Asking Someone to Sadie Hawkins

January 7, 2011

a girl in a formal dressWhat's a cute way to ask the guy I like to Sadies?

By Jocelyn from Las Vegas, NV



February 6, 20110 found this helpful
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For the girl who wants to ask her soccer player boyfriend- you could say wrap up a little soccer ball or soccer toy/ merchandise and say "will you KICK it with me at sadies?" or you could show a french horn with music notes and say "we'll have a BLAST if you go to sadies with me". Some other phrases you could use- "we'll have a BALL", "don't PASS on this opportunity to have fun"... just play around with different soccer/music words.

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October 27, 2010

So coed is on the 20th and I wanna ask this guy that I really like. I've already asked him through text, but I wanna ask him in a better way. I can't come up with anything good. Please help.

By Erika Castaneda from Pocatello, ID


October 30, 20100 found this helpful
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I have a really cute idea, its plain and simple. If your in a ceramics class at school, or if you have a friend who is make a little red heart in ceramics and carve out "sadie's?" or "tolo?" or whatever you call your dance, then when its finished go up to who you would like to ask really casually and be like "hey!


look at this thing I made in ceramics!" and he probably will be surprised because you said casually so he wasnt expecting that. I decided I'm going to do that for tolo :) I can't wait!

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October 13, 2011

How do I ask a guy to the Sadie Hawkins dance as just friends, without it being weird?

By b.f.


October 14, 20110 found this helpful
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If this is a guy you know fairly well and are friends, just ask him, no matter who he is it is best to just ask. All he can do is say "no."

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January 10, 2012

I want to ask my boyfriend to Sadies, in a cute way. I want to ask him at his soccer game, but I can't think of anything exotic to do for him. I already know he will say yes, but I still want to ask him. Help!

By Kitty kat


January 10, 20120 found this helpful

Have you stopped to think if you ask him in public he might be embarrassed? Just ask him in private, like somebody approaching being an adult would do.

October 10, 20130 found this helpful

Make a sign that says "I can't believe I had the balls to ask you to the dance!" and put it on his locker, and inside his locker put a bunch of baseballs :)

October 1, 20150 found this helpful

If you want to ask him at his soccer game why don't you have 7 guys on the team have a letter on them (1 with ?) and after the game they can lift up there shirts one by order saying "Sadies?"

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September 26, 2016

I want to ask this guy who does boxing to Sadies in a few weeks, but I'm not sure what to put on the poster. Any ideas?

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August 19, 2016

My boyfriend is a football player and I don't know how to ask him at all. So can someone please help me.

He also plays baseball, but for now it's football and I need some really nice ideas :)

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November 4, 2013

My boyfriend loves Superman and I want to ask him to Sadie's and have it be something to do with Superman, but I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?

By Eliz


December 12, 20130 found this helpful

The guy I asked last year was really into superman too! (unfortunately someone asked him the day before me, but regardless my way was super cute!) I absolutely love cards! And the guy I asked was really nerdy and kind of funny about art stuff, like he wasn't an art nerd but he liked art like his favorite part of the school year was getting to buy new crayons so doing a cool kindergarten art project card was perfect for him.


I took some nice paper and made a card and put the superman logo on the cover in crayon with glitter glue outlining it (like i said, kindergarten art project!). and on the inside (the best part) it said "I know we haven't talked much but will you be my superman and go to sadies with me?" but since yours is your boyfriend you could say something like "You've been my superman for a while now. I need some saving right now! Save me from what would be a boring night without you and be my sadies date!" or something like that

January 6, 20140 found this helpful

Get a superman shirt, one of the ones with the logo on it. Then tape a piece of paper that says "adies?" Next to the "s" in the logo.


Wear a jacket or button down on top of it. When you see him rip open the shirt or jacket to reveal your message.

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March 11, 2013

What's a good way to ask my hockey player bf to Sadies?

By Bao


March 12, 20130 found this helpful

If he is your steady boyfriend, does he even have to be asked? When I was in school if people were boyfriend/girlfriend, it was taken for granted that you would attend special events together. Nobody had to be asked. But if you have to ask him, why not just ask, you don't need a cutesy way to do it. Cutesy is so Kindergarten-like.

October 6, 20130 found this helpful

Umm I have a steady bf for 11 months today and I am still looking for a cute way to ask him to a dance at my school. We go to different schools so I am inviting him to the dance and sorry I don't have any ideas of my own but I just wanted to say I think it will be really adorable and not kindergardenish at all.


It will be super cute and he will love it no matter how you ask! Good luck!

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November 1, 2011

What would be a cute way to ask a guy to a sadies? He plays baseball and he's on the school team but we go to different schools.

By Maya


November 2, 20110 found this helpful

Forget the cute; just ask him. I presume you guys know each other. Also make sure students from other schools can attend this dance. A lot of schools don't allow students from other schools at their dances. I don't know why everybody now thinks things have to be done in a cutesy way.

January 14, 20140 found this helpful

Play catch with him after school or something with a baseball. Write it on a baseball and throw the ball to him. When he gets the ball, he should read it. (:

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August 17, 2011

I need really good ideas for asking my friend to Sadies.

By Jazmynee from CA


August 17, 20110 found this helpful

Just out right ask him. You don't need a clever, cutesy way of doing it.


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August 18, 20110 found this helpful

:"Will you go to the Sadie Hawkin's dance with me?"
"I'd like to take you to the Sadie Hawkins dance"

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March 20, 2014

There's a new guy at my school and I'm the first friend he's made. I really want to ask him to Sadie's, but I'm nervous and can't find a creative way to ask him that suits him. He's into music and skating. Can anyone help?

By CC Marie


March 21, 20140 found this helpful

Just ask him, plain & simple.

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March 1, 2014

I want to ask the guy I like to the Sadie Hawkins dance, but I don't know how to. He really likes camouflage and is going to join the military. What should I do?

By Dakota W. from Waterford, CA


September 10, 20150 found this helpful

Get a posterboard and write "even an army couldn't stop me from asking you to Sadies".

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February 1, 2014

Well there is this guy I have a huge crush on and he is a wrestler. Sadies is coming up and I want to ask him, but I want it to be related to wrestling. Not something to over the top, but enough to get him surprised and no I do not want to tackle or pin him lol.

By Lindsay


January 9, 20160 found this helpful

Get a piece of white paper and put it on the wrestling mat so when he gets to practice he can see it and he'll have to say "yes"

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November 17, 2013

The Sadie Hawkins (girls ask the guys), dance is coming up soon and there is this guy in my class I really like. He just made the soccer team and he likes riding motorcycles. I really want him to say yes. How should I ask him?

By M


October 10, 20140 found this helpful

Get a soccer ball and write " wanna kick it at homecoming with me " on it with both of your names.

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February 15, 2013

I'm asking this guy to Sadie's and I want to ask him a cute way that involves football because he's on the team.

By Bob


February 17, 20130 found this helpful

I would get a tiny football, like a kid's size, and write "would you go to Sadie's with me?" on it with a sharpie marker. It will be a cute souvenir for him too!

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January 26, 2013

How do I ask him to Sadies? He plays baseball and loves Oreos. I want to do it in a funny, but cute, way.

By Lucy


October 19, 20130 found this helpful

One guy asked me by getting a box of Oreos and wrote "I'd be 'filled' with joy if you went to the dance with me" and then another not that said "search your fillings" he wrote the letters of his name in the Oreos frosting but I would recommend just putting a piece of paper in the middle cause it was hard to make out the letters

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January 4, 2013

I want to ask the guy I like to Sadies, but I want to make a cute poster because in each of his classes I'm gonna leave baseballs that spell out Sadies. After school I want to have a cute poster that says something, any ideas?

By Jasmine


January 7, 20130 found this helpful

It could say "It would be a hit/grandslam/homerun if you went to sadie's with me."

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April 1, 2012

How do you ask a guy to sadies? I am not looking for something too big, but something cute and something not a a lot of girls do. He is on the baseball team at school. Please help.

By jvt


January 29, 20130 found this helpful

Well, I dont personally know how much it would cost, but Buy Baseballs (real or toy ones) and write a letter for the dance on each of them and have them at his locker or house if you live near by. It's a cute idea I guess.

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March 6, 2012

I want to ask this guy to Sadies, but hes shy and doesn't talk much so it's hard to make conversation. I need an easy way (something I can bring to school) that isn't too big, but just enough to make him smile :) What should I do?

By Melissa O


March 7, 20120 found this helpful

Find out what he is interested in. It is a great ice breaker, if you know what he likes; music, sports, fishing. LOL Good luck!

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March 2, 2012

What's a creative cute way to ask a guy to Sadie Hawkins?

By Sabrina


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March 2, 20120 found this helpful

Why do you need a creative, cute way to ask a guy to anything? Especially for Sadie Hawkins Day, everybody knows that is special for girls to ask guys.


However, in this day and age, it is entirely proper for girls to ask guys for dates. Just ask!

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March 1, 2012

I want to ask my boyfriend to sadies in a cute way, it's already a for sure yes, but I still want him to feel special. He is also a baseball player. Any ideas?

By Alyssa


December 15, 20130 found this helpful

Write "will you come to Sadie Hawkins with me" on a baseball and ask to play catch with him!

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June 23, 2011

I really want to ask this guy to a dance kind of like a Sadies, and he is a soccer player and a swimmer. Any cute ideas how I can work his sport (s) into how I ask him?

By :)


June 23, 20110 found this helpful

You could write a cute little message on a soccer ball. in each lil octagon shape you could put a word or a message. Perhaps, "will you go to the dance with me" then you could either kick the ball over to his way, and he will pick it up and see the message, or just hand him the ball? Either way I think that would be a cool way to ask him out! Good luck and have fun!

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December 27, 2010

We're having a Sadie Hawkins dance and my boyfriend is a drum player in a band. I don't know a creative, cute way to ask him. Any ideas?

By paulsen from Pleasanton, NE


December 27, 20100 found this helpful

Get a drumstick and write your invitation on it and tie a bow on it in his favorite color. Use a thin permanant marker.

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January 22, 2008

The guy I'm asking to Sadies is on the varsity swim team. I need an idea how to ask him.



By U*u*U (Guest Post)
January 24, 20080 found this helpful

Approach him when he is NOT with his friends, smile and say "Hi. Will you go to the Sadies with me?"

Guys hate "cutsie-pooh" things, and can easily be embarrassed in front of their friends. Your best bet is to be simple and direct.

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January 7, 2011

So I wanna ask my boyfriend to the Sadie Hawkins dance. Does anyone have any ideas on how to ask? I'm desperate and I need help soon, please.


October 18, 2010

I need ideas on how to ask my boyfriend to Sadies. Does anyone have any ideas?


March 5, 2010

I am planning on asking one of my friends for 4 years now to Sadies. I need to do it either tomorrow or Thursday at the latest.

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