Anniversary Gifts

What about a weekend getaway? If they went on a honey moon maybe send them to wherever they honeymooned! Gift cards to favorite restaurants.

Congratulations to them for staying together! They deserve a tribute for staying committed. (09/19/2008)

By velsgal from MO

50th Anniversary Gifts

A public show of congratulations is wonderful, if they are that kind of parents. Some are not.
If they are, gather your pennies and see how much it would cost for a "then and now" photo in the paper. There are also some gift places on this site: http://www.google.com/search?hl=enandq=fake+newspapersandaq=fandoq=.

It is one where you can have a newspaper made up to display them on the front page and what was happening that day in the world, or write your own stories about your births, etc. If you can, order two so they can display one side and then the other if they choose to frame them.

Family photos are never a mistake. If you know someone who does scrapbooking, have them make a wedding album with scraps of the dress or keepsakes, etc. If someone is a poet, have them write one about your parents, and either include it in the book or have it professionally framed

If you all can't afford a trip to a nice place far off, perhaps a nice dinner cruise close, or a train ride with a dinner theatre, a tour of the local wineries, or a local event that they always wanted to attend.

And yes, time is the most important thing to give them. You have been truly blessed to have parents who loved each other that long, then tell them how much that has meant to you. That is gift enough. (09/19/2008)

By Poor But Proud

50th Anniversary Gifts

If you can't think of anything else, give them fifty of the gold color one dollar coins, available from any bank. Put them is a gold decorative box. They can use them for anything like dining in a restaurant, or whatever. (09/19/2008)

50th Anniversary Gifts

For my parents we had a big party, all of us kids chipped in and we rented a local hall. My nephew took a bunch of old pictures and made a slide show of my parents from the time that they went to their high school prom together all the way through today. It had us kids, their grandkids and greatgrandkids and it was set to music. The hall that we rented had a big screen TV in it and we played the CD on it. Everyone ooed an yawed all evening. We also had pictures of them everywhere. Best of all is we kept it all a surprise until they walked in the door. This was over a year ago, I still catch my mom watching that CD and looking at all the pictures they brought home that now cover the walls of their home. (09/20/2008)

By angbeth

50th Anniversary Gifts

We gave our parents a pendulum wall clock with a name plate on it saying their first names and 50th Wedding Anniversary and the date. They both loved it! They have taken that clock with them, moving to 3 different states, now.
(09/23/2008)

By Lynda

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