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My family is now not just one percent poor side, but my parents are poor now too. I have always lived frugally, but now my mom has returned to frugal living just to survive, and I am reteaching her what she has forgotten, and the new frugal sources as well as the old ones.
We go to the thrift stores together now, and I am teaching her how to appreciate and shop thrift stores. Dakota Boys and Girls Ranch is an excellent place to get new overflow from Target at cheaper than store price. Clothes for children can be had at a good cheap price and a third of the price too. The clothes we look for are Target brand, and new tag clothes. Instead of $25 jeans, it is $4 for the same jeans that are name brand.
I get a couple for my children, and my one niece whom I now raise. My brother whom is my niece's father has custody, and he told me to help raise his daughter, and the only way I know how to is frugally by sewing dresses made of yellow and pink. I get to crocheting too, as my source for mitts and scarfs for all my children is yarn from thrift stores.
My other past time is coupon clipping which my sons do with better accuracy than me. I passed that gene onto my children. We have a garden for our veggies, and seeds come cheaply from dollar stores in my area. I raise my children to be respectful and honest when it comes to living frugally. One doesn't have to cheat the system to do it.
Our rent is rent controlled by an understanding landlord, otherwise our rent would be a hardship on our family. We live in a two-income, limited budget of $1400 combined. We each get about $700 a month. This is the last year for rent return from the state, as they will not be doing it next year, so our rent return will be saved for clothes that are not thrift store buyable, or sewable.
Shoes are bought at a Payless Shoe store two times a year. One for winter, and one for the rest of the year. Shoes are a spendy adventure for a family of 14 that includes one niece, two adults, and eleven children. All of various ages. Hand-me-downs, thrift stores, and occasional garage sales help, but mostly hand-me-down clothes.
For furniture we go to the thrift store again. I also shop for dollar store bean bag chairs for my teen son and daughter. I love the fact that people donate Snoopy and Winnie the Pooh stuff. They sell them cheaply at rummage sales too, but I guess one person's clutter is our family's gain.
I shop at Family Dollar, and Dollar Tree in Dilworth and PR for groceries and personal items for my family. I stopped shopping at regular grocery stores long ago. I make my own cleaning supplies out of items like baking soda and vinegar. I have not spent one penny on bleach or 409 in years. I clean my windows with vinegar and lemons with water as a solvent. It works well.
My family is happy and we do not feel deprived one bit. Teach them young not to want name brand and you get frugal adults. That is what I always was taught and personally have been quoted by friends and family. My children have excellent imaginations, because I raised them to know that money can't buy you happiness or fun, if what you pay for isn't what you call fun. Living frugal has always been my way.
My grandma taught me to sew, knit, crochet, and cook from scratch. My mom taught me to clean without spending money that was not around with no job, and my grandpa taught me to fish which is what we eat fresh caught all summer long. My dad taught me car maintenance, so paying for oil changes never happened in our family which is what I teach my children, and DH was raised the same way I was raised frugally, so we teach that to our children. This is how we live frugally.
By Tanya J. from MN
I love, love, love your post and your ideas. You are very wise and thrifty.
I would like to add that as I grow older I find that a good brand of shoes lasts longer. I no longer buy my shoes at Payless because I find they make my back, hips, and legs hurt. I buy my shoes online from Easy Spirit Outlet. The shoes have cushioning inside that makes me feel like I'm "gelling."
The other thought I had is that I can't see how its more frugal to make your own cleaner products. I have just started buying mine at Dollar Tree. That store sells many name brand products. Washing soda and white vinegar are both pretty expensive. So I can't see how they save money. Although they might save the environment. I prefer to USE LESS of good products. My father used to add water to them, but I only measure them for use. Be careful with laundry products because the caps usually have a lot of lines inside. Use the very lowest line.
Good luck and keep up the good work of teaching others. I like using coupons, too.
Growing up wasn't that easy for a simple girl who is shy and almost doesn't talk in public. My family has had a lack of resources since I was a kid, as my parents were just starting a small family. I remember one time my parents told me and my older brother to hide during snack time because we only have water and fried bananas on our lunchbox. That is not because they thought we would feel ashamed of our snacks but because they didn't want us to see how other wealthy kids are enjoying expensive food that they can afford to buy in the canteen.
Every day, we were being reminded not to expose ourselves to expensive food, toys or school supplies and other things so we didn't get attached. Then I ended up not exposing myself too much to my classmates, that's why I was shy and I learned to be independent with regards to making my projects. I do have a lot of friends but never did I ask for help in how to make my work creative because I got used to doing things by myself. My friends can afford project materials that I cannot, but I can make things happen by looking for the cheapest and best alternatives.
Fast forward, I got a small job, got married and for more than eight years been waiting for a long time promised promotion. It is very frustrating knowing that my family has grown over the years and still this promotion hasn't come. We cannot afford for a house assistant, so one of us has to stay at home and look for the kids while one is working. Since I was the one who got a job first, I would be the sole breadwinner.
What can I do while searching for my luck? Well, I started searching online for extra income. I bake cakes and cookies to sell at my workplace and work during regular hours at the same time. Despite my hard work, I still get less. All my salary goes to household expenses, mostly just on bills and what's left will be the online income which actually is a very big help. Getting a hundred bucks a month online provides my family with milk and clothing for my kids. It provides our personal household necessities like hygiene kits, medicine and a little of some things, etc.
So far, despite these shortcomings in life, my family is healthy and happy. I have realized that my parents have given me the best lesson, which is to be strong in facing the struggles as I start building my own family. We were able to bring the trait of contentment and find the most resources out of scarcity of funds.
P.S. The attached image is a sample picture of my baked banana cakes which I used to sell every day in kindergarten schools and at my workplace.
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How do I live off of $750.00 a month? How do I budget this amount of money each month? I live in section 8 housing and my rent is 191.00 a month, but I have car insurance and car expenses. What should I save from this low amount of money
You are the only one that can figure out what things you can save on. Could you do without a car and ride buses or take cabs. I haven't had a car since 1997, I take cabs when I have to go someplace, but I really limit how often I go anyplace. I live off $700.00 a month. I am 74 years old.
I have renter's insurance, pay electricity, phone, internet. Cable is included in my rent. I am also on Section 8 housing and I pay $210.00 a month rent, and I get $170.00 a month in food stamps. Medicare Part D pays most of my prescription meds. I don't buy any magazines or things like that. I do spend a fair amount on scrapbooking supplies and genealogy, those are my major recreational expenses.
For all of you very frugal TF readers out there, I have a big dilemma. I am trying to help someone out with and was wondering if you could guide me. Is it possible to live on $1000 per month with a mortgage payment of $800 a month which includes the taxes? I am asking for a family of two, a parent and a 22 yr. old college student. The student's schooling costs are covered and he works part time for his expenses. The location is upstate NY which I mention because I know cost of living varies. Of course in this location there will be heating costs in the winter, but I know there is assistance available for that. Thank you for any advice you can give.
You are right there is assistance for heating, but it won't cover all of the expenses, anyway in SD, it doesn't. There is also other utility expenses, such as electricity, phone, etc. If they run an air conditioner in the summer the electricity bill will be quite high, Then there is food, clothing, and cleaning supplies. I don't see how with a mortage payment of $800 a month that they can live off $1000.00 monthly. Oh yes, there is also homeowner's insurance, car expenses such as insurance, gas, and general upkeep.
Hello, I am the mother of three teenagers, well one of them is only twelve, but my oldest, at only 16 is 6'5 and 230 lbs, and his dad is just as big. My problem is, although we both work, we have a very tight food budget, and I just can't seem to make it to the next payday with our food supplies. I want to cook healthy, I do frozen burritos from time to time, but that just doesn't do it. Any ideas how I can better stretch our food budget while not feeding them junk?
Tina, do you have an Aldi store nearby? You have to bag your food there and it is unfancy, but you can get so much there for your money. They have a new health food line also. I have two teenage boys and just shopping there has cut my food bill tremendously. Good luck to you!
I shop at Costco for bread, meat, milk, eggs and cheese. Super Walmart for most other things. I think one of my biggest money savers is serving smaller portions of meat. I am able to use less by cooking casseroles, rollups, etc. I also shop alot of the BOGOs and try to use coupons for those items. I am a stay at home mom with 4 children and my 14 year old is 6feet and 180 and does not seem to have finished his growth spurt yet so I have to really get alot of food for as little money as possible. Also, water or milk is all we have to drink at meals. I've heard that Aldi's is a great place to shop too.
Cook from scratch! Buy whole chickens on sale, bags of potatoes, fresh fruit on sale and in season. Avoid buying soda and junk food-empty calories devoid of nutrition. If your kids want them, let them spend their own money on them. Serve oatmeal or eggs for breakfast, rather than expensive cold cereal. Mix regular milk with powdered milk, diluted. If you serve it cold and don't tell them, they'll never know! Find bakery and grocery outlets in your area. Avoid frozen entrees and vegies in sauces. Buy frozen vegies plain and season as you like. Fruit is a fine dessert. Make baked apples. Make soup from scratch in a huge batch and freeze some of it. Serve with fresh bread, rolls or homemade muffins and that's a meal. Think ahead, be flexible enough when you shop to buy any bargain/sale things you see IF and only IF you can use it. It isn't a bargain if you can't use it or it will spoil!
Look for a scratch and dent store. Lots of bargins there, for instance bottled liter water for 39¢, veggies 5/$1. A dented can doesn't matter unless there is rust. Also, the dollar stores and flea markets are other sources.
I make lots of healthy casseroles with recipies I get online. Try Weight Watchers, and any of the magazine sites.
one of my all time fav's is beef and noodles or chicken and noodles. i usually cut a roast in half for beef and noodles add a couple of pakages of frozen noodles and make homemade mashed potatoes with chicken and noodles it only take 2 or 3 pieces of chicken . my son could match his dad in eating as a teenager so i learned to make cheap meals that would go far and were filling. also porcupine meatballs are good too just take some hamburger and add instant rice(uncooked)roll into meatballs place in pan add 1 can tomatoe juice and cook till brown once again we usually had homemade mashed potatoes to the meal because they are cheap to make and filling
There is a website and email group called Frozen Assets that's about cooking more than you need for a meal and putting the extra in the freezer. Then you can buy in bulk and save a lot of money. Many on the list cook just once or twice a month. I don't do that, but the ideas are really good and they list meals that freeze really well. It works even if you have just the freezer on the top of your fridge.
The biggest money saver in my opinion is planning ahead. Make a menu of healthy meals made with fresh unprocessed inexpensive foods before you go to the store. The once a month cooking ideas are great. Make homemade meatballs, use 2-3 lbs of hamburger +/or sausage and freeze what you don't use. Find spaghetti sauce on sale. This is a quick inexpensive meal.
I check the local store flyers and make a list as to what are the best deals where, and I buy all of my staples at the Aldi's store nearby. They are very cheap (ex: canned soups are like 39 cents, their ground beef is @ $1.89/lb). Go to aldis.com to see if there is a store in your area.
I also try to make a weekly menu before I go shopping, as this cuts out on having to make a store run for missing ingredients, or ordering out.
All the above Ideas are terrific. Here is My check list.
1. Make Pantry and Freezer Inventory
2. Make Fridge Inventory
3 Put magnetic Shopping list on fridge so when we are out of Item I can see to replenish
4. Stock up your pantries when stuff is on sale. My Local Shaws has 10 for $10.00 Items in every Flier.. I use this combined with the $5.00 and $10.00 Cupons they send me for each week of the month(Got this by going on their website and signing up for the rewards card) and Other coupns. I managed to stock up on at least 10 of each of my pantry staples in the last month alone while the entire grocery list was at least half the regular register price.
5. Clip Cupons
6. Get a good Recipe software program. Mine stores my recipes, Has a grocery list with prices that I update once a month, and makes a meal plan.
7. DO NOT BRING KIDS TO THE GROCERY STORE.(Grin I have found ways to get a stitter on grocery day, Even if you have to pay the sitter its usually cheaper than the guilt of saying no to the lil ones gimmes)
I hope this helps!
Acquiring meat is the main sore in my budget. I have a cow sitting outside that is waiting to go to the abatoir's and in the meantime, my freezer is quite low and boring. The fact that I have to now buy meat, literally doubles my grocery bill. Ugh! I find that scavenging the flyers after the holidays will net you some good deals. I just found a whole shank of pork for $1/lb. I bought a 22lb. chunk and cooked it up and divided it into meal portions and froze it, then went back to the store and got another one! I've been thinking of buying a whole pig from the butcher, but he charges $2.10/lb. This certainly was a better deal and if the budget could have stood it, I would have bought 4 of them and had a whole pig practically for $1/lb.!
Noodles, and rice! Potatoes are always cheap!...my kids are happy with a bologna sandwich and soup...I usually have one night a week where I prepare a really nice dinner and one or two nights I take the easy route with soup and sandwiches or spaghetti. I shop the stores for the loss leaders on the front page and my girls have an understanding that if we stick to shopping just from the list, on the way home we can stop by the dollar store and they can each pick out one thing. There are also coupon sites online where you can print your own coupons.
I like many other people are struggling financially. but unlike many others I have been in this boat for well over 5 years. I pay for my own health insurance. I own my car and condo outright. But I am living paycheck to paycheck hoping the next check will be enough and it never is. I keep having to borrow from my savings account. My good friend is helping me with telling me which bills to pay and when as I don't have the organizational ability to do that.
She has been doing that for 2 years and I haven't learned anything from her about how to do it myself. I don't go to movies, beauty salons, or other fun things. I see many people on relief and assistance and they have such nice clothing, have their hair done and here I am living honestly on only the money I earn and money a friend will give me every now and again. I can't get by and am having a really hard time. What else can I do?
Sandy from Baltimore, MD
How can I feed and clean a family of 5 for $200 biweekly?
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How is it that I am only making $1185.00 per month, for I am on disability and I always come up short? I have done everything I can think of to budget my money to make it possible to have a few dollars to put aside for an emergency.
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I am looking for tips for senior citizens who live on limited income.
How can I buy a nice TV on a very tight budget?
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