Bulldog Has Become Afraid Of Men

RE: Bulldog Has Become Afraid Of Men Post By Kim from Fort Worth (Guest Post) (08/06/2008) I don't think it has anything to do with someone abusing him. It sounds to me (and I think Cesar Millan would agree) that he views you as his property and is becoming aggressive to men around you because he sees them as a threat to his claim on you, and his place as alpha male. You need to reprimand him when he does this to let him know it is unacceptable. A sharp "NO!" would probably help, though Cesar also does a scruff of the neck grab where he grabs at their neck like he's a mama dog nipping her puppy's neck, to get their attention and remind them who's boss. You have to nip this in the bud now because he is a big, strong dog and you don't want him to think it's okay to intimidate people. Hope this helps! Definitely check out Cesar's NEW book (not Cesar's Way....although good, it's a kind of bio, and his new one is focused more on just dog behavior). Report Spam or Abuse RE: Bulldog Has Become Afraid Of Men Post by trbrown22 (116) | (08/05/2008) Profile | Blog! | Contact We adopted a blue heeler mix pup from the shelter and we have had to work with her to over come her fear of men with hats or caps or any type of hood on their head. Once the hat is removed she is their friend. She even is afraid of my husband until he removes his cap, so our theory is that someone must have swatted her with their cap or hat and she is afraid of being swatted. We have worked with her by having friends with caps, remove them and be her friend, then place them back on her head while she is looking and still touching her so she can see that it doesn't change them into a bad person. But if she shows fear, the cap is taken back off. There has been one man that she took to right away and he never removed his cap. I feel he is an exceptional person and she picked up on it right away. He had no fear of her and she saw how sweet he was and had no fear of him. My husband and I were both happy and astonished. Once we told our friend what we were in awe of, he said, she knows I would not hurt her, I have one at home like her and I love dogs. We agreed she could sense his caring personality. So work with your bulldog, slowly, give it time to adjust and time to heal, watch all signs and actions of the men that come around. Take notice of their clothing, hats, hair, facial hair, foot wear. everything. And then expose your bulldog to the fear factor slowly and gently. The exposure to the fear will cause it to lessen. I can't think of the scientific wording right now. Good luck and keep loving that baby dog! Tina Report Spam or Abuse RE: Bulldog Has Become Afraid Of Men Post By CJB. (Guest Post) (08/05/2008) Several questions: (1) do you think he may have an injury, perhaps caused by a man? Have a vet examine him, especially his head and shoulders and ribs. (2) is it possible that he has been tormented by repairmen when you were not present? (3)is he ever left alone in the yard where a passerby could hurt him? Sometimes men think it shows their masculinity by kicking or teasing a dog. (NO, not all men!) Friends of ours witnessed a mother cheering as her little boys hit at my friend's restrained large dog. Said it taught their little creatures to be "brave". Dog never forgot. If you can, watch The Dog Whisperer on TV. Cesar (TDW) deals with many dog difficulties. Your bulldog looks like a real sweetheart. Report Spam or Abuse RE: Bulldog Has Become Afraid Of Men Post By (Guest Post) (08/05/2008) I'm a dog trainer, so maybe I can offer some advice. First rule out any health concerns, just to be sure. Then, monitor the way you react when a) the men approach and b) when your dog reacts. Dogs can "smell" our agitation; it has to do with how our body chemistry changes with our emotions. If he is picking up on your apprehension, then he could be following your reaction. He could also feel that he is the pack leader and therefore is responsible for protecting you. (He's at the age -- adolescence -- where many dogs often try to establish themselves higher up in the pack.) Do some research on pack order to find some simple (non-violent) ways to signal to your dog that you are the leader, not the dog. One way is to make the dog sit for everything (food, toys, touch, etc.), and to NOT let him pull on the leash during walks. Also, have him sit before entering/exiting doorways and do not let him up on the furniture or bed (except with your permission, if you want to let him continue to do these things). DO NOT PERFORM AN ALPHA ROLL. This is will encourage physical aggression with humans and he will eventually try to challenge you on a physical level at some time when he spots a weakness. I can't believe some trainers still teach this. I'm sorry, but it's a sign of an uneducated and/or abusive trainer. Also, consider if he is being rewarded in some way for this behaviour. One common mistake people make is to try to soothe a stressed animal with words and touch. This is a huge mistake. The dog thinks he is being praised for acting unstable, and thus will continue to do it and it will escalate. Instead, remain neutral. Try to remove your attention, eye contact, and touch, and even your presence if you can when your dog is acting unstable (nervous, fearful, aggressive). Obviously, do this safely; don't put anyone at risk -- the dog or the person. Remove the dog from the stimulus (i.e. man) until the dog has calmed down. Then you need to work on desensitizing and counter-conditioning. This is basically retraining your dog to not be afraid or nervous or aggressive by slowly exposing him to men. Distance and then time. Start with a far distance, as close as your dog is comfortable (look for subtle body language), then give treats when men are around, passing across the dog's path, but not toward the dog. When the dog is comfortable, extend the length of time of the exposure to men. When he is comfortable at, say, several minutes, then you can try decreasing the distance, a few feet at a time. This is a very simplistic explanation. There are lots of great books and websites that can help explain this to you in more detail. Oh, and if you can move or ask the men to move so that they are not approaching head-on, that will help. Approaching from the side is less threatening. For your dog's safety and the men's, don't let the men continue to approach. Tell your dog to sit and then lay down and then have the men walk away. This might teach your dog that if he sits the offending man will leave, and it should discourage aggressive behaviours because laying down is a submissive behaviour. Watch your dog watching the men. When he finally turns his attention calmly to you and looks at you (without you doing or saying anything to make it so), then praise him. He looked to you for guidance and you praised him for it. Oh, and don't scold his growling and barking in this case. He is giving warning signs and if you teach him to silence them, you'll have a dog that bites without apparent warning (because he's been taught to silence the early warning signals). Acknowledge the signals and deal with the situation that the dog is reacting to. I hope this helps. Report Spam or Abuse RE: Bulldog Has Become Afraid Of Men Post By (Guest Post) (08/05/2008) I adopted a rescued Lhasa Apso who is agressive only toward men-I believe she has been abused by a male and knows men by their scent-dogs can detect pheremones in humans and she may be reacting to a past history of even 1 male abusing her. Report Spam or Abuse RE: Bulldog Has Become Afraid Of Men Post By Me (Guest Post) (08/05/2008) It sounds like he has been abused by someone when you weren't around. Classic symptom. You need to make sure you are with him at all times when other people are around. You can have the men you want him to like feed him treats. Make sure he has a safe place to be away from everyone when others are around. If it IS true you need to find out who it is & toss him from your life. Report Spam or Abuse RE: Bulldog Has Become Afraid Of Men Post By Tracy B (Guest Post) (08/05/2008) There's a great "catch all" dog book out there called "Caesar's Way" by Caesar Milan. We have a 1 1/2 year old Chocolate Lab and my husband SWEARS by this book! I'm sure it must have something in it about stranger or men anxiety. Couldn't hurt to check it out from the library! Report Spam or Abuse