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My sons' father recently passed away' They are 40 and 37. Dad never paid a dime of child support. Sister is beneficiary on the IRA. Shouldn't that go to the sons? Also what about Social Security?
Your sons are too old to get survivor benefits from Social Security. It is my understanding that a person can choose anyone they want to be the beneficiary of their IRA. It doesnt even have to be their spouse.
The beneficiary he selected can be any person he chooses after he passes.
As far as social security, up to age 18/19 (if still in elementary or secondary school full time) or disabled before 22 and remain disabled.
Too late to collect any money.
It is sad that you did not pursue getting child support when your sons were younger but perhaps you had your reasons at that time. Or perhaps you tried and no funds were available?
Your children are adults now and it is way too late to think about child support now. You should have done this 30 years ago. As for an IRA, he doesn't have to leave it to his kids. He can leave this to anyone he wants.
My ex-husband had his bank account frozen for back child support. How long will it take for me to see any of that money?
Freezing the account only means he can't take money out of it. It may not help you any at all. The main factor here is how much money was in his account.
My ex-husband told me they took out 5,000.00 for back child support from his lump sum payment along with continuing to take out $136.00 a month until back support is paid. My question is when in the world will I receive it? It's been almost 2 months now and I called my support office and they know nothing.
I am on SSI now, but that shouldn't keep me from receiving what's owed or does it? Nobody can tell me anything or if it takes awhile. I have never received a TANF check, but I did get help with food stamps and a medical card for my child back when he wasn't paying. She's in her twenties now and I would think they would give me back support. I just need to know how long they hold it before contacting the Department of Jobs and Family Services.
You should go to your local Social Security office as soon as possible because once that back payment check is cashed it will be very difficult to obtain any of those funds.
I am not sure if your husband is telling you the truth but if you have not had any communication from the Social Security office then you most likely are not in line for that check.
You do not need anything from your husband so do not wait until time has passed and you miss out on what should be yours.
Do you know who filed papers with the SS office for you to be able to receive a payment of any kind?
Do you have any paperwork from the SS office saying you will receive anything?
All of this is what you would have received if benefits were going to be paid to you.
Go to your SS office ASAP. Please do not wait to get any kind of papers from anyone - you are the one that can get this information from the SSA.
You do not need proof of anything except your SS number as well as your husbands (if you have it) and your child's SS number.
I would really be surprised if they have anything on record about your case but then sometimes government agencies are slow but you need to know and they are the only people who can tell you.
How I do I go about receiving owed child support payments from my father at the age of 23 even though my mom is dead and now he wants her death certificate to obtain his license back after suspension?
Do not give him the needed death certificate. Contact Legal Aid services in your community to get good advice. It's usually free. The deadbeat may be able to get the death certificate without getting it from you so beat him to the punch and file for the money that is due you first.
Call the Attorney Generals office in your state and ask. I doubt you can get back child support but they should be able to tell you. Or, ask the question in your search engine but be sure to include what state you need info for.
If I am 20 years old and my father pays my mother back child support is there a way I can go after that for me to receive it instead of my mother? I live in New Jersey.
The back support that your mother is receiving is money that should have been paid for your care when you were younger (under 18-19). So I believe the answer to your question would be - no - you would not have any legal right to those payments.
My mother was owed tens of thousands of dollars in child support. This was between 25 to 35 years ago. Back then in Philadelphia there was no enforcement. My father was murdered about 10 years ago and would have been about 75 today. Can my mother collect anything from Social Security or any back pay? They were married 20 years.
Only the Social Security Administration can answer your questions. You can find some information via their website but should have all of your questions answered by visiting their local office.
My father paid all of his child support to my mother who had passed away in 2012. Someone recently told me that there is a list with my mother's name on it for child support back pay and they could not contact her to give her the money they were holding. I went to the child support offices in my county, they told me something about taking it to court and for what I really don't know.
I'm of age now, I'm her only child. That money should go to me, I am trying to support my own home and that money that has just been sitting there. It would really come in handy. If anyone knows what I can do to get them to hand over my money that would be amazing!
My ex owes $65,000 in child support arrears. The automatic deduction from his monthly navy retirement income of $1,400 is only $100. He also receives SSI. He is now in a nursing home. My DOR caseworker won't contact the navy to request an increase in the child support arrears deduction. (He is out of state living in Florida, the case is in Massachusetts). What can I do to get an increased deduction?
I raised my grandson from 3 months to 11 years. At the 11th year Steven moved in with his mother.
Years later I located the father of my grandson. We all did the kumbaya thing, etc., I told him that I wanted him to help Steven and put him through a trade school. 6 years later and after many heated arguments Steven is going to a trade school, but his father has stuck him with half the bill.
Long story short, can I collect child support from the father for the years of his life that I totally supported him? He has a good business and his wife is well placed in medical science.
I have a question and hope you guys can help. I'm 28 and I found my dad. I would like to know can I still charge him for unpaid child support?
You can certainly try to collect past due child support, however, any state agency will probably not be interested in filing collection efforts as you are now an adult and the case is very old. They already have far too many current cases to litigate now. However, you can retain an attorney to file a legal claim of unpaid benefits. Of course, this is an expensive matter as the attorney will require a fee (retainer) up front before researching and filing a case on your behalf. Considering your eventual legal costs of a suit against your father, you must be sure that he has the money and other financial resources to win any suit against him. If he does not have money, etc., to claim, any legal action will only be worth the paper it is printed on. Good Luck.
If you know now that your father does have significant financial resources to pay unpaid child support, you can ask your attorney to first suggest a meeting with both parties to discuss a settlement now to avoid much more legal expense on both sides in the future. If you father refuses a settlement attempt, you can then pursue formal litigation.
And then there's the issue of whether you want a relationship with your dad. Going after him for money sounds to me like a great way to keep him out of your life.
Were you trying to find your dad or did this just "happen"?
If you were looking for your dad then I think the question would be - why? because you wanted to be able to see him sometime or was the reason just for money?
You do not tell very much so it is difficult to even offer intelligent suggestions.
How long has your dad been "missing" and why has he not been around? It seems we can assume your parents were divorced many years ago but why is it not your mother who is seeking back support or whoever your guardian was during your younger years? This is assuming there was a legal amount of support mentioned in the divorce. I am not sure the money would be paid to someone that did not provide the support as that is what it was set up for.
The person who suggested getting everyone together seems like a really good suggestion.
You will need a lot of legal papers before approaching an attorney. Copies of your parent's divorce papers, something showing how much money your dad paid (of course the burden of proof will fall to him), copy of your birth certificate, and there may be more information needed but I feel sure your legal guardian during your younger years will also need to be present (if available).
I am not experienced with this type of legal action so all of this is just "talk" but common sense should prevail and it is difficult for me to see someone being able to collect money for something that was paid by someone else.
If I am mistaken in my "thinking" please correct my post as I am always willing to learn.
What can I do if my biological father owes child support that he has never paid? I am in my 30s and he is 81. He denied me in the beginning and still does, but I have the original court documents stating he is the father and has to pay a certain amount, as well as the original DNA test. I know he isn't gonna be here much longer, if he hasn't already died (I don't know). He also lives in Florida and their laws are a little different than my state. Can someone help me out with some answers?
My daughter's father has not yet paid back the child support he was order to pay 13 years ago; his family has been hiding. My daughter will be 18 next month and she receives SSI. I was told from someone that he receives SS. What should I do?
My daughter's father has started receiving SSDI and now my daughter is receiving 50% of what he receives. He was paying child support and he is current, now they are taking the child support away because she is receiving SSDI benefits. My question is, since he is current with his child support does she still receive the back pay?
I'm currently 30. My parents divorced in 1991 or 1992 in Illinois where I currently reside. My father was ordered to pay child support and never did. He has since passed away back in 2007. He was married at the time of his passing while living out of state. Having said all this, does a chance exist of me still trying to collect back child support? Is collecting through Social Security even a legit option?
My son is 19. We just found out his dad has been getting disability. Can my son get back pay from his dad?
You do not clarify what type of payments the father is receiving however, if he receiving SSA Disability benefits, you can contact the SSA in your area for an appointment to discuss provision of unpaid child support. Bring originals and copies of all documents regarding birth, child support orders, etc., for the appointment.
If the father receives other disability payments, you can contact the provider for information on obtaining payments for your son.
I think the age limit is 18 unless a full time student or the 19 year old is disabled himself. Go to socialsecurity.gov.
I am not really sure what you mean by "back pay"..
If you have a court ordered support agreement and his dad has not paid as agreed, then you may be able to seek a court order to receive some of this money. You will have to present all types of legal papers showing you provided support and his dad did not.
My daughter's father met her once, and hasn't seen her since. He gives fake addresses, switches phone numbers, and refuses to communicate. So when he stopped paying child support, it was like pulling teeth to find out why. Come to find out, he's been in the hospital for a month. I'm still not sure as to why, his condition, or for how long he's expected to be in there, because no one can give that information due to HIPPA. My question is this: If he's seriously incapacitated, such as being in a coma, what on earth do I do about the support of my daughter? Thank you for any words of wisdom you can provide, as we live under poverty guidelines and the support we receive greatly helps put food in her mouth.
Unfortunately, there is very little you can do in your present situation. If your state, county or local area has programs to collect and pay child support, you can try those possibilities. Depending upon whatever arrangements were made regarding the payments, you can try discussing your problem with an attorney or Legal Aid, although Legal Aid can take forever to help you. If the father has any property or other assets, you can pursue litigation with an attorney to try to collect. This, of course, requires money to pay the attorney to search for possible assets and file actions to get payment.
I apologize for painting a rather depressing picture but from your information, it appears the father is careful with his information and, even if you paid an attorney to find possible assets, collecting on them is another expensive battle.
The only upside here is, if the father dies, you can try to collect survivor's benefits from Social Security. However, the father must have worked and paid into Social Security long enough for any benefit to be paid.
If the father is permanently unable to work because of medical problems, and has paid enough into the Social Security system, your child can collect benefits through Social Security.
First - you do not make it clear whether you were married and now divorced?
If that is the case, then child support agreement should have been through the court and they should help you obtain payment.
I know this does not always work out but they should be able to help you find out condition of the father's health.
If you were not married and just had an agreement with the father, then all bets are off until you are able to prove he is the child's father.
You may be able to go to the Social Security office (with all legal information - SS numbers for all three involved, any marriage, birth and divorce documents) and explain why you want to file. They may tell you what type of information you need from his doctors.
Of course, any benefits now, or in the future, will depend on whether he worked and paid sufficient SS taxes to qualify for benefits.
My husband passed away in October. Is the IRS going to take my refund for the child support he's been back paying for his adult children?
I receive Social Security income. Right now I'm about to receive a one-time lump sum of back child support will that affect my SSI?
I'm 28 and have 2 brothers 27 and 29. We all have the same father. My mother raised us in Illinois. My dad owes 82000 in back support, but Indiana couldn't find him. That was where the order was so they transferred it to Illinois, but now Illinois said he doesn't owe it, but Indiana said he does. My dad is doing good and my mother is still trying to get out of debt from raising us. Could anyone help me out? Illinois also said your kids are grow up what do you want us to do. I have a kid and my son gets his money every week so if I stop paying for it when he hits 18 mine will be forgotten.
If a father was never ordered to pay child support, is he still responsible to pay back child support, even if the child is a grown up now? We were never married and I never took him to court for anything. My son is 42 now, but I heard that his father should be held responsible for some kind of monetary support to the mother.
My ex owes me thousands of dollars in child support from 40 years ago. Can someone tell me if there is a statute of limitations on collecting it if I live in California, but the decree was made in Nevada?
Both California and Nevada have no limitation of collecting unpaid child support. However, Nevada limits collecting child support if there is no enforceable order of support. If there is no actual legal order, Nevada has a limit of only 4 years prior for collection. You should consult with an attorney in California on how to collect in Nevada and California. The handy site below has this information: