By bks from Dickson, TN
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I have been taking care of a patient in a retirement home and she has only been blind for the past ten years. Her husband was her caretaker and was abusive. He made her stay in bed and was homebound so, she was never taught to get around or function as a blind woman. He passed away a few months ago and i have have had a time trying to find activities for her. Thank you for the suggestions. I think she will enjoy some of these.
Hi, my M-I-L has cataracts & Alzheimer's, Things we try with her & ideas are:
Folding dish towels
2,001 Classic Commercials (DVD)
Hee-Haw Version 1 (DVD)
Massaging legs (for edema & circulation)
Purchased a "Fidgit" lap blanket
Women love Doll-babies (Talking)
Always use Glade plug-ins
Purchase "Fidgit" stuffed dogs (Unisex)
**Fidget = Something to keep their hands busy (w/buttons, zippers, Velcro, furry, floppy ears, ribbons, etc.
Hope it helps. :)
By Lelia Jo Cordell 08/06/2011
My prayers are with you as well, but here's a practical suggestion for entertainment: did your mother ever enjoy watching game shows like Jeopardy or Wheel of Fortune? If so, that's an activity that may help. Or perhaps you could find simple jigsaw puzzles, the kind geared toward preschoolers? The pieces are big and sturdy, and your mother could feel where in the board they go.
You said she enjoyed crafts? Perhaps the two of you could sort fabric scraps for a project. Discuss the different textures as she feels them, and do your best to vividly describe the colors or patterns. Anything that engages the senses and her mind - even though it's somewhat damaged - should help.
By Lee Taylor 08/02/2011
First of all, I know how hard it is to handle and aging parent with dementia. I'm sorry you are going through this.
Have you ever done any gardening with her. Plant seeds in cups? Water plants together? Grow some herbs and let her smell them and then make a tea or use the herbs in soups or butter or whatever you want. Or get some large beads and let her make necklaces, key chains and bracelets. Or, make Christmas ornaments with pipecleaners and beads and ribbon ( you can "string beads on pipe cleaners.) Or bake cookies. You could do the measuring and she could mix and make the cookie balls. You can give her a hand massage with a good smelling lotion. Or give her a manicure.
Just doing things together is important. Good luck. And God bless you during this difficult time.
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