Locating an Ex-husband

November 30, 2011

Locating an Ex-husbandI need to know if he is living or whether he is deceased. How to search for this information?

By JD from NC



Bronze Feedback Medal for All Time! 141 Feedbacks
November 30, 20112 found this helpful

If you haven't already, try searching on facebook.

November 30, 20110 found this helpful

Just try the internet, period. You can find an amazing (and scary) amount of information about people online. If he has an unusual last name, it's considerably easier, of course.


Bronze Feedback Medal for All Time! 109 Feedbacks
November 30, 20111 found this helpful

There are a couple websites that may help you...


Silver Feedback Medal for All Time! 450 Feedbacks
December 1, 20110 found this helpful

I wonder why you need to know? If it concerns social security, they will know.


Silver Feedback Medal for All Time! 282 Feedbacks
December 1, 20111 found this helpful

I Googled. I Googled his name, and the names of everyone in his family, and ya know, it really is scary how much info is out there on the Internet, wowsa! I even got his house address and telephone number, his sister's Facebook page, and a ton of other info.


Bronze Post Medal for All Time! 104 Posts
December 1, 20110 found this helpful

Try You can search different parts of the country and if he's dead and buried you'll likely find his grave. I was doing a family tree and a woman at the cemetery told me about this site and I found a lot of burial places of relatives all over the country. It will also tell you of obituaries and you may find information there you can use. Also try Also try


One of these sites, don't remember which but has census records. The latest years are not listed yet though. If you do a search, type in his name and the census will list all the people in that household. You'll also find where he lived at the time of that census. Depending on how old he is, this may help you, or it may not. In any case, you'll certainly learn about your ancestors and you'll have a lot of fun in the process. Good luck!

December 2, 20110 found this helpful

You can also try the Salvation Army. They are especially helpful when you truly can't find someone, if they may be homeless or an alcoholic (I don't know your situation, so I am not saying this is the case).


Over the past 5 years we have gotten calls and letters off and on, from the SA, someone looking for their grandfather with the same name as my husband. Hope you find what you need!

December 2, 20110 found this helpful

Thank you for posting this. I too have often wondered if my ex was still alive. He is my eldest daughter's father and she never knew him.

Answer this Question

3 More Questions

Here are the questions asked by community members. Read on to see the answers provided by the ThriftyFun community.

March 14, 2010

Tips and ideas for locating your ex-husband. Read other people's ideas and post your ideas below.


July 2, 20101 found this helpful

Hire a tracker to find him they are expensive but worth it.

September 29, 20160 found this helpful

My ex and I have been separated for 17yrs. We aren't divorced and he married someone else in 2002. I want a divorce but don't know how to get in contact with him. I want him to pay for it.

October 4, 20190 found this helpful

How do I do this

Answer this Question


ThriftyFun is one of the longest running frugal living communities on the Internet. These are archives of older discussions.

March 24, 2010

I am looking for my dad; he lives in Detroit MI on the westside. Where do I go to find him for free? Or who can I hire to find him?


March 14, 2010

How can I go about finding my ex-husband? I want to change my kids' surname.

In This Page
Consumer Advice General AdviceMarch 27, 2013
Valentine's Ideas!
St. Patrick's Ideas!
Birthday Ideas!
Better LivingBudget & FinanceBusiness and LegalComputersConsumer AdviceCoronavirusCraftsEducationEntertainmentFood and RecipesHealth & BeautyHolidays and PartiesHome and GardenMake Your OwnOrganizingParentingPetsPhotosTravel and RecreationWeddings
Published by ThriftyFun.
Desktop Page | View Mobile
Disclaimer | Privacy Policy | Contact Us
Generated 2024-01-24 11:41:03 in 12 secs. ⛅️️
© 1997-2024 by Cumuli, Inc. All Rights Reserved.